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GadenKerensky
I am weirded out by two men kissing; since that's their right, I just ignore it.
Darknight133
"You kiss your mother with that mouth?" Umm, no.
DeltaBlast
Behold, Angelina Jolie and her brother: /a/mujCh
TheChef1212
I used to do this. And then I turned 6.
eahuber14
http://imgur.com/lKvgfEK
wabitgirl
I spent years making out with my cousin. It was a good time.
Thesilverqueen311
My mom's side of the family does this, I always turn my head to try and get cheek but they always get my lips...it's gross, I hate it.
3spooks5me
You people are terrible at using memes
LittleDutch
I kiss my parents on the lips, also hug them. Been that way since I can remember, but they wine and dine first so its okay.
deeviralbuzz
ArgentSun
Hey, different cultures. People from my country do it, and I don't get it either
WillJeSuis
I agree and I actually avoided it with my niece as she grew up, she would go kissing others (family) on the lips and I'd turn away so she
WillJeSuis
would not kiss me on the lips and on the cheek instead. I just feel it's weird and if she grows up thinking it's normal and it ends up doing
WillJeSuis
it to strangers whereas the kiss on cheeks is more standard.
DamnKidsAndYourMusic
Good man
nellynorgus
Weird-outers: That's creepy.Kissers: you think that's sexual? sick fuck!
nellynorgus
Just wanted to point out how excessively aggressive the attitude is on one side of this divide. Almost like frantic self affirmation.
mynameisnotalice
I have the opposite "problem". Always feel sorry for kids in families that are not affectionate towards each others. Physical contact is (1)
Bugleisthebomb
Agreed, I have no family contact, 1 email a year saying happy birthday and that's all from a family of 5. Hugs are underrated
Equreuil
My family hugs and gives kisses on the cheek. that's plenty affectionate
WhyShouldILoveYou
You can be affectionate towards your family without kissing them.
mynameisnotalice
You can but you don't need to.
potatiskatt
I don't kiss my mom on the lips but we are very affectionate with each other. Lots of hugs, cuddles when we're watching TV, etc.
WillJeSuis
@OP is talking about kissing lip on lip not about hugging, cuddles or even kissing on cheeks.
mynameisnotalice
And I talk about affectionate physical contact. Should have exclusively include kissing on the lip. In my head that connection was clear ^^'
littlebear4415
I disagree, I find a long tight hug from mom or dad is much more comforting then a kiss on the lips..
mynameisnotalice
Me, too. So not sure what you're disagreeing on ;)
nellynorgus
Seems relevant, but you're actually not talking about the same thing OP is...
mynameisnotalice
For me 'kissing' (also on the lip, it doesn't really make a difference for me if it's the lip or the cheek) also counts as sign of affection
nellynorgus
I guess? How accepting would you be of people in a society where it is normal to rub your child on the butt cheeks? It's not OVERTLY sexual.
mynameisnotalice
Same. If the kid communicates discomfort it's something else though. But then it doesn't matter if it's a kiss, hug or handshake.
mynameisnotalice
important for the mental well-being of kids (and adults for that matter...) There are families that don't even hug or cuddle... (2)
mykneesaremeatarmsspaghetti
Have fun making out with your kids then, weirdo
Attaleros
Can confirm. My family didn't hug or cuddle at all. I struggle with physical contact as an adult because it scares me and weirds me out.
Krismizter
Same with me... the only time i cuddle or hug anyone is when im on MDMA.
Attaleros
There are only two people whom I will hug without major discomfort. Anyone else, I just freeze in fear and hope they stop hugging me.
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WillJeSuis
Take an upvote because someone downvoted you and I 100% agree with you as you were on point.
mynameisnotalice
My point is: I don't give a fuck if people are kissing on their lips. But I am weirded out by people with no physical contact. 'opposite'(1)
mynameisnotalice
probably was misleading. (2)
TurningTurningIntheWideningGyro
Oh stop being so fucking pedantic and actually respond to what the guy said
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craeza
Yeah, people who cuddle their family too much. That fucking weird.
QuackersM
Somebody wasn't held much when they were a baby...
MrMarmalade88
What about sisters?
JustPlaneWrong
Depends if it's being filmed and also if it's a porno.
SentOS
Damn duuuude
Unbelievableforever
I incest you change your tone
thornmallow
I wouldn't say unnatural, but it skeeves me out too. I once saw a guy kiss and suck his 2yo daughter's lower lip. Fuckin ew.
OnlySupernaturalWillDo
Well, yeah. There's a choice between a peck and sucking the lip.
Davinel
what about the customary rimjobs when saying goodbye then?
Sheprador
Hope you're not to old to give your old man and goodnight rimjob.
tornadosandwich
sinbinrugger
The only person I ever kiss on the lips is my grandma. I feel it's a bit strange, but it's my grandma so I don't care.
SterlingArcherSecretAgent
I'd say it depends about whether or not they use tongue or not.
Zombieshark
Wow, so many people defending their family-kissing
WillJeSuis
"JUST BECAUSE WE USE TONGUE DOESN'T MEAN WE'RE WEIRD!!!! YOU'RE THE WEIRD ONE!!!"
RenoXIII
We"ll fight to the death to kiss our family on the lips, and to marry our cousins! :P
Mithi
There is nothing to "defend" on a perfectly normal habit. The prudes should simply take their heads out of their bottoms.
Zombieshark
"perfectly normal"
JonestownClassPresident
It's cultural. My aunts and uncles all do because my grandma raised them that way. I don't. I don't think it is inappropriate. Just gross.
rumpuspumpus
It's only weird if weirdos make it weird.
FireBreathingFerret
I'm a dude and kiss my son on the lips; he's only 2. Not sure how long it will last, will update in a few years
justanotheryoungstermother
I kiss my girl on the lips. I'll stop if she asks me to, at some point. But then again, I'm 21 and still kiss my mum on the lips.
clutchthepearls
I stopped once my kids went from toddlers to school aged. I still kiss them on the cheeks, head, etc. and that's not stopping until I die.
VenerateThisGuy
Same, after they left toddler stage, I became a forehead only kisser. I'm sure even that can change
SurprisedBox
My 2 year old kisses me on the lips but my 5 year old won't anymore because it spreads germs.
diehardlance
Still mouth kissing your relatives?
FireBreathingFerret
Lol thanks for checking in after two years! Hes 4 now and yes, still kiss on the lips
RegularAnemone
How bout now?
Highlander8795
24 guy here, I still occasionally peck my dad on the lips, really no idea why people think it's weird kisses don't have to be sexual at all.
ArKade
So. Creepy.
freyjaboo
Why? In Russian and Spain and like half the world it's 100% the social norm.
Every1friend
thats how you get herpes dude I broke up with a girl when I saw her kiss her dirty ass uncle like you gonna put ur mouth on mine after that
Skulllssc
Nah not going anywhere near you mouth guy, you can rest easy on that
shorr
Thats's.... not any more dirty than your mouth
freyjaboo
I feel like it's impossible to avoid kissing baby people because they're just so smoochable
FireBreathingFerret
Yes, don't resist
freyjaboo
I don't. Especially when my nephews ask for them!
Seggs
As a parent of a 1 year old, can confirm
freyjaboo
I have 2 nephews and I can't avoid smooching them all over the face.
ninmonkey
I'm able to refrain from kissing random babies. Maybe that's just me?
freyjaboo
Yes I'm advocating the kissing of random stranger babies.
ninmonkey
Now it's a matter of public record. I suggest you don't incriminate yourself further.
remix96
We probably did that in my family until i was about 8 or so
Jinkin
My coworker would do that with his daughter; he said it's not sexual. I asked if he'd do that with a son & he says "no, that's gay"
FireBreathingFerret
Thats how masculinity works i guess!
BabyMamaMina
valkrez
Are you southern? Not baiting, genuinely curious if this is a geographical thing.
FireBreathingFerret
As northern as they come
thisisjunk
Is this "I have an opinion" puffin now?
Fluffypaleness
.. what do you mean "now"?
KingMammajamma
Yeah, most of the time when a genuinely unpopular opinion gets posted it gets down voted into oblivion.
thedalpal
Username checks out
Pinklestein
I hate meme prefabs
CocktailGaming
It's the "I want my opinion validated, by fooling others into thinking I'm insecure about it" puffin
LivingDecomposition
That's the only way they're ever used.
GovernorRichardGecko
Some say the truly unpopular opinions tend to be less ...popular (aka they die in usersub)
SaturdayMidmorning
It's true :( It...happened...to me and dropped me out of newly won status. Hurt my goddamn feels.
LivingDecomposition
One time I made one as a troll post, and it actually got deleted before I could even check the points. Broke no rules.
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NilsRungholmJensen
Wincest degenerate detected
lokiraa
We be apes not monkeys
Vivificus
Don't call me a monkey.
CheetahFart
How can an opinion be incorrect
TheVileMushroom
People upvote opinions that aren't unpopular and downvote actual unpopular opinions. It's pretty hypocritical
TheSublimelyMagnificentJechtUsernameMarkIII
Wasn't it always that way? You know unpopular OPINION puffin
tinycupcakes
I think he/she meant this opinion isn't so unpopular?
Spadey
Well if it was unpopular it would've been downvoted
MikeVick
Not really. Popular opinion puffins get up votes all the time
CatBlaster5000
JOIN THE FIGHT. DOWNVOTE TODAY
yeahrightshaun
Lol fuckin a.
chrisdafish
Someone had made a meme called The Elephant in the Room but I guess it just died off
Dexidus
Nikolaj
You are entirely too concerned with what other people do. How about you fix your own fucked up shit first?
Wuz314159
To be fair, Trump is running for President.
Cheerfulinsanity
I liked the first sentence, you lost me with the second
Nikolaj
That's okay.
myteetharedryyyyy
upvoting this comment because your graceful reply to people disagreeing with you shouldnt be in the "bad comments".
Nikolaj
Thanks :)
Armourhotdog
johnxbear
Well if they would stop doing it in my house that'd be great.
superfeathers
Isn't that the basis for like, every puffin meme? I don't get why this one bothers you so much.
Nikolaj
They all bother me.
chrisybear
Why can't anyone on here use this Meme right?
madeanaccounttosaythis
Because then they would never get to the front page
carouselcues
omg thank you. i also find this fucking weird af
TurningTurningIntheWideningGyro
You can't help feeling the way you do, but maybe examine your feelings a bit. Why does family members being affectionate weird you out?
carouselcues
Maybe bc I never had any. I'm cool with hugs and kisses on the cheek, but on the lips? I feel that reserved for romantic partners
superfeathers
Because I see kissing on the lips as a sexual thing and I would only ever do it with my intimate partner. >>
superfeathers
What I don't get and how everyone seems to have a problem with this view? Where did the kissing family members nazis come from
carouselcues
lol ikr
FelixG
It is good to kiss your babies on the lips though, it helps with immune systems (Link in reply!)
FelixG
http://healthland.time.com/2013/05/06/moms-saliva-can-strengthen-babies-immune-systems/
Thesilverqueen311
Ya, that's fine...what about when your baby is almost 30...still ok?
RenoXIII
Bizarre but interesting fact.
ButYouAintGotNoLegs
I didn't read the article, but I know it's also good while breastfeeding. It picks up on what your baby needs and alerts your body to
ButYouAintGotNoLegs
basically make the milk needed to provide it. Since your baby's needs change, frequent kisses are good.
levzin
Oddly enough, baby's saliva enters the breast during a feeding, also aiding in the change in milk to suit baby's needs.
ButYouAintGotNoLegs
It does indeed. The body is pretty awesome that way.
Vegainthemirror
Upvote because I don't agree with you. It's far from unnatural to me. I'm turning 30 next year and I still do that with my parents, b/c>>
MZappano
Italian here, my wife is Greek...both our families would make the OP very uncomfortable
MZappano
Yes the two cheek kiss is more common, but with close family, especially the older generations, on the lips is not weird.
flamingflamingo
If it's the Italian cheek kiss, that's fine.
Morositas
Italian here but the double cheek kiss isn't really the same. Only my American family kisses lips. Culture shock if you ask me.
JimJefferies
Italian here too, I mean we kiss on the (face) cheeks not the lips, right? RIGHT?
MZappano
Yeah... sure...act like you don't go for the cheek and Nonna doesn't plant one on your lips.
itllbeogresoon
Same, except i down voted.
Vegainthemirror
Then you should upvote, because it's the correct use of the meme :D
itllbeogresoon
Tru
PigeonFace
Irish here, it's starting to die out here, but it's totally normal, it's not sexual or to do with attraction dudes
sammyismycat
40yo and I still do with my parents
AdonalsiumShard16
Thank you! Someone else who does the obvious. If you don't agree with it then upvote, downvote ones you agree with. That way any (1/2)
AdonalsiumShard16
That make it to the FP are truly unpopular opinions! (2/2)
Vegainthemirror
>>to me it has never been and will never be sexual in any way. Sorry to make you gross out when you see people do that, but that's not a>>
SerialChillinSpree
You're good. Like you said, it's the meaning behind it that matters. I'm w/op's perspective though, if you don't do it, it's bit of shock.
loradaxplora
Me too :)
Vegainthemirror
>>reason to make me feel like I'm doing something wrong and would have to change it.
iwaslikeduuude
Love is love, as long as it's expressed, that's all that matters
Vegainthemirror
Yeah
flamingflamingo
Tbqh you're entitled to live however you want but mouth kissing your paren't as an adult will weird out most people.
HarryPotterReferenceProbably
Only in some places in the world. Even some eras in time. It's more common than not common I would think. Could be wrong.
Shartifartfast
I appreciate the markers you chose for a continuous comment
Vegainthemirror
That's the first time I hear that :) thanks!
nikseen
It's a simple and non-intrusive method, gonna steal it from ya ;)
levzin
I don't kiss my parents or siblings like that anymore, but I do kiss my 4 yr old on the lips. Sometimes I don't even notice. Love is love.
levzin
She isn't grossed out. She's my baby. But I know I will stop at a certain age. She's still too precious to not get all the kisses.
Morositas
I read a study that determined kissing your kids like that transmits cavity causing bacteria. :/
levzin
I went to school for dental assisting. I'm not worried about it. If anything it strengthens your immune system. Plus it's not like I'm >
BattlesTARDIStroyer
Well yeah kissing anyone ever transmits bacteria.
boopdedo
Yes. At 27, I'm the daughter and I kiss my mom, dad, grandad, grandmother, all of em. Never been and never will be weird to me.
kytana
On the mouth?
Vegainthemirror
Thanks. Your comment and all the upvotes to mine show me that there's far more people out there who do that than I thought
AzgarOgly
Still consider it is for many others.
boopdedo
Oh, for sure. Everyone is super grossed out about it. I'm just not