School's out!

May 21, 2015 3:45 PM

DontCallMeGinger

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Child abuse makes me so angry. I turned this incident over to our school's guidance counselor. This mother also told him school was cancelled when we weren't. I still wonder what happened to him. (It's been 13 years)

He literally peed on a girl's head. Fortunately, it was at the end of the school day and we were about to send the kids home. Thankfully, her parents weren't upset and just took her home to clean her up.

This child broke my heart. His Mama had 4 children, all ages 5 and below. She'd come home pregnant and leave the new baby with her parents to raise before taking off again. He had supervised visits with his Mama during the school day and would come back visibly upset and emotionally out of control. Generally, he'd come back during nap time (kindergarten) and I'd just let him talk, draw, and cry.

He came to school without being fed. I gave him my snack for the day and sent him to the cafeteria for breakfast on me. From then on, I kept snacks in my drawer.

This was a very honest child, too. Her mother could not figure out where this tale had originated. Also a lesson to those in authority that children have vivid imaginations. Gather facts.

Two mothers in the same year had this story that they openly told me. Thaaaaaat explains a lot. I was also 99% sure one of them showed up high for parent/teacher conferences.

You're an angel. Keep taking care of kids

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is the reason I finished my degree in Elementary Ed, but decided shortly before graduation I did not want to be a teacher anymore.

11 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Snacks in the drawer. I remember doing that for my scholarship kids

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

To the good teachers, they become family. I hear ya!

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

47 now...but I think to the first grade when this one boy was the ONE loser kid and wonder what he was going through at home....

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You never know. I tell my elementary school-aged kids to be kind to those kids because you don't know what they see at home

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One of the heartbreaking things about working in a Title 1 school - you can't give them all snacks out of your own pocket

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

True. I wasn't Title 1, but we had a lot of poor students. Teachers don't make enough to feed the entire class, even though we want to!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

After reading these, when I am a parent (adopted or otherwise) I will make sure to pack extra large lunches and make sure kids share

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

more than just the depressing stories...need some good ones too plz

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I have a funny list I could make... it's just the harrowing tales stick with you longer.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My mom was in and out of jail/ rehab when I was in elementary school. I often only ate at school. Never had weather appropriate clothing

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I am a single mom now and I just can't comprehend not providing all the necessary food and clothing my daughter needs.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's stressful. I've kept my son home from school bc I didn't have gas to get him there.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I have trouble teaching seniors & hearing all the sad stuff.couldnt handle kindergarten. Kudos to you for have the patience and strength.

11 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

I miss them! So glad for social media where I can keep up with some of them. One just got married... I feel so old! Lol

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I love my seniors. Tomorrow is the senior picnic. I will cry for the next few weeks.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I teach at a high school in Newark, and I can tell almost exactly the same stories about my high school students.

11 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Thank you for being in the classroom!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Kudos to you. Kindergarten teachers need an unbelievable amount of patience. As a future teacher it is sad to see these innocent kids 1/2

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Come from dysfunctional homes. 2/2

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is why we have the summer meal program. When schools out some of those children won't be fed.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

+1 to you for the amazing work you do. I hope that I can be as awesome as you in my own classroom this fall

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Best of luck to you!

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My 3rd grade teacher gave me my "school health box." It had toothbrushes, deodorant, mouthwash, wash clothes, socks.. I never (1/?)

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thanked her for that. I was only allowed to bathe once a week and had to wear my older brothers clothes. I got kicked out of( 2/3)

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Class for smelling so bad a lot. I was 7. I got taken from class and washed by a nurse. I wanted to kill myself. Thank you Mrs. Jones., (3/3

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

When I was in kindergarten my teacher would always give me snacks and would tell me I remind her of her son. Found out her son is dead...

11 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

We need to hear more of these stories - not just the teacher-student sex that hear a lot of in the media.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm glad you turned the abuse issue over. When I was 9 I was sexually abused by my mom's boyfriend. I first confided in my teacher at 11...1

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Was acting off and sent me to counselling. It all came out there. I just wish she had done something since I was still living with him..3

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry that happened to you. I took several psychology courses as well in college and watched for students who acted out.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Thank you for teaching. Kids really are the future

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thru an assigned paper for class. She talked to me and said she would do something. She never did. Not long after though my mom thought I

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

And #2 grew up to have a water sports fetish.

11 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 2

for the kid peeing or the one getting peed on? or both...

11 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Yes.

11 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

As a teacher who retires in 15 days, I can confirm that all of these things happen. Often.

11 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Congrats on your retirement and thank you for sticking to a demanding and rewarding career! You made a difference!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thank you.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

These break my heart. Teachers are special people to handle these situations with grace.

11 years ago | Likes 74 Dislikes 0

I have dated several teachers. New teacher often start in lower income areas. They all hated sending them home.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Why are these all miserable stories. Kids are funny.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The urination one was funny! Not at the time, but now.... And agreed, kids are hilarious! I have humorous and heart-warming ones too.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ok, I have funny stories too if anyone is interested. Just the heartbreaking ones come to mind first.

11 years ago | Likes 248 Dislikes 2

You're wonderful. <3 From a fellow teacher, thank you for doing what you do.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yes please!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yes

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Am much interest!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

MOAR stories also BIGGER PICTURES... I know teachers dont make alot of money but PIXELS CHEAP YO!

11 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I'm new here... did from mobile. Used a random pic of a classroom. Not sure how to change that? Looks fine on my phone...?

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

No clue i am just as new:) on my end they're like 2" a side squares (didnt measure maybe bigger) maybe use a bigger source image next time

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yes, please..

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That would be great. If the heartbreaking ones come to mind first it might be a good for you to make a list of the wonderful and funny ones.

11 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

I was always very very lucky, we never went hungry, but after my younger brother became diabetic (type 1) I always carried snacks just in 1/

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

case he went low (which happened too often) but I still do to this day and have happily shared with co-workers or other people

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's so sad how many kids don't get fed at home. They even keep urban schools open more so they can eat.

11 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 1

I went to a poor school from age 5-10 and we had a breakfast vlub where you could get toast and a milo for 50cent. Most families still 1/2

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I worked in a rural school. Many students didn't have running water in their house. We'd send them home with bags of food over the weekend

11 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

That's just plain sad.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

In which country ?

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

United States.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Couldnt avoid it, so the teachers would all put in some money and pay for it.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

That's really sad but nice too.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I want to bring awareness that it's not only urban schools where children suffer from food insecurity.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You are obviously the right person in the right job. Keep doing good. Sounds like those kids need you

11 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Thanks! I stay home with my little ones now, but would love to teach again!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As a former kindergartener, I can verify that kids can be sadly tragic, when not being little inquisitive dumbasses.

11 years ago | Likes 379 Dislikes 2

I don't think dumbasses is a good word for kindergarteners

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

They can't help being dumbasses, they don't know things yet. Just answer their questions and keep them from getting hurt.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Every part of that sentence could also be applied to adults.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Also, OP sounds like a good teacher to have had.

11 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

Aww thanks! I loved my students and keep in contact with a few.

11 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

I also taught 4th grade. Those students I am in contact with. But I still remember my kindergarten teacher. :)

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I do too!

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

How do they remember you? I don't remember a thing when I was that young.

11 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

When I was in high school, I helped out in the second grade classroom at my school. There was one girl in particular who just broke my 1/2

11 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

heart. Her mom was dead and her dad wasn't in the picture. She lived with her grandma. She would tell me how her uncle would make fun of 2/3

11 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

her. One day I noticed she was writing "I don't know" on questions she could have answered. She said it was because she missed her mom. 3/4

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

her. One day I noticed she was writing "I don't know" on questions she could have answered. She said it was because she missed her mom. 3/4

11 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Then I found out she would be switching schools. I gave her two copies of my phone number, one for her and one for her grandma, and said 4/5

11 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

to call me over the summer and I would take her out for ice cream. I ended up buying her some flashcards and "The Little Engine that 5/6

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

to call me over the summer and I would take her out for ice cream. I ended up buying her some flashcards and "The Little Engine that 5/6

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Could." I never did hear from her. It's been three years. I wish I could tell her she's the reason I'm switching my major to education. 6/6

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

God damn, some parents really are not parent material

11 years ago | Likes 333 Dislikes 0

And yet so many states refuse to allow gay couples to adopt.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There are people who shouldn't be allowed to breathe. Let alone have kids.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's a lot more than 'some'.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You need a license to fish and hunt but not to have kids.

11 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

This would be controlling one's physical body though. Lat time I checked imgur was against that kinda stuff.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I bring sad adulthood, friend! Hunting tags help pay for conservation efforts for future hunts and general ecological protection! Hurray!

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Anyone else think there should be something like a parent license and test.

11 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 6

Some societies have even implemented forced sterilization when they deemed potential parents unfit :D

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The Nazis. And at one point even the US.

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Fun fact, Hitler got the idea of his eugenics from the US....VERY slippery slope deciding for people

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I've thought so for years.

11 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Giving a governing body the ability to deny parenting rights is very dangerous IMO, best to remember "it takes a village."

11 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 2

. . Takes a village as in my damn taxes

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm not talking about denying rights, but about preventing abuse to children. Denying rights as a way for this, not an instrument of power.

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

but Giving a gov body the power allows for using it as power - we have laws against abuse already - be apart of the village, do your part.

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

meanwhile, the death penalty? My contribution to the village is to not make it more crowded

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I understand your concern, but do you have a better idea?

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

To quote the philosopher Keanu Reeves: you need a license to buy a dog, or drive a car. Hell, you need a license to catch a fish! (1/2)

11 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

(2/2) But they'll let any butt-reaming asshole be a father."

11 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

No, but fuck us women for wanting safe access to birth control that we can afford, amirite?!

11 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

Wtf? Who said woman font have the legal right to birth control? It's not even that expensive.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 3

And to think. Some loving stable couples are unable to have kids.

11 years ago | Likes 98 Dislikes 1

This is the thought that breaks my heart every month when I get my period :(

11 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Seriously. I don't want kids, can't I just donate my uterus?

11 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

It would be awesome if it was possible, dibs on it!

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's where my wife and I are currently.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wish you all of the luck in the world. Or. I hope you find an alternative that works for you.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

#1 Should have called the police....

11 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 3

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11 years ago (deleted May 22, 2015 3:34 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

No, you have to do it yourself.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hmm, I see. I really hope the police were contacted.

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Me too. In my experience, today and where I work, they are.

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I followed protocol.

11 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 1

It was a southern state and 10+ years ago. I don't remember the specifics, but our school counselor did follow up.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

What state are you in? You would have been fired here if you did not contact CPS.

11 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I STILL would have followed up with police. Fuck. That.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Honestly, I wasn't allowed to. Schools had to follow a certain order to remain legal. Laws may have changed by now, but I wanted to do more.

11 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

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11 years ago (deleted May 22, 2015 3:34 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Nope. You report it to the authorities straight away. If you tell someone else and you don't do anything further, you can get in 1/2

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was under the impression that Mandated Reporting laws mean that you have to report to police/CPS directly, not deferring to a counselor...

11 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Major trouble, face jail time and lose your teaching license.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

At least in Texas

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I had a much more different childhood. My uncle shot me with bb guns. I shot him, my sister and cousins with bb guns. They also shot me. Fun

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

me and my friends had bb gun wars, metal bb's. It was fun.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

nice. but seriously, growing up in the eighties, in country australia was nuts thinking back on it. I swam with crocs, before I was 4.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well not every kid is the Lord Lucifer.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Plastic or metal bbs? 0.o

11 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Plastic, and sometimes metal if we ran out. Hey, better than my mums time. They used to play cowboys and indians on the cyanide heap (1)

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

and shoot at each other with salt shotguns and whip each other with hoses.

11 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

You still have both your eyes, I hope.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yep. Centremass only.

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