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Child abuse makes me so angry. I turned this incident over to our school's guidance counselor. This mother also told him school was cancelled when we weren't. I still wonder what happened to him. (It's been 13 years)
He literally peed on a girl's head. Fortunately, it was at the end of the school day and we were about to send the kids home. Thankfully, her parents weren't upset and just took her home to clean her up.
This child broke my heart. His Mama had 4 children, all ages 5 and below. She'd come home pregnant and leave the new baby with her parents to raise before taking off again. He had supervised visits with his Mama during the school day and would come back visibly upset and emotionally out of control. Generally, he'd come back during nap time (kindergarten) and I'd just let him talk, draw, and cry.
He came to school without being fed. I gave him my snack for the day and sent him to the cafeteria for breakfast on me. From then on, I kept snacks in my drawer.
This was a very honest child, too. Her mother could not figure out where this tale had originated. Also a lesson to those in authority that children have vivid imaginations. Gather facts.
Two mothers in the same year had this story that they openly told me. Thaaaaaat explains a lot. I was also 99% sure one of them showed up high for parent/teacher conferences.
StarkRhino
You're an angel. Keep taking care of kids
Christianabanana
This is the reason I finished my degree in Elementary Ed, but decided shortly before graduation I did not want to be a teacher anymore.
hwatL4bloopy
Snacks in the drawer. I remember doing that for my scholarship kids
DontCallMeGinger
To the good teachers, they become family. I hear ya!
rebel1031
47 now...but I think to the first grade when this one boy was the ONE loser kid and wonder what he was going through at home....
DontCallMeGinger
You never know. I tell my elementary school-aged kids to be kind to those kids because you don't know what they see at home
tmae
One of the heartbreaking things about working in a Title 1 school - you can't give them all snacks out of your own pocket
DontCallMeGinger
True. I wasn't Title 1, but we had a lot of poor students. Teachers don't make enough to feed the entire class, even though we want to!
JustAPersonOnTheInternet
After reading these, when I am a parent (adopted or otherwise) I will make sure to pack extra large lunches and make sure kids share
weeshful
more than just the depressing stories...need some good ones too plz
DontCallMeGinger
I have a funny list I could make... it's just the harrowing tales stick with you longer.
OrangeDreamBar
My mom was in and out of jail/ rehab when I was in elementary school. I often only ate at school. Never had weather appropriate clothing
OrangeDreamBar
I am a single mom now and I just can't comprehend not providing all the necessary food and clothing my daughter needs.
Catitapillar
It's stressful. I've kept my son home from school bc I didn't have gas to get him there.
ghostwitch
I have trouble teaching seniors & hearing all the sad stuff.couldnt handle kindergarten. Kudos to you for have the patience and strength.
DontCallMeGinger
I miss them! So glad for social media where I can keep up with some of them. One just got married... I feel so old! Lol
ghostwitch
I love my seniors. Tomorrow is the senior picnic. I will cry for the next few weeks.
Nutmeg03
I teach at a high school in Newark, and I can tell almost exactly the same stories about my high school students.
DontCallMeGinger
Thank you for being in the classroom!
hockeycurtis
Kudos to you. Kindergarten teachers need an unbelievable amount of patience. As a future teacher it is sad to see these innocent kids 1/2
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Come from dysfunctional homes. 2/2
MakeTabbouleNotWar
This is why we have the summer meal program. When schools out some of those children won't be fed.
DJtwerknado
+1 to you for the amazing work you do. I hope that I can be as awesome as you in my own classroom this fall
DontCallMeGinger
Best of luck to you!
MordinSolustheScienceVolus
My 3rd grade teacher gave me my "school health box." It had toothbrushes, deodorant, mouthwash, wash clothes, socks.. I never (1/?)
MordinSolustheScienceVolus
Thanked her for that. I was only allowed to bathe once a week and had to wear my older brothers clothes. I got kicked out of( 2/3)
MordinSolustheScienceVolus
Class for smelling so bad a lot. I was 7. I got taken from class and washed by a nurse. I wanted to kill myself. Thank you Mrs. Jones., (3/3
BigMommahFunTimes
When I was in kindergarten my teacher would always give me snacks and would tell me I remind her of her son. Found out her son is dead...
ifmusicbethefoodofloveplayon
We need to hear more of these stories - not just the teacher-student sex that hear a lot of in the media.
dirtywildlifer
I'm glad you turned the abuse issue over. When I was 9 I was sexually abused by my mom's boyfriend. I first confided in my teacher at 11...1
dirtywildlifer
Was acting off and sent me to counselling. It all came out there. I just wish she had done something since I was still living with him..3
DontCallMeGinger
I'm so sorry that happened to you. I took several psychology courses as well in college and watched for students who acted out.
dirtywildlifer
Thank you for teaching. Kids really are the future
dirtywildlifer
Thru an assigned paper for class. She talked to me and said she would do something. She never did. Not long after though my mom thought I
hetnkik
And #2 grew up to have a water sports fetish.
Luminousfox
for the kid peeing or the one getting peed on? or both...
hetnkik
Yes.
Luminousfox
standards
As a teacher who retires in 15 days, I can confirm that all of these things happen. Often.
DontCallMeGinger
Congrats on your retirement and thank you for sticking to a demanding and rewarding career! You made a difference!
standards
Thank you.
DuuhGusGus
These break my heart. Teachers are special people to handle these situations with grace.
hiphopbookshop
I have dated several teachers. New teacher often start in lower income areas. They all hated sending them home.
NotoriousDuchess
Why are these all miserable stories. Kids are funny.
DontCallMeGinger
The urination one was funny! Not at the time, but now.... And agreed, kids are hilarious! I have humorous and heart-warming ones too.
DontCallMeGinger
Ok, I have funny stories too if anyone is interested. Just the heartbreaking ones come to mind first.
thepoetess
You're wonderful. <3 From a fellow teacher, thank you for doing what you do.
jinky74
Yes please!
finallystoppedlurkingonimgur
Yes
MercurialNight
Am much interest!
TheRealFireFrenzy
MOAR stories also BIGGER PICTURES... I know teachers dont make alot of money but PIXELS CHEAP YO!
DontCallMeGinger
I'm new here... did from mobile. Used a random pic of a classroom. Not sure how to change that? Looks fine on my phone...?
TheRealFireFrenzy
No clue i am just as new:) on my end they're like 2" a side squares (didnt measure maybe bigger) maybe use a bigger source image next time
justaminutethere
Yes, please..
HamsterFood
That would be great. If the heartbreaking ones come to mind first it might be a good for you to make a list of the wonderful and funny ones.
JustAPersonOnTheInternet
I was always very very lucky, we never went hungry, but after my younger brother became diabetic (type 1) I always carried snacks just in 1/
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case he went low (which happened too often) but I still do to this day and have happily shared with co-workers or other people
Therearetoomanyusernames
It's so sad how many kids don't get fed at home. They even keep urban schools open more so they can eat.
Faith14567
I went to a poor school from age 5-10 and we had a breakfast vlub where you could get toast and a milo for 50cent. Most families still 1/2
WhiterThanWonderBread
I worked in a rural school. Many students didn't have running water in their house. We'd send them home with bags of food over the weekend
Therearetoomanyusernames
That's just plain sad.
rg001
In which country ?
WhiterThanWonderBread
United States.
Faith14567
Couldnt avoid it, so the teachers would all put in some money and pay for it.
Therearetoomanyusernames
That's really sad but nice too.
Catitapillar
I want to bring awareness that it's not only urban schools where children suffer from food insecurity.
morehumanthanhuman
You are obviously the right person in the right job. Keep doing good. Sounds like those kids need you
DontCallMeGinger
Thanks! I stay home with my little ones now, but would love to teach again!
Cystman
As a former kindergartener, I can verify that kids can be sadly tragic, when not being little inquisitive dumbasses.
Itsboomtiemrightnow
I don't think dumbasses is a good word for kindergarteners
Cystman
They can't help being dumbasses, they don't know things yet. Just answer their questions and keep them from getting hurt.
agentdalecooper
Every part of that sentence could also be applied to adults.
Cystman
Also, OP sounds like a good teacher to have had.
DontCallMeGinger
Aww thanks! I loved my students and keep in contact with a few.
DontCallMeGinger
I also taught 4th grade. Those students I am in contact with. But I still remember my kindergarten teacher. :)
goldensky
I do too!
iliketokeepitsimplestupid
How do they remember you? I don't remember a thing when I was that young.
notsosinisterkoala
When I was in high school, I helped out in the second grade classroom at my school. There was one girl in particular who just broke my 1/2
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heart. Her mom was dead and her dad wasn't in the picture. She lived with her grandma. She would tell me how her uncle would make fun of 2/3
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her. One day I noticed she was writing "I don't know" on questions she could have answered. She said it was because she missed her mom. 3/4
notsosinisterkoala
her. One day I noticed she was writing "I don't know" on questions she could have answered. She said it was because she missed her mom. 3/4
notsosinisterkoala
Then I found out she would be switching schools. I gave her two copies of my phone number, one for her and one for her grandma, and said 4/5
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to call me over the summer and I would take her out for ice cream. I ended up buying her some flashcards and "The Little Engine that 5/6
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to call me over the summer and I would take her out for ice cream. I ended up buying her some flashcards and "The Little Engine that 5/6
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Could." I never did hear from her. It's been three years. I wish I could tell her she's the reason I'm switching my major to education. 6/6
punner
God damn, some parents really are not parent material
SuperJere
And yet so many states refuse to allow gay couples to adopt.
GoDDstopper
There are people who shouldn't be allowed to breathe. Let alone have kids.
hrith
It's a lot more than 'some'.
loveyourselfirst
You need a license to fish and hunt but not to have kids.
Itsboomtiemrightnow
This would be controlling one's physical body though. Lat time I checked imgur was against that kinda stuff.
Doopapotamus
I bring sad adulthood, friend! Hunting tags help pay for conservation efforts for future hunts and general ecological protection! Hurray!
spooglecraft
Anyone else think there should be something like a parent license and test.
kwongdzu
Some societies have even implemented forced sterilization when they deemed potential parents unfit :D
Itsboomtiemrightnow
The Nazis. And at one point even the US.
StankyPankySammich
Fun fact, Hitler got the idea of his eugenics from the US....VERY slippery slope deciding for people
JaimeFookinLannister
I've thought so for years.
jaminbjw
Giving a governing body the ability to deny parenting rights is very dangerous IMO, best to remember "it takes a village."
Gunsandkittycats
. . Takes a village as in my damn taxes
spooglecraft
I'm not talking about denying rights, but about preventing abuse to children. Denying rights as a way for this, not an instrument of power.
jaminbjw
but Giving a gov body the power allows for using it as power - we have laws against abuse already - be apart of the village, do your part.
whateversomethingdifferentiguessfkit
meanwhile, the death penalty? My contribution to the village is to not make it more crowded
spooglecraft
I understand your concern, but do you have a better idea?
MrChuckletrousers
To quote the philosopher Keanu Reeves: you need a license to buy a dog, or drive a car. Hell, you need a license to catch a fish! (1/2)
MrChuckletrousers
(2/2) But they'll let any butt-reaming asshole be a father."
beccaboob
No, but fuck us women for wanting safe access to birth control that we can afford, amirite?!
Itsboomtiemrightnow
Wtf? Who said woman font have the legal right to birth control? It's not even that expensive.
roseannebarfff
And to think. Some loving stable couples are unable to have kids.
Fotostatica
This is the thought that breaks my heart every month when I get my period :(
Prosecutrixxx
Seriously. I don't want kids, can't I just donate my uterus?
Fotostatica
It would be awesome if it was possible, dibs on it!
RadiumNation
That's where my wife and I are currently.
roseannebarfff
I wish you all of the luck in the world. Or. I hope you find an alternative that works for you.
jdsutton
#1 Should have called the police....
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hiddensunshine
No, you have to do it yourself.
jdsutton
Hmm, I see. I really hope the police were contacted.
bittenkitten813
Me too. In my experience, today and where I work, they are.
DontCallMeGinger
I followed protocol.
DontCallMeGinger
It was a southern state and 10+ years ago. I don't remember the specifics, but our school counselor did follow up.
bingus
What state are you in? You would have been fired here if you did not contact CPS.
dorkiusmaximus
I STILL would have followed up with police. Fuck. That.
DontCallMeGinger
Honestly, I wasn't allowed to. Schools had to follow a certain order to remain legal. Laws may have changed by now, but I wanted to do more.
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hiddensunshine
Nope. You report it to the authorities straight away. If you tell someone else and you don't do anything further, you can get in 1/2
ChemicalPizza
I was under the impression that Mandated Reporting laws mean that you have to report to police/CPS directly, not deferring to a counselor...
hiddensunshine
Major trouble, face jail time and lose your teaching license.
hiddensunshine
At least in Texas
TheLordLucifersBannedAccount02
I had a much more different childhood. My uncle shot me with bb guns. I shot him, my sister and cousins with bb guns. They also shot me. Fun
chickenfriedriceisdabomb
me and my friends had bb gun wars, metal bb's. It was fun.
TheLordLucifersBannedAccount02
nice. but seriously, growing up in the eighties, in country australia was nuts thinking back on it. I swam with crocs, before I was 4.
Itsboomtiemrightnow
Well not every kid is the Lord Lucifer.
jdsutton
Plastic or metal bbs? 0.o
TheLordLucifersBannedAccount02
Plastic, and sometimes metal if we ran out. Hey, better than my mums time. They used to play cowboys and indians on the cyanide heap (1)
TheLordLucifersBannedAccount02
and shoot at each other with salt shotguns and whip each other with hoses.
jdsutton
You still have both your eyes, I hope.
TheLordLucifersBannedAccount02
Yep. Centremass only.