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I kissed the money goodbye, and it took me years to crawl out of debt and get myself back on my feet, let alone be on top again. Now I have my own home, savings, and a surplus amount of money to buy cool shit without having to worry about whether it's a waste. Not bragging or anything, but it's nice to no longer have to ask 'should I buy food, or pay electricity bill?' and now be able to ask 'should I buy this sweet Link and Epona statue, for reasons, or this new Master Replica lightsaber, for also reasons?'
She contacts me about six months ago, wanting to 'reconnect.' She says she's matured, and realised her mistakes with me, and wanted to see if I'd reconsider being her friend - or more - once again.
I asked around with some mutual acquaintances, and it turns out she hasn't changed at all. She's still a bitch, still pretending to be pregnant to keep people around, still switching boyfriends more regularly than underwear. I got a mutual friend to ask around for me, and found out her parents, boyfriend, and all her friends had wisened up to her shit and wouldn't take her in, so she was sleeping in a dirty, cheap motel while all her stuff sat getting stolen and destroyed by weather on the side of a road somewhere.
Apparently she decided that since she pulled one over me when I was younger, she could do it again, and confided in our mutual friend that she figured she'd hit me up, flirt a bit, show me her tits, and I'd fall for it.
She said she'd 'do anything' to prove she'd changed. I asked if she'd pay back the $15,000 she owed. She said she'd try, and a few weeks later, she pays me back. Said she had to get a personal loan to get the money, but she paid it to me. Every last cent.
After she paid, she sent me a message to say she had done so, and if I'd reconsider our relationship and maybe let her move in. I sent her a fake auto email back saying that I was working remotely without internet or phone access, and would have very sporadic access to emails (if at all) and would get back to her ASAP. I sent the same thing every time she emailed me. I waited a few months to make sure the money was legit (I don't know what I was expecting - mob hit or something?).
After a few months, I sent her the following email: "Hi OP's Ex, thanks for finally paying me back. I'm onto your tricks - you know OP's Mutual Friend? She told me your plans. Anyway, I reconsidered your request for renewing our friendship, and regret to inform you that the answer is fuck off and never contact me again. No love, OP." I flagged her email as spam, and never heard from her again.
I still can't work out how getting a loan and paying me back so that I'd let her live with me for free would somehow be valuable to her. Unless she heard I was doing pretty well and thought she could rob me or something?
Either way, now I got $15,000 of pure spendin' money!
tl;dr: ex owes OP money, crawls back 8 years later for a free place to live, offers to pay back OP. OP takes money and blocks her.
EDIT: To answer some questions:
1) Being a douche/prick/vindictive: No. She lied to me, cheated on me, left me down $15,000, forced me into debt, and when I kicked her out, she pretended she was pregnant to make me take her back in. She got what she deserved.
2) How does a destitute girl get $15,000? She got a personal loan from a bank or loan provider. She was in a motel because she was kicked out of home, and her stuff was on the street because she can't move it all into a motel. Obviously, despite her situation, she had the collateral to get a loan.
3) INVEST! Yes, I'll be investing it all. Well, most. $10,000 will be going into a high interest savings account. $5,000 is gonna go on some stuff I want for photography.
4) Things that didn't happen/ENJOY YOUR INTERNET POINTS BRUH: Okay, look, I get it - it's fun to assume that people are putting things on the internet for the points. This is what society craves these days - validation from upvotes, likes, shares. I, like most people, enjoy the validation of positive commentary. But here's the thing: I'm not the same generation as most people on Imgur. I'm 30, and don't see internet points as any kind of validation. I get my high from producing art in my photography and getting actual comments from that. One photo getting 200 likes means less to me than one photo getting a handful of nice comments.
DezTurkish
Sounds like you willing signed up for most of the money she 'owed' you. If you chose to pay for school and rent that's on you.
Catodactyl
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VodkaReindeer
You shouldn't pay for someone's schooling unless they are your child...
dustynugs
i'm pretending that this actually happened and it makes me think that OP and his ex need to learn how to not be shitty people.
IAmJacksViagraInducedErection
Logged in to down vote
meeryn
Sans mutual friend, there are no good people in this likely fake, shit smear of a story.
AkiraToriyomama
It's okay to destroy a monster but don't become the monster yourself...
MountainYankee
Yeah, that goes hand in hand with "you either die a hero, or live long enough to see yourself become the villain".
Kestrel7
Ok, well... I'm gonna say it, OPs the asshole.
Camzaman
I doubt this happened, but if it did - guess what OP? You're as bad as her
Volimar
If she's so bad off, getting a loan to pay you back doesn't seem like such a smart move.
Popehat
Such a nice christmas post. I like the part where the homeless chic gets scammed out of $15K :D
vanfem
Can you really call collecting debt a "scam"?
Popehat
If one implies a benefit from the exchange of $, and does not deliver, I'd call that a scam. Not fraud, but a scam. Have an Xmas upvote.
vanfem
You could say that not repaying the debt is a form of a scam as well, then. Have a christmas upvote too!
motherhoodlum
why would someone get 15k together and not just use it to get a place to live?
ytg895
but GGG for a lie?
ClassyGiraffe
Technically, he did reconsider. He just didn't agree after the reconsideration.
vanfem
My thoughts :D
findlesticks
Well he did reconsider...
Kizander
She is already living in her consequences of her life, all you have done is cut her down further.
anonssssz
Lololol. Are you seriously trying to make this post happen? Cause it didn't happen.
eronth
Eh. This story is just neutral. Nothing exciting.
kudospop
BEIGE ALERT BEIGE ALERT
SepiaSkies
Dude. No. The world has enough suffering in it. Don't be proud of adding more to it.
seastarontheseashore
I wish I had more upvotes for this. Vindictiveness gets you nowhere.
OverlyCynicalImgurian
I dunno, it apparently netted him 15K. It's not nice but it doesn't seem ineffective if this is a true story.
seastarontheseashore
I meant spiritually/not being a douchebag kind of way. Doing bad things just makes you a bad person, whether its revenge or not.
cbennett
That's what I thought, I mean good for him for getting back on his feet, but don't kick someone in the face if they're on the ground.
Chandelle90
Should be top comment
ericneo2
This comment needs more upvotes.
zt2211
First of all, this is fake, nobody loans a homeless person $15k. Second, lying is a dick move, even if she deserved it. Be better than that.
FurryBallsPlacedMenacinglyOnTheTableINC
I'..I'm OK with this...
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ostiniatoze
Lol yeah she's probably on the streets now, and he has more money that he admits to not needing, serves her right. Good thing winter is cold
Popehat
I want to be OK with this, but it sounds too much like taking 15K from an effectively homeless person under false pretenses.
fredgiblet
Naming the source of your info was probably a dick move to the informant.
inetknght
Congratulations and all. You basically fucked her over. She's probably super fucking depressed now.
Machino
U act like he stole from her and left her to rot or something, he saw a way to get his money back from an untrustworthy person and took it
msa011
NICE
sourcandy
She deserved it
kenesisiscool
I have no sympathy for people that manipulate and manipulate until it bites them back in the ass.
CatsAreOurGods
comeuppance.
JeptonGreen
Horray!
Tylavi
I concur, why would you feel compelled to destroy rather than rehabilitate
Xsl01
I'm rather in agreement. I mean, she might change on her own, but why not help her out and make her a better person.
cajnagg
FDB
Zephronias
So what? She owed him money. He got the money back. She intended to use him, and he stopped her. This is a case of Just Desserts.
OddSoull
Sometimes people need to be fucked over and depressed to grow in maturity
BeardKhan
I uh... I have to disagree with everyone here... I mean getting a loan for 15k when you're already in the shit. Op may have *
ShamnusMcfee
OP didn't do shit. She did that to herself.
BeardKhan
* helped ruin someone's life forever... and forever may not be that long for her...
strykerG8
Is this your first lesson in karma?
inetknght
Quite not, I have a similar story about myself and my parents. Fuck them.
m0wgli
I'm sorry but getting a loan of $15k even from a shotty pawn shop would require some significant collateral which doesn't sound like she had
efhawthorne
Gonna have to call the mythbusters on this one.
kungfuman
Native american-based loan companies might do it. They are basically unregulated and charge unholy interest rates.
IGiveItAll
86.99%
lacole725
That $15k will end up being $150k.
jiggledaddy
I call shenanigans
Dunes8
You can't Good Guy Greg yourself.
Monkeylifesupport
He sure as shit just did hahahaha.
Hugoduckandweaving
Agreed, but he slides by this time imo.
jrau18
Sure you can
LooseCannonSpock
You must be good at herding cats.
sodaisdelicious
It's not a very good guy move
Ertale
The man got his $15k back after 8byears .. He can do whatever he wants.
ytg895
the meme police disagrees
iBoughtThisUsernameOnEbay
This guy can...
iammark
I agree. This isn't a good thing. The good thing would be to forgive the debt, especially considering her current circumstances.
blitz220
Her circumstance of having 15k to spend? I want that circumstance!
duskerz
She drove herself to that point and wouldn't learn otherwise. Seen plenty like this chick
whatisthisimgurforants
But also set the tone and say you never want to hear from her again
iammark
Agreed.
L05TM3M0RY
I'd agree with you if it was like, $400. But $15k? No fucking way.
iammark
You are a year behind ;)
ThisCommentWasAutomaticallyGeneratedByImgurViralizer
I think he just did.
Neominister
I'd say he deserves it.
animevil
I'm pretty sure every GGG is someone posting about themselves.
AskingTheRealQuestions
Wasn't even a proper good guy. More like common sense guy.
efhawthorne
It seems a bit like kicking someone while they're down...
DontMindMeJustHereToDownvote
Agree.... OP doesn't even need the money anymore. Scumbag Steve
Ertale
You don't bring a rabid dog into your house knowing very well that it's gonna fuck you up, irrespective of how humane it might be.
efhawthorne
Your metaphor might be extended too far, because I don't follow. I don't think op shoulda taken her in, but 15000 in debt is a lot...
Zephronias
Its the exact amount she left him in debt.
ladykabuto
fuck bitches that try to make amends
efhawthorne
Eye for an eye, then?
IamTheJackal
Since when was this okay? Just because shes a BAD person doesn't mean she's not a person. You guys are starting scare me, this is tumblr BS.
TheGodofWar
That's exactly what this is. Bullshit. It never happened.
IAmDrBanner
This is the "Make her spend a lot of money on a very expensive restaurant because she didn't show up for the other date" post all over again
Zephronias
She owed him money. He got the money back. The way he did so was spiteful, but she intended to use him anyway. This is fair.
Wibblywobblytime
She just paid back the money she owed him, what's wrong with that?
giraffesaredope
I'm with you. I feel like the right thing to do would be to just move on instead of seeking revenge. Maybe I'm just weird.
FindYourChillMate
He didnt really seek revenge. He wanted his money back. Revenge was just a bonus.
fdshuyr
If you were owed $15,000 and the debtor offered to pay you even if it fucked them over, you'd take it.
giraffesaredope
It sounds like it was his idea to bring up the money, not hers. I would feel bad doing what this guy did, that's all.
Procrastinating4Dayz
"If it fucked them over"? No, I probably wouldn't.
fdshuyr
You wouldn;'t let someone who wronged you inconvenience themselves to get what you'd owe? I really doubt most people would
Procrastinating4Dayz
"inconvenience themselves" is probably an euphemism here. It's not the same as "fuck them over". The woman got 15k dollars just like (1)
ShamnusMcfee
Revenge? He was owed money. A significant amount of money. This is just business.
TowelRod
May I ask what part you are referencing in particular? I honestly see no wrong even if this probably never happened.
hippocampus
for me the worst part is the behavior after getting the money back. it feels like visiting your grandparents for the money you get.
Imgtfyjustforfun
Back when they were living together, was there an agreement that she'd pay half the rent? And the entire set-up was based on the word of 1/x
Imgtfyjustforfun
a single "mutual friend"? Even if it was all correct information, this sounds like a scam. "Pay me back $15k and I'll take you back"
PaulTomblin
Getting somebody to repay their debts is not ok? Since when?
IdunnoIjustwantedtobeaneconomist
But was it loaned or gifted money? If it was gifted, changing it to a loan, even if she is a terrible person, is a dick move.
efhawthorne
Well, she's already in a rough spot. Seems like kicking someone when they're down.
PaulTomblin
A rough spot she got into because she's a terrible person.
Bb4816
He didn't seek her out and force her. She offered and agreed on the basis of him "considering" renewing a friendship.
CorneliusWatchesYouSleep
What are you buying me for Christmas OP?
TylorNotTyler
I would like one Chipotle burrito... with guac. Just one. No more, no less.
Ryvienna
I'd like a pair of winter boots, please.
TheGreatLemonWheel
I would like one art please.
GarrettStopMotion
well not sure if you would think of it as art, but im good at stopmotion, and feel like procrastinating, Ill make you a 10 sec video free :)
GarrettStopMotion
I prefer to make lego stopmotions, but I can use anything, Ill add sound for you also
MantisTobagganMD
http://imgur.com/heONzro I call it: Art #2
troublecliff
Mmm... good...
iraqattack
I'm a professional art appraiser and I'd say that's worth, with tax and shipping, $15001.01
MantisTobagganMD
What about minus tax and shipping?
iraqattack
$1499.95 cheap tax and free shipping with amazon prime.
Mistruths
$13.07.
TheMoistBandit
I'd love a tactical flash light. I'm moving up to Alaska to be a cop soon and I need one! Please OP!
StellarSpire
Hell I'll take a ps4.
gammaraycharles
I'm with you, OP. But there are two sides to every story. Yours sounds a bit braggy.
NuclearButtPlugFromPlanetX
I call bullshit and down vote this post.
agentfarter
Of course it's braggy, dude got the (figurative) shit beat out of him, and dragged himself back up AND got revenge on the person responsible
TwoDogsFucking
I refer to all these posts as 'lightly-seasoned stories' because I take them with a grain of salt.
Mistruths
That's... like... hardly any salt. You want at least 500 grains.
Zephronias
1. If the story is true (big if because internet), then he ought to be braggy: he got the money he was owed and never expected to see
Zephronias
2. again, all while fairly spiting somone who intended to use him.
Schmedes
Except she didn't use him. They are on even grounds after she paid him back.
Zephronias
"INTENDED to use him." If OP is to be believed, then the ex was plotting to use him, and he preemptively shut her down.
TheMajesticHarpyEagle
Ah, but she was going to. I don't feel bad when pieces of shit get what they deserve.
hiddensunshine
She didn't use him because he didn't let her the second time. She had every intention to, it seems
Schmedes
Don't allow yourself to get used the second time...pretty hard to rack up 15k without noticing.
BrazilianThunderPanda
Probably really excited. I would be too if I got $15,000 and gave my ex the boot.
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I'm wondering how she "owed" it. If it was a straight loan OK; but if OP chose to pay her studies and rent, he shouldn't ask for it back now
BatmanLannister
Especially if it wasn't even the reason he broke up with her. If she hadn't cheated, he would have given more. Sounds shady to me.
ihavehugetesticles
cosigning this bs
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IdunnoIjustwantedtobeaneconomist
If you gift people things, you don't get to tell them later they owe you for it. Real dick move. Even if she is a Scumbag Stacey.
philosofox
If it was a gift, shouldn't be owed. If he said "I'll pay for school for now, you pay me back" that's different. Even if they are in a rship
Ian5133
Is it just me or is OP the bigger manipulative asshole in this story?
pentatonix
This. If someone pays for things over the course of a relationship I don't consider that "on loan" until the end of relationship.
whodathunkit
In my case my ex had lost his job so I was supporting him, he had told me he was going to marry me etc, and said once he got his settlement
whodathunkit
he'd straight out give me back my 10k inheritance I used to pay for some of his legal shit. Instead, he got his money and fled the country.
whodathunkit
When I asked him if he could help pay all the bills/debts he left me with, his response was "I don't owe you anything". There are jerks..
whodathunkit
I should point out, at the time I trusted him, 4 years was long, and I didn't mind at all as I knew money was coming in for "us".
Cyberpotato
Invest OP! 15k of savings man! That could be like 15,001 Tomorrow!
iPretend
Shit dude, apply for a housing loan with that ish and buy a rental property.
troublecliff
WHOA, let's not go talkin crazy things now!
Cyberpotato
Trust me, my Name is Jordan Belfort and I work for Stratton Oakmount, and I can guarantee that your only mistake will be not investing more.
troublecliff
How could I lose!?
Cyberpotato
You can't, so how about I sign you up for 20,000 shares
diabLoDesignz
Aaaand...its gone.
hippocampus
that will make a nice inflation-adjusted amount of 14,580
CommanderNomNoms
awwww ye, makin' bank
MeriwetherSWE
Better off investing in an index fund.
hippocampus
Holy shit, I made this comment on Christmas 3 years ago. why are you answering me?! (btw, I'm knee deep in ETFs ;) )
wheredoesthetimego
I'm pretty sure your math is off, unless you're in Russia
dsurik
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUuuuuu
Betrael
Savings, lol.
mostlydrawing
The real question is: 5000 $3 hookerbots or 150 $100 hookerbots?
ChefG0ldblum
I made 23 cents in interest last year. WHADDUPPP!!!
GuyMcGee
how much was invested?
freespirit102
I've made $61 interest in about 3 months... I'd talk to your financial advisor if that's all you got, mate.
Cyberpotato
Ummm. Sir, you might have a problem if you invest and only made 23 cents. Just savings should get you more than that.
pgdave
With how much principle? If you've got savings of any significance you should've made a lot more than that - it was a good year for stocks.
qaaaaa
M-m-m-mutual fund!
diphenhydraminehcl50mg
World Growth Fund bitchessss!
JaxAndHisLampPost
No one becomes wealthy from investing in mutual funds...
captainclutch
My IRA has grown 12% this year. Find anything else you can invest in that can reliably earn that...
JaxAndHisLampPost
How'd your IRA do in 2008, 2009, 2010? Listen 90% of the population throws all their savings into a 401k, and retires comfortably on it.
BearTrapOfLife
Its the safest investment with almost guaranteed long term growth.
qaaaaa
Are you kidding? Mutual funds are safe and have a good rate of return. You are simply wrong.
JaxAndHisLampPost
Then why isn't everyone wealthy? I can't just invent into my 401k and retire wealthy. Well off? Sure...but not wealthy.
qaaaaa
When did I say they would get you rich? You invest a 401k in a mutual fund so it can make money for you when you are retired...
IGuessThisBeatsWorking
AAAND ITs gone
InsertReallyStupidShitHere
Your references are out of control man.
BurtSimpson
You seem worse than her
Procrastinating4Dayz
I wouldn't say worse than her, but what he did is definitely wrong too. That is, if this whole situation is real. It doesn't look realistic.
TowelRod
He didn't force her to do anything... How is he wrong for her life decisions?
IAmDrBanner
If you are going by that logic, she didn't force him to lend her money in the first place, so by your logic, she didn't no anything bad
IAmDrBanner
If you justify what he did with "he didn't force her" then at the same time you are also justifying what she did, which was just as bad.
BeardKhan
He did take advantage of her. Yes to get back at her. But its still damn low.
findlesticks
It was to get back the money he was owed, not out of spite
IdunnoIjustwantedtobeaneconomist
But it sounds like he gifted the money with no agreement it was a loan. She's a Scumbag Stacey, but he's being a dick.
BeardKhan
riiiight
findlesticks
I guess he must be at least a bit proud to post this. Or lying