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Nov 30, 2017 1:17 AM
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Copperbrat
And you think this is an unpopular opinion? Really?
PurgetheMutant
Should live first, get the kids later. Men leave their families all the time but somehow a woman doing it is a lot worse?
DavyDavyDave
Selfish? Sure. Horrible? Not necessarily.
Munchman347
Unless, of course, if it's just for a few hours. Everybody deserves some 'Me' time...
Daphault1
..., and your spouse and kids are better off without your worthless ass.
Saminated25
@AbcdEVIE
WizardofAwws
Can I get some sauce on this
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WizardofAwws
Thank you
MySpiritAnimalIsTheUnpopularOpinionPuffin
If you abandon your family, you're a horrible person. Gender doesn't matter.
sokkerpunch
Indeed
Saminated25
@AbcdEVIE
yoginioftruth
Someone HALP! I don't go to the fp!! Send link
crinklecutcheesywhatsit
Dot. I'm lazy
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crinklecutcheesywhatsit
Thanks!
AncientRobot
Reminds me of this man that worked for my dad. One day he disappeared, didn't show up for work, wife filed a police report, etc (1)
AncientRobot
Two months later he sends a message, not to his wife or two kids he abandoned, but to my dad saying sorry he left work with no notice. (2)
AncientRobot
He decided to move to Las Vegas, family life and a job wasn't "working" for him. Some people just suck. Sorry you have to deal with that (3)
stargazer58
And what if it's the husband. Moved his girlfriend across country to take care of her, but fuck over his wife and four kids.
DoctorMantisTobogganMD
Anyone seen Coco? good shit right there
flamingflamingo
My dad left us with my mom, just gave her full custody, and focused on his job (navy). I don't think that's much different, or that anyone >
flamingflamingo
would think he's a horrible person.
HighlandPotatoe
But we gotta respect all dem vets
FuriousNik
Is OP just pointing out objects in their room and adding them to their username?
Frisbeesloth
As opposed to staying and making husband and kids miserable with her?
ThatOneFriendWhoTriesTooHard
There is a thing called middle ground. Elusive, but worth the hunt.
Frisbeesloth
As someone who was married with 3 kids, sometimes there is no middle ground to stand on.
Frisbeesloth
Not always. Can you imagine how much you would have to hate your life to walk away like that? That's 17 years of resentment.
Kay2015
At least trying counselling or something...
CRAAAAATE
Thank you
IvorJBiggun
Shouldn't you be replying to their post rather than being passive-aggressive?
Brocktooon
Something in my ex snapped about 5 years ago. Now personal gratification is her priority. It breaks my heart.
divatriformis
This isn't an unpopular opinion my friend
idenoh
I agree with DildoNecklaceDesk.
pieter42
I bet you never ever imagined you would type that sentence
Skulties1
Dildonecklacedesk is right!
IIIHalezIII
me too.. cuz if you leave your kids, with the husband you just left.. you're horrible..
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MiracleWhoop
I swear to god i was just going to do this . +1
Kabe59
There is always wisdom in DildoNecklaceDesk's words
IIIHalezIII
underratedcommentz
8/10
mdkradSmuggler
Bet you never thought you would type that sentence.+1
IWishAussieAnimalsWereMoreCuddly
Selfish? Yes. Should they stay instead? No. In the short term, leaving is gonna break a lot of hearts but trust me, staying and letting 1/2
IWishAussieAnimalsWereMoreCuddly
The resentment for each other build up is even more unhealthy. They're better off without them 2/2
ConvenientTruth
It seems like you’re just exploiting someone’s misfortune for points by making a very agreeable statement
DBSOempathy
My mom never came to court to fight over custody. I lived with my dad and saw here on summers if I wanted to. She died a few years back
DBSOempathy
I didn’t feel bad but my siblings made a complete about face and cried over how much she meant to them.
buddhabowl
Same goes with men leaving their wives and kids...
JonathanFrey
Sometimes they're better off without her.
101Medic
In this scenario, 100% of the time they're better off without her imo. Narcissism and parenting don't mix.
nclu
Amen. Also, consistent with @OP’s message. Kids are better off without shitty people.
Meiling00
THIS! My mom said "the kids or the truck" in the divorce. Selfish, shitty human. Things would've been better if she'd have just stayed away!
SofaKingSpecial
Because she's a selfish and horrible person?
aeonicentity
Two things can be true at once.
myexpectationsaresuperlow
Yeah I wish my mom would just leave instead of thinking her children are automatically obligated to also do whatever the fuck she wants.
mjoallie
Or you could be my husband's father, and leave him, and then try to pretend you're father of the year. Good stuff....
eagle193
must have missed it. anyone got a link?
GeorgeHWBushsGhost
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ScottT45
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SociallyAwkwardCanadianMoose
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IMarriedAGinger
Dot
BlakeTortilla
dot
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somenerandom
Thank you. I could NOT find it
FrozenFoodGuy
They removed the post :( *sad random browser*
chromaticlotus
I feel ya...
providedlava
My mom left us and tried to take everything because a doctor told my father he would never work again. Claimed God told her to. :) Fun shit
jumbosmooth
:(
RaptaGzus
Doh! What a character!
toasteheh
Wow what a piece of shit.
toastyrotzy
fuuuuuuck
PaddyPudding
Haha moms, am I right?
PaddyPudding
I’m not wrong
brasky456
d3jake
Amazing how any depraved idea in your head is suddenly okay when "God" says it's okay.
shunofagun
I feel like this is the movie frailty
Virunuss
ok so i know thats shitty but i kinda understand her not wanting to work herself to death to provide for everyone alone.
davis3d
Work to death? An average 40 hr job can easily support a family. Not to mention government support.
GunLovingTreeHugger
As a mother you NEVER abandon your children. At least not when they are under 18. But even then it's horrible, hurts everyone.
providedlava
My father was a stay at home parent my whole life. Nothing in their relationship changed with this news.
MelvinLedbedder7
Whats her name? Lets make her famous
JCBaggins
Hate when people use religion to pull shit like that. “God told me too!” Yeah, and I’m sure God also said start dating the rich guy, too!
LockedForGood
Some of them also claim to speak tongues; that shit crazy
DaedaIus
God telling me to reclaim the holy land is still valid though, right?
JCBaggins
Deus Vult?
DaedaIus
DEUS VULT
PrincessOctopus
The only time I was okay with this and it's more of a looking back thing, friend broke up with her bf of the time saying she was worried 1
PrincessOctopus
Satan would make him make her sin. At the time I dismissed it as odd then I dated him and realized he was kind of rapey in private.
PrincessOctopus
I also recently found out the real reason was because he was pushy and cheated on her. (Not with me)
TheBlackJacobin
James Cameron left his wife and first born to make movies. No one seems to be on his ass.
LikeTotallyNotTheNSA
Not yet...
marsgoose
That's kind of a common theme with people who are professionally very successful, they suck at personal relationships.
marsgoose
You also have to put your work as the #1 priority to achieve that so that's probably the reason.
marsgoose
I mean look at ol'Musky, doing all that awesome shit, I'd never trade my life with him, his personal life is a screwup.
UncomfortableAnswers
Speaking as someone whose parents had (and have) an extremely unhappy marriage, "stay together for the kids" is toxic and unhelpful advice.
mallerzkay
I interpreted it as someone actually abandoning their family not getting a divorce.
somenerandom
The meme is about a mother of 3 who just up and moved to another country without a word. Getting a divorce is one thing, ditching your>
somenerandom
3 kids and moving is a completely different matter.
ApsychicRat
indeed, while some people arnt good parents you dont just do that without explaining yourself