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Her reason was because he scratched a door pretty badly. It was during a bad storm and he is horrified of thunderstorms, but she refuses to let him inside like I always did. She probably won't give me any clue to where he is now8 I will most likely never see him again. For the past six years, that dog has helped me go through the toughest times and the worst anxiety attacks. I probably wouldn't be alive if it wasn't for my dog and now he will never wait for me in front of the gate ever again.
Throatpumper69
Sounds like the cunt needs a slap when you get home
historycat
Be comforted that your dog is still taking care of someone who loves him. It sucks, but there are many dogs waiting for someone like you.
Justwarlockthings
My parents put my dog to sleep without telling me because they thought it was time. I was 28 at the time. I didn't get to say goodbye. :(
omgwtfhuh
My mom did this when I was 11, came home from school and he was just gone. I never trusted her with or about anything after that.
whycantweallsmokeupandbehappy
I know of some awful nursing homes when the time comes. Sorry about your fur baby.
SugarPlumFaerie
I hate your mum.
kamloopianguy
Might be time to publicly shame her
FistedPink
I'm sorry, and I hope I don't offend OP, but you're mother is a fucking cunt.
Zhorhammer
It sounds to me that the dog is better off with whoever he ended up with than her.
Zhorhammer
That being said, still a thermite-though-the-engine-block-worthy offense. Shit's not cool, yo.
elgambito
Inexcusable.
thelostfaith
Wow dude, what an outright cunt
MaryAlicia
Did it ever occur to you that the reason you have anxiety attacks are related to have a mother so lacking in love that she sells child's dog
CrispyTatorTot
Too real man. Too real.
dancelikeyousharted
If my family did that, I would no longer have a family.
FullCrimsonic
Bullshit. What do you think friends are? The family you pick for yourself
peakbleak
Condolences friend. My mum gave my dog away while I was at a sleepover. I don't think I'll ever be able to forgive her.
KharnTheAngry
Show her these online comments. She deserves at least to see how bad she fucked up.
ElvisPelvis
I would rather give her the silent treatment for a while so she knows what it's like FOR YOUR FRIEND TO BE OUT OF YOUR LIFE
LimeMime565
I mean she probably doesn't care about you that much. Considering how she treated the dog and wouldn't tell you where she sold it to.
ElvisPelvis
She cares enough to cry to my brother when I don't talk to her
Moondrala
Typical behavior for a narc mother; very manipulative people will cry to others when they can no longer control you.
greggythe6th
Just never talk to her ever again. Hurt her heart by taking away her child.
TheGhostofElizabethShue
This may be an overreaction but I'd be taking hostages.
TheGhostofElizabethShue
I can only assume these downvotes are people saying "Nope, take hostages."
chloramphenicolderivative
downvotes because thinking that it's an overreaction is stupid.
BeneGesseritConspiracyTheorist
Sounds like you need to cut your mother out of your life.
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salemblack
I really wish more people realized that you don't have to keep garbage people in your life just cause of a genetic link.
ThisIsTheHardestPartOfAnRPG
THANK YOU! I THINK MY MENTAL HEALTH IS A LITTLE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THIS RELATIVES EGO THANK YOU VERY MUCH
vampirepomeranian
I agree, but OP still sounds young, could still be dependent.
salemblack
True. I feel bad for those in that situation. I've helped some friends with this over the years. Had to take in my sister cause mom is crazy
AccountCreatedToUpvoteDogs
It took my wife a while to realize it. She now knows she is better off. Her relationship with her sister is improving again.
salemblack
I'm not against reconciliation but some don't deserve it. Case by case basis. Haven't seen my father in 26 years. Last time i did i shot him
DickTugsMore
That took a turn I didn't expect
BeneGesseritConspiracyTheorist
Wow. You OK?
salemblack
Im cool. He was beating my mother and little sister to death so I have no regrets other that I should have done it sooner. No one blamed me
baldbear
This was plain cruel and heartless. Never go back to her again. Mother or not, this can not be excused.
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AHornyRhino
And you're a cunt.
DirzBiopsist
Hey buddy, go fuck yourself.
ElvisPelvis
If I had somewhere else to go, I would.
baldbear
I understand there are several organisiations that might be helpful in your case. Cruelty is as hurting and painful as getting beaten up.
thelostfaith
I would rather live on the streets than to give up my pup. Where are you from op?
ElvisPelvis
Romania, currently a student in London. I would gladly stay in London if breathing wasn't so expensive
IIPhoenixII
Head slightly further away but within commutable distance. Inner London is stupid expensive so ppl tend to work in London but live elsewhere
EllipsThis
Imi pare rau, OP :(
ElvisPelvis
Multumesc :/
ArkTex
Pay backs a bitch when she is really old.
ElvisPelvis
Yeah too bad my brother is backing her up in everything
Moondrala
They sound toxic and should be cut out of your life imo.. had to deal with similar mother. Check out r/raisedbynarcissists
PreciousPotato
Ah, yes, you might want to look into that more deeply. The trouble with emotional abuse is that it is so subtle and you often feel as if /1
PreciousPotato
as if you had no right to be upset at your parents actions. That you're exaggerating, or just too sensitive.There's often a "golden child"/2
PreciousPotato
and a "scapegoat"... anyway, read for yourself about narcissism and toxic mothers etc. It's complicated, but maybe some things become /3
PreciousPotato
more clear for you then. Anxiety, depression, etc. And it's hard to pin down when it's "only" emotionla abuse.
ElvisPelvis
I know my brother is her favourite. My dad loved me like nothing else but he passed away when I was little so I'm just third wheeling now...
kinnie101
Kill mother. Find dog. Let dog shit on mothers grave.
dreamofcalifornication
Time to sell your mother, teach her a lesson
TinderBalls
Best I can do is tree fiddy. She might be a succubus.
Ouch26
Right, blame the mother for not taking care of her pet.
Mtchllwng
Are you implying it was @OP fault
BilldeTurlock
my first reaction was along those lines
HukDriver
parents must be reminded that we are the one choosing their old age homes
mike4dictator
http://imgur.com/RFrd83t
Boltso
Beat me to it! +1
wadatahmydamie
Beef78
Sell her in parts.
Khaylain
Worth more that way.
Beef78
And easier to transport
Howtogrowwood
I think Saudi Arabia might be buying
Flopolopagus
I second that.
asificareokido
Oh my God, that's so sad. Why not make a Facebook post and get it out in your home area?
asificareokido
If they know the story, maybe they'll be compassionate and keep him for you till you get home.
ElvisPelvis
I did, but at the end of the day, I am still mostly out of the country and can't bring him with me...
tomatopancake
At least you'll know where he is and that he's safe.
NotShakespearesSchool
A good new family will let you visit him. You tell your mother that was a frac'n up awful move -- signed ME
ElvisPelvis
I'm only in my first year of uni so it will be long until I will be home for goos
WhatAWorldWhatAWorld
Where do you live? People foster dogs for deployed military, maybe someone would be willing to do that for you.
ElvisPelvis
Romania. I will try to reach out to someone
nmonroe15
What state was your dog in? I'm so sorry for your loss.
SaintLuciferVonAllah
Is this where you live or where you study?If it's where you live,PM me. We'll find a way
vampirepomeranian
Could you get another, kinder family member/friend to take him in?
isthatriight
Is your dog microchipped? You can report it to the shelters or shelter police and at least that way if anything shows up it helps
BrettTurley
My condolences on your mothers sudden death.
pyrrhlis
Suicide by two GSWs, how tragic.
DuckyofDeath123
Fuck I don't even have a gun but I'll rent a nice solid pick-up for the occasion no problem.
sweetfeetpete
Have patience, OP. And remember this when it comes time to pick a nursing home.
Sprixxen
"Fido sends his regards" OP says as he stabs his mother in the heart on his wedding day.
Czeksmyx
Nursing home? You mean catapult.
theshinobi23
Damn. Playing the long game. I can't leave something unsettled that long. Take care of it now, or get over it.
Navery
What's that saying? Do not anger a man with patience?
prrrkitten
Or use Cholesterol. It makes the death look natural
IAmJustHereToCommentAndLaugh
Formaldehyde into the brain is also untraceable if there is no investigation and an open casket. (Do you say coffin or casket?)
prrrkitten
But how do you get it there?
IAmJustHereToCommentAndLaugh
Long needle through the neck. Spinal fluid also works.
prrrkitten
Needle marks leave evidence.
IAmJustHereToCommentAndLaugh
How would Cholesterol work?
prrrkitten
Feed them high cholesterol diets until stroke or heart attack. May take a while though :)
ElvisPelvis
Haha good one
OrangePanic
Cut ties with her
MOTHERFUCKINGVIRGINMARY
Why not just kill her in her sleep i mean what
chloramphenicolderivative
No offense, but your mum sounds incredibly narcissistic.
thelostfaith
She's a downright twat
Kappa043
You should probably poison her instead tbh.
WirenutsInYourButts
I like your style.
CaverExtrordinaire
SHE WOULDN'T LET HIM IN DURING A THUBDERSTORM??? I think I just angry cried a little
ElvisPelvis
I know, he gets so scared he even got sick once during a period of really frequent thunderstorms. He just needed to feel safe....
Bruhbeans
:(
1234qwerty
Is there something wrong with her? Not being funny, here. Normal people don't leave pets out in a storm or give away a long time pet.
BumbleBeeBeardedGingerBear
It sounds like rehoming him may have been for the best. OP when youre independent, get all the dogs you can handle.
BumbleBeeBeardedGingerBear
When i was 10, my mom did the same w/my dog & used to put my small pets in a drafty basement when she was sick of them.
BumbleBeeBeardedGingerBear
If you're not in control of their safekeeping (like allowing them indoors in bad weather) wait until you are.
goodgodlemon30
Why did you let her watch him?
ElvisPelvis
She never did anything like this before. I trusted her
Stratego89
I'm... PRETTY sure you can go to the police for that...
ElvisPelvis
Not in good old Romania...
thefatlonelyjew
Oh.
Punkinp
FWIW, outdated animal laws may work in your favour. Animals = property under the law, meaning your mother unlawfully sold your property.
monsto
I'm betting it's not the first time she broke your trust. Tell her "That was the last time you break my trust in you" and them move.
ElvisPelvis
I've broken her trust too, like every other teenager, so I can't really use that against her.
Punkinp
OP, it's not the same. A parent has power over a child & owes a duty of care. A child/teen has no power, and is learning independence.
asificareokido
Children always break their parents' trust. That's what children do. Parents are supposed to be there, no matter what. Don't blame yourself.
monsto
Did you sell away the *1 thing* that was truly keeping her life together? Yr not as bad. And you shd get a professional to tell you that.
peanutbuttermashedpotatoes
Plus teenagers do that. It's a stupid kid thing to do. Kind of allowed. She's an adult. She should know better
EmotionallyCrippled
I'm sorry to hear that @op :( I cannot imagine the pain you feel right now. Let's just hope he is with a person who lets him in anytime
ElvisPelvis
Hopefully. As far as i know, the owner of a doggy hotel is finding an owner for him so hopefully he finds a good one...
Hornethappy
She "sold" him to a doggy hotel owner? Do doggy hotel owners buy unwanted dogs? Kinda sounds a bit like bullshit.
ElvisPelvis
When some cunt wants to get rid of a dog immediately and has no patience to find a good home themselves (2)
ElvisPelvis
But I know that the guy loves dogs and I hope to get into contact with him so maybe I have some kind of decision on the topic
ElvisPelvis
(3)
ElvisPelvis
No, she gave him to the owner who will give her the money when he finds an owner. In my country, these people tend to be the middle man (1)
SigneowTheCat
You could purchase your own dog back, if you know which person has him. Would leave a paper trail, too, in case police get involved.