Nov 20, 2022 4:58 AM
deevilknievel
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NotyouGuillermo
If youre both content with it then live your best lives! Don't bow to needless social norms! If not...
JeffGodofBiscuits
why ruin a good thing?
glovelyday
Meh. We were together 10 years. Decided to get married so we could takeca better vacation. Be married 40 years in March.
TheChunguskaEvent
If it works! We got married after 8 years because it became very tax efficient.
Oddlane
Is the only reason to be married for tax reasons?
It’s a nice incentive at least.
clearlyselfloving
congrats on not getting engaged
Newguy2021
For some marriage isn't the priority.
For some it’s all that matters.
With the right person it is. Alignment is key. Hope you both find what you're looking for. Sooner rather than later. 8 years is a lot
ispendtomuchtimehere
I made it ten years, then two years of marriage ruined our relationship by creating unforeseen expectations..it literally ruined it.
pls elaborate you can’t just leave us hanging like that.
well, for one thing expectations changed, she suddenly wanted a country club life, like I was somehow suddenly going to make lawyer money..
NotyouGuillermo
If youre both content with it then live your best lives! Don't bow to needless social norms! If not...
JeffGodofBiscuits
why ruin a good thing?
glovelyday
Meh. We were together 10 years. Decided to get married so we could takeca better vacation. Be married 40 years in March.
TheChunguskaEvent
If it works! We got married after 8 years because it became very tax efficient.
Oddlane
Is the only reason to be married for tax reasons?
deevilknievel
It’s a nice incentive at least.
clearlyselfloving
congrats on not getting engaged
Newguy2021
For some marriage isn't the priority.
deevilknievel
For some it’s all that matters.
Newguy2021
With the right person it is. Alignment is key. Hope you both find what you're looking for. Sooner rather than later. 8 years is a lot
ispendtomuchtimehere
I made it ten years, then two years of marriage ruined our relationship by creating unforeseen expectations..it literally ruined it.
deevilknievel
pls elaborate you can’t just leave us hanging like that.
ispendtomuchtimehere
well, for one thing expectations changed, she suddenly wanted a country club life, like I was somehow suddenly going to make lawyer money..