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AsASymbol
Yes, because this conversation would play out juuust like this.
EvilDolly
Her speal sounds like it's personal. Honestly, so long as it's consensual, not hurting anyone and consequences are taken care of, who cares?
QaQa79
how new age pseudo-intellectualism. i dont even know where to begin with this low iq thoughts
shneakrets
Source: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9jwa4wXtNjo
tweetlebeetlebottlepuddlepaddlebattlemuddle
If women thinks it's empowering to have sex, when you literally can any time you want, you should try being a guy.
SerialKitten666
It's not empowering. The average person is viewed as fuckable. It's not an achievement.
SerialKitten666
Also, trust me, guys can have sex whenever they want to, just have to learn how to work it and change who you're going after a bit
acme64
you see, that's how they get ya
JhericFury
I prefer to think of sex...when i'm alone, at night, with the internet.
CrunchyNipples
I'm that person. What movie is this?
ionichummingbird
As a woman who has has a lot of partners, I respect people who are more particular about who they choose and I expect the same from them.
piglip
sex... not even once
MichelLeMoindre
Sex is good. Sex at the right time with the right person is very good. Sex at the wrong time will feel good prob'ly but is bad. My thoughts
olds97lss
Sigh... unzip
GingerSports
What's this from??
takingthehobbitstoisengard
Daydream Nation. It was (is?) on Netflix. Kinda slice of life, I enjoyed it but my husband didn't. (He felt it was pointless.)
okbluejays
I didn't really like it either
takingthehobbitstoisengard
It hit me the right way at the time--I liked the atmosphere and the white/grey suit man legend. But yeah, not that much to it.
GingerSports
Awesome!! Thanks!
BeardyMcFace
Fun Fact: Also the title of the post.
takingthehobbitstoisengard
Haha yeah, I saw that. But it's very little effort to reply and this way I could give my (very short) opinion. ^^
falconpuawnch
There's a difference between choosing how many partners you have and using sex to feel validated and accepted.
Dies2much
in a row!!??
AlexGalbraith
Goddamn, that's some serious writer-inserting-their-views-via-unnatural-monolgue
ConspicuousSpellingError
I see you've met my enemy: Mr. Unnecessary Comma.
stephybobeffy
the "slut" in this scene starts crying when the accuser leaves... just so ya know
brennanandbooth
Words hurt no matter how strong your convictions are.
NoiceSmart
Well said. Also, love the username. I just realized there were new episodes of that show on Netflix...I didn't do much last night.
nahemah
I just stopped browsing imgur to watch that movie.
jchawks08
The world needs more women with this go-get-em attitude!
SerialKitten666
There are just as many women like this as men who are like this. And yeah, be mindful of their cleanliness. Be safe :)
thedorkknightrises
The world needs more women with this go-get-dick attitude!
BananaHammockRepublic
*go-fuck-em
NeverMindtheManBehindtheCurtain
more people*
jchawks08
:) True!
notirrelevant
You mean sluts, right?
jchawks08
lol yes, and I find it funny that this comment is at +5, and your other same comment is-2. Imgur...
notirrelevant
I I didn't even know. My crappy phone...
ThisIsntWhereIParkedMyCar
I feel like every time this is posted its by teenage boys who are trying to convince girls to have sex with them.
retardedmoose
Or women who are fighting for the respect we deserve but are denied because of society's taboo on women having casual sex.
Biohazardous
Or you can go fuck yourself.
retardedmoose
Or, being a slut, I can go fuck someone else :P
Biohazardous
At least you're embracing it and not complaining.
aselfdefeatingattitude
Sex is awesome. Everyone should have sex. I'm having sex right now in my mind. Shit, wait, I was thinking about pudding, not sex.
MaybeeAB
doesn't matter. still counts
BatmanLannister
I hate this. They're both wrong. It's okay to have sex, it's okay not to. Stop shaming each other, you harpies.
DasOgre
Ogre doesn't like that you shame shamers.
clnoy
It's not okay to not have sex only because someone or some philosophy is depriving yourself of it.
BatmanLannister
This girl might find sex more intimate (okay) and Dennings might like it casual (also okay). Not okay is both of them judging each other.
BatmanLannister
Very true but Kat Dennings only assumes that about this girl the same way that girl assumes about her. They're both wrong.
thatslovely
That's why it wasn't sitting well with me, they both were hating on each other! You helped me get it straight in my head man :)
iamireland
Wrong, she never said she HAD to have sex. She actually said sex isn't as good as she thinks it is, it'd help if you read it.
BatmanLannister
I had read it, every single time it's posted and she clearly insults her "gerbil-sized brain" for not wanting to have sex. So no, not wrong.
iamireland
You had read it, then what happened? She's clearly mocking her for being programmed by the media. Reading Comprehension: D minus.
BatmanLannister
She doesn't, she just assumes this girl doesn't like sex so of course she's brainwashed and stupid.
BatmanLannister
What happened is two girls insult each other, using their own prejudices against each other and assume they know how the other thinks.
BatmanLannister
These two girls judged each other by assuming they know how the other thinks and why. How does KD know why that girl thinks this way?
iamireland
We can't assume she assumed, we don't know the acquaintance of the two. Besides it's a TV show, we can't read too much into it either way.
Ivaer
Who would just go out of their way to call someone a slut like that? That's very rude. At least say it behind their back.
sapharodon
Some people feel that announcing a statement like that from their pedestal makes them "good," it's really just crude.
polarbearbaby
That's what my mother used to call me. Now she wonders why I never come over now that she's dying of cancer.
NeverMindtheManBehindtheCurtain
This made me sad in many ways. :(
polarbearbaby
Yah, it makes me sad too, but we have nothing to talk about and I really don't know what she expected would happen. Thanks though!
NeverMindtheManBehindtheCurtain
*gives hug* Well if you need anyone to chat about it with, or just shoot the shit, hit me up. My inbox is always open.
polarbearbaby
Thanks! Best Man Behind Curtain Ever!
SuperHornet
Lots of people. Chicks are terrible to each other; that's a fact.
johnvictor
I find this a very common trait of all television portrayed teenage girls.
MatrimBloodyCauthon
I really want to learn this mindset to accept people more easily. It's just difficult after being programmed growing up.
sexybuttercup
Meh a little from column A and a little from column B. Sure media and society's perception are partially to blame but I think a lot is inate
notapreppie
You mean the desire to have amazing sex is instinctual rather than a socio-media construct? Almost like we are programmed to reproduce?
typingtreemonkey
Sex is more than reproduction, it also builds trust and intimacy, which doesn't have to be exclusive. Like crying, you build relationships
sexybuttercup
Sarcasm noted. Sure we have that urge already, but the idea of sex is constantly shoved down our face in every corner of our lives that...
sexybuttercup
...it becomes apart of our collective consciousness AND with that, society has dictated how we should view sex and what "should" be ok.
hunderedprocentpear
3 important foundation for civilisations to start.
notapreppie
I agree. Instinct planted the general desire, society/media/religion shaped our views on it.
hunderedprocentpear
Think those followed our views rather than the other way around.
hunderedprocentpear
2 After which they did start to leave their traces, of course. But I suspect that men knowing which offspring is theirs is a rather
SerialKitten666
I think the "guilt/shame" stems more from the fact that we know we just did someone we shouldn't have, not something >.>
Heisenbergerandfries
Am I the only one who sang this like the Genie from Aladdin? Yeah? Ok....
WasThatGuyFromTheWireGayQuestionmark
The "problem" is you didn't charge them money, and that makes you dumb. SEIZE THE OPPORTUNITY, YOU DUMMY!
Dorover
If you're good at something, never do it for free. -Joker in The Dark Knight
WasThatGuyFromTheWireGayQuestionmark
Why post who said it and from where? Everybody with an account on this site knows. Not trying to be a jerk here, but for fuck sake...
Dorover
Imgur has 100 million unique monthly users from around the world, I'm 100% sure not EVERY SINGLE ONE has seen the movie, so for fuck sake...
WasThatGuyFromTheWireGayQuestionmark
100 milllion?!
AllYourPeppermintAreBelongToMe
I'm still gonna just have sex with one person. K, thanks.
retardedmoose
That's fine for you, just don't go hating on those that choose to do it differently! :)
Biohazardous
Calling them a slut is hating them? No. I don't hate sluts because they choose to be sluts. I hate that they bitch about it.
Cp3hoe
no where in that sentence you're responding to said calling people sluts is hating on them.
AllYourPeppermintAreBelongToMe
Amen. I hate the pity party when something goes wrong. I've never had sex. I've also never been pregnant, had an STI, or banged and left. :)
JeanLucPicard
I dunno. My GF's had sex with about 20 guys. It bothers me sometimes. I can't rationalize it though. Why does it bother me? Serious question
commelesgarcons
It's just your own insecurity. She's with you now, feel proud. If you're wondering if you're the best man for her, make an effort to be it.
typingtreemonkey
It could also be a lizard-brain sperm competition issue. You don't know you have it, but you have it.
dianalolz
look at it this way: out of 21 guys, you're her favorite so far!
rcruz720
My bf gets upset that I've had sex with the same amount of people he has. He feels weird that I got to be intimate with people before him
rcruz720
He needs reassurance that he's better than the other guys. And he is. He genuinely loves me for me. Unlike my exes. He's the best I've had.
JeanLucPicard
Us sensitive guys need a little reassurance sometimes lol but I think we give back more than other guys too
SerialKitten666
Save for it being a fetish, no 1 likes to think about some one else's cum being inside their lady or her mouth on some one else's cock, etc
irhamid
It's bothering you since you're wondering if one of them was significantly more endowed than you and you can't make her toes curl like that.
JeanLucPicard
Yup. Thanks for the mental image btw.
WhatzitTooya
Having in mind that humans are basically only really smart apes: Many animals defend "their women" against other males...
WhatzitTooya
Basing on the downvotes, some people may not want to accept the quite animalistic roots of their sex drive and concerns about.
JeanLucPicard
Yeah, I agree it seems to be some sort of pre-human instinct. Glad to see you got voted back up :)
ImRoniDeutch
Maybe it bothers your girlfriend when she tells you something private and you tell the internet...
beautyinthorns
My bf pretends to not be bothered by the number of men i've been with, but once when we were arguing he brought up my number and he 1/2
beautyinthorns
tried to shame me for it. I am not ashamed of my past, and I don't want to be shamed for my past too. It almost got ugly...
brennanandbooth
almost? I think he went there already. I think he could use some alone time...like for good.
beautyinthorns
ugly as in him getting a black eye... ugly is when I raise my fists... lol
JeanLucPicard
Wow. I would never shame her for it. Just remember he was probably having a weak moment and feeling insecure. If he does it again though...
JeanLucPicard
...Well I might go with the 3 strikes, you're out, rule. Sure, I feel jealous about my GF's past, but I know it's about me, not her.
beautyinthorns
That's what I'm going with. It was kind of a weak moment because he was losing an argument... So he kind of pulled the number card to 1/2
Flyndaran
It's retroactive jealously.
TitsHooligan
Its just an instinct to want to have "your" woman all to yourself. I was a bit of a skank too, it doesnt mean she wont be faithful to you.
JeanLucPicard
Thank you, all these comments are making me feel a lot better.
marblesinmahmouth
I don't know, bud. Just remember that she is with you now and not with any of the others she's been with. <3
JeanLucPicard
That's what I tell myself when I start to feel jealous :) thanks
marblesinmahmouth
It's absolutely the truth. I'm hear to talk sometimes if you need it. :)
JeanLucPicard
Your username also made me feel better.
marblesinmahmouth
That makes me happy.
liliputian7
Quite possibly because the average person has at max 14 sexual partners, ever.
liliputian7
I'm sorry, I was wrong. It's seven.
karlthatkillspeople
you know that 20 other guys have seen her naked and had sex with her. it's an intimate thing and I always wonder if my partner fucked...
karlthatkillspeople
...other girls in the same positions or if he said the same things or made the same noises with other girls. plus I feel compared to them
xelbar
It's weird, though. We feel more strongly about sex than any other things. How often did it bother you that your SO had spent many great
xelbar
moments with his/her ex(es)? Probably not as often as it's the case with sex, right? I think it's because of simple jealousy, fueled by the
xelbar
desire to successfully procreate, which is engrained in every one of us. It's different from love and intimacy, I think, a much more
acme64
If they where competition you wouldn't be the GF.
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JeanLucPicard
You guys are awesome. I feel quite reassured after reading these comments. Thanks :)
lizzycakes
I have to say as a girl, I am reassured after reading this 'thread' that there's good guys out there; they aren't all insensitive pigs.
JeanLucPicard
As a guy, it's reassuring to know that girls aren't always attracted to insensitive pigs!
waspentalive
Are you perhaps afraid that she is secretly comparing you to the other guys?
JeanLucPicard
Pretty much.
JCLII
You won't care as much once you get older. I used to care when I was younger and now I couldn't care less.
JeanLucPicard
That's good to know :) thanks
okbluejays
I can confirm this
lizzycakes
Serious question back: How do you feel about sleeping with multiple women?
lizwb
Maybe because you've had fewer? Subconsciously, you're competing?
ThisIsNotTheGreatestNameInTheWorldThisIsJustATribute
Probably cause it was all at once. KIDDING! Don't hit me. ;)
JeanLucPicard
Two kinds of people... haha
Nameless301
Not all people that think some people are slut are "Brainwashed into thinking sex is a sin" that's just trying to justify your behavior . .
Nameless301
by grouping everyone that disagrees with you and calling them brainwashed.
takingthehobbitstoisengard
That's true--they can be judgy, in-your-business assholes without being brainwashed.
Nameless301
Or you know, Science! http://www.academia.edu/209711/Sexual_Behaviour_and_its_Mental_Health_Consequences
takingthehobbitstoisengard
What about it? That hardly seems to prove anything regarding multiple sexual partners.
Nameless301
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201304/the-lingering-psychological-effects-multiple-sex-partners
takingthehobbitstoisengard
That was an enjoyable read, thank you.
Nameless301
2) but there are multiple scientific and psychological studies that show that frequent casual sex relationships can have extreme negative
takingthehobbitstoisengard
CAN have negative consequences. Doesn't mean you should call people sluts--being irresponsible is the problem here, not sex.
Nameless301
1) If you seriously want to keep justifying your lifestyle by saying everyone that's critical of it is just judgy or assholes go right ahead
takingthehobbitstoisengard
I'm monogamous, so I'm not justifying anything--I just think an oppressive society is a lot less "healthy" than casual sex.
Nameless301
3) consequences. Heath journals are full of them.
Nomanorus
Can't you argue that this post is doing the opposite? Trying to brainwash people into a permissive neutral attitude about sex?
AskingQuestionsYouDidntKnowYouNeededAnAnswerTo
That character seems to be advocating a balanced view, imo: neither sex-negative nor sex-obsessed.
Nomanorus
That's why I used the terms permissive neutral attitude ; )
CoyoteSabre
That's so not PC.
Nomanorus
Yeah, it's more Mac to me.
sardeliac
"brainwash"? Sooo, which part of the Bible belt are you from? I'm gonna guess Iowa.
digdogday
I live in Iowa and have never heard of IA being part of the bible belt?
HodgePodgekin
Actually, "brainwash" is kind of a relevant term here. If you left out the forcible aspect of the definition, this scene is pure propoganda
Nomanorus
I'm just using the language from the OP. Is Ohio part of the Bible belt?
sthuperduper
No need to bash people, Nomanorus is just stating a point.
adhocavenger
A neutral attitude isn't permissive. Making value judgments about people based on their sexual history is pretty messed up, is her point.
Nomanorus
2/2 by arguing that ascribing a moral nature to sex (regardless of what that nature is) is brainwashing someone. Seems circular to me.
Nomanorus
Sure it is, if something has neutral moral value, its certainly permissible. I agree on you second statement though.
Nomanorus
I agree that calling people sluts is wrong but she's still making a claim about the moral nature of sex (that it's neutral). 1/2
adhocavenger
been called a slut, after all. One person arguing off verbal abuse isn't brainwashing, whereas the cultural machine she calls out can be.
adhocavenger
Her point is about the culture of shame surrounding sex 'brainwashing' people, and she's making it in defense of herself. She's just (more)
Nomanorus
Just because she's presenting a culturally accepted opinion doesn't make it any less circular.
adhocavenger
Circular logic depends upon its premises. If anything, you're drawing a false comparison between an individuals's speech and a culture's.