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The Reality of Furries
I recently saw a post regarding various fetishes. Among the list was furries. Some people knew that "furry" is actually a fandom, but I thought this was a great opportunity to explain the reality of furries.
The Definition
The core premise of furries is that we like anthropomorphic animals (animals with human characteristics such as wearing clothes, walking on two legs, or talking). A lot of this enjoyment of anthro animals can be traced back to characters from movies or cartoons when furries were young such as Disney movies like Robin Hood or Warner Bros' Looney Tunes. Being a furry is seriously only about this though. Everything else is kind of varying degrees of enjoying anthropomorphic animals.
For a more relatable comparison, think of sports fans. Some fans simply watch games weekly, others tailgate for hours before every game, and others use body paint or elaborate costumes to show their team pride. Furries are similar in that some simply attend fur meets or talk to other furries online, some wear a tail and/or ears to meets, and others dress in full costumes.
The Characters
One of the biggest aspects of the furry fandom are the characters. Furries usually create these characters as representations of themselves, as characters they wish they could be, or as characters used in art. When these characters represent a person, it's often known as a fursona. These characters are the features of stories, art or suits made by artists. The artists are often furries themselves, but not necessarily. Some people create this art as paid work regardless of their own affiliation. The suits worn by some furries is very similar to cosplaying as well. The major difference being that furries usually cosplay as a character they created instead of a character from an anime/manga/etc.
Furries in Public
Most people have probably seen furries in public either on the news, in videos, or in person. The most widely known are probably furry conventions (furcons). There are many furcons across the world throughout the year (roughly 50 give or take). Furries also gather for meet-ups (furmeets) in restaurants, parks, bowling alleys, people's homes, or many other locations. Furries can even be seen in events like parades or other conventions.
The only real purposes of these public gatherings for furries are to meet people, talk with friends, and have fun. As a general rule, furries are more than happy if you go up to them. Feel free to talk to them like anyone else. Just be courteous and ask if you're unsure about something. Many fursuiters may be ok with getting a hug, but it's better to ask to be sure. As long as you're respectful of furries, they'll generally respect you as well (though they may get loud out of excitement or due to the large crowd).
Some furries will even hold or participate in events for charity to help people, communities, areas, or animals.
The Misnomers
I almost didn't include this section, but I thought it was important to address some negative press the fandom has received over the years. People may have heard some things about furries that they think are true for all of them. I'll try to address these as best as I can.
Furries think they're animals.
While furries very often create animal characters to represent themselves or be known as the character to most people, most furries are fully aware that they are human. Furries often pretend to be animals, but only because it's fun to do so. It's also easy to be emotionally expressive (it's pretty easy to know if a dog is excited or sad, so a furry could act the same way to show they're excited to see someone or sad about something that happened). There are some furries who feel they are an animal trapped in a human's body (known as therians). Therians make up a small percentage of the furry fandom.
Furries dress up like animals and have sex.
Partial (usually a head, hands and feet) or full animal suits (called fursuits) aren't uncommon among furries, but not every furry wears a fursuit. In fact, the majority of furries will never own a fursuit. Of those who do own one or more fursuits, only a fraction of those will actually have sex while wearing one. Fursuits are also expensive even if made by yourself, difficult to clean, and easily cause overheating. Because of that, it's rarely ideal to use the suits in sexual acts. Overall, only a small percent of furries will have sex while dressed as an animal.
Furries have sex with animals.
Some people think that since furries love animals so much, they have sex with animals. Or someone may have heard of one furry who had sex with an animal and think it applies to all furries. Bestiality is just as taboo to furries as anyone else. Some furries have even been ostracized from the fandom for such acts. While some furries may participate in this or think it's not bad for others to participate, it is still only condoned by a small percentage of people in the fandom.
Closing Thoughts
Furries are generally just people who love animals and want to have fun. Their methods may not be conventional, but they're usually just trying to enjoy life. After a hard week at work or with issues plaguing someone at home, it's fun to go out and have fun with big fuzzy animal people. Hopefully this sheds some light on the fandom and helps people to be more understanding of furries.
Special thanks:
Antnommer: https://www.flickr.com/photos/antnommer/
The Desert Fox: https://www.flickr.com/photos/68182932@N05/
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ChibiKia
I guess this freaks me out less than a guy with a hairy hulking beer belly painting it blue for a sports event.
Kreoko
Eh, I've had so many bad experiences with furries..
MegaMeganLeMurph
So far I've been pretty accepted as a furry by my friends in family. Yeah they gave me crap about it at first but once I (1/2)
MegaMeganLeMurph
Explained it to them they accepted me and was fine with it. (2/2)
savanik
As an event director for a convention, I dislike fur suiters. So many are divas with nothing but demands they outweigh the cool ones.
PheagleAdler
You should probably not be director for that convention, also I know plenty of suiters who are not divas.
TheRuggedProfessorNeckbeard
Furries are really easy to troll on the internet, which is why they got so much negative attention in the past.Furry internet drama was lulz
MunusCatticusTheThird
Thank you for this. I hope the people who read this now realize we just like to make lil kiddos happy.
Spaceheater2CS
Lol up voting for "fursona"
Finnlee
Absolutely LOVE when Anthrocon is in town. I'm fascinated by full fursuits and every furry I've ever met there has been awesome and so nice!
Lierofox
I won't be going this year. :( (I've been there 2010, 2013 and 2014)
Finnlee
Awww, boo. My friends aren't going to make it this year, either, so I don't get to see them. Maybe next year!
Lierofox
I'll see how I feel about 2016, it just hasn't been worth the time/money/air travel most of the years I've gone.
Finnlee
Really? Well, I live here, so most of that doesn't apply. Are there other cons you prefer?
Lierofox
Further Confusion in San Jose, CA (2 hour drive) and Midwest Furfest in Chicago, IL are the only other furry cons I've been to.
hiromagic
Not one of you but I support you. Please enjoy life at its fullest, embrace loving and kindness, and ignore the ignorance.
dontyoudaretouchmybutt
While not a furry myself, I do have friends in the fandom (I do art for them, badges mainly). They really are kind people. It just (1/3)
dontyoudaretouchmybutt
pains me to see that even on imgur they are thought of as freaks. Come on, people. These are friends just having fun. It sucks that (2/3)
dontyoudaretouchmybutt
they have such a bad rap that people wish harm on them. Midwest Furfest was attacked with poison gas, people were hospitalized. It's sad :(
Lierofox
I was there for that. A friend of mine was among the 19 hospitalized, it happened in the stairwell just outside their room party.
Baconweaver
Did he recover fine?
Lierofox
He seemed to recover just fine, no knowing if there's any long term effects but he's "healthy" now.
ZombiesTaste
Not sure why this is getting downvoted! I'm so happy to see someone take the time to explain the fandom in the positive light that it is
basicwhitelich
No matter how small the anime convention, there will be at least 2 furries.
TalDemas
+1 for comprehensiveness.
dontyoudaretouchmybutt
Also, some of these suits are awesome, and cost $1000-5000. HQ suits in my replies (1/?)
FastF0x
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Lierofox
I'm disappointed in the lack of Tycho Aussie's suit. :<
dontyoudaretouchmybutt
I hadn't heard of it, but it is pretty neat now that i've googled it :)
ArsTorok
As a dragon: Thank god someone actually did this post.
foxyfluff
I think one of the things you did wrong with the article was you told people what we are not. Uncle Kage in his panels
foxyfluff
says not to tell people what we are not,because he compares it to telling people about the bad things about bikers and saying that telling
foxyfluff
people what they are not gives people the wrong idea about the thing. Had to use reply mode,text limit
BlueberryPitbull
Sex is not wrong! For the furs who DO have sex in suit, you are awesome!
PheagleAdler
That's not awesome but no one is saying sex is wrong. Ruining a suit for that reason is dumb though.
bufferkiller
I did not know 90% of these things.
Baconweaver
Well what was the 10% then?
bufferkiller
I was aware of that 10%.
75PercentSith
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BeanieTheNeko
You make so much sense
Slipperdship
Are you a furry OP?
Ayjis
I am. I've been in the fandom for about 2.5 years. Plus my collaborators, we have about 14 years of experience between the three of us.
ISearchForFurries
Good! Now come with me!
Ayjis
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pp0801
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pollomagnifico
Its the purple haired half leoard half dog half deer bs that pissed me off. Way too many superspecialsnowflakes.
TehKey
Thank you, @OP. Your efforts have expanded my world view further and given me a stronger sense of the hive mind ignorance that surrounds us.
Ayjis
I'm glad you enjoyed the post and learned something about us! =)
TehKey
Sure did. It's a shame that not everyone can be open minded.
fuckbeans
KRAZExF35
This is exactly how it is with Bronies. Nobody gives a flying fuck about this shit. They're weird, Stop shoving shit in everyone's faces.
fuckbeans
I got no problem what a person does in their own bedroom. Be a furry. A masochist. A foot lover. We don't need nor want to hear about it.
foxyfluff
The hell? it's not a fetish,it's a fandom. I think you only saw the word furry and didn't even read the article.
Someguyonteinternet
Though I don't exactly agree with what he said, I can understand the point. I mean you could pull out the (1/?)
Someguyonteinternet
argument of, "Then why are you ok with Looney Toons and Disney characters," but I won't use that. I understand how it can be annoying. (2/?)
Someguyonteinternet
For me, it just depends on how it's done. If it's just cosplay, then okay. If it's sexual, STAHP! It just depends on the person(s) I guess.
dontyoudaretouchmybutt
This is probably about 3% of the fandom.
fuckbeans
It doesn't matter. Keep your shit within your community, and all is well. No "convincing" needs to be applied.
Ayjis
Not quite what I was referring to, but same basic principle. The fandom is seen as just a fetish in many areas.
fuckbeans
Look, I get it. I'm not one to judge a fetish, its a personal thing. But in my eyes (and many others) that's exactly what it is. (1/?)
fuckbeans
It isn't exactly a fandom, yet still highly resembles one, but it's still a very far deviation from the norm (2/?)
fuckbeans
And those who identify as X species, who in actuality are not even in cosplay, this isn't a healthy relationship with the whole (3/?)
fuckbeans
So those "normal" people are quite correct in having an aversion to furries. You won't/cant convince them that they're all "normal" (4/?)
fuckbeans
while having such a deviant form of entertainment/lifestyle. No offense intended.
ElbowdeepinElmo
Regarding that - who the hell cares, if it doesn't kill anyone? I mean...personally I don't really get the whole "furry" idea [1/?]
ElbowdeepinElmo
but if someone wants to run around like that, I don't care. Everything is alot easier if you just let everyone do what they want. [2/2]
fuckbeans
A person doing what they want in a private setting: Absolutely. A person doing what they want publicly: Not so much.
ElbowdeepinElmo
As long as it's wearing a costume, I don't see the issue. Would be a different story if creeps started running around naked, that is.
fuckbeans
Like I've told OP, I dont care what one does in their bedroom/home, Thats their business. Don't shove it in my face. That's all.