About time to move on

Dec 29, 2017 2:31 AM

After a few years of "working on it," we decided to split a couple months ago. Since then I've learned she was cheating on me for a month or so before the split....mind you this was the second time she was.

Got servered paper today, and the lack of any reaction seems like I was finally able to give her what she wanted. Sad part is she has written off those who were close to her because they don't stroke her ego and especially our kids (because it's been too hard to be around me...or so she says).

At this point the toxic relationship is just about over and once the gavel drops I can morally and legally move on too.

Next fun part is when boy toy flakes on her....or she on him. None the less, my personal and the kids' growth since the split has been awesome.

Good luck man

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hey man, dealt with a crazy ex wife too. Hang in there. You're better off!!

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good luck on your future endeavors.....

8 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

congrats & may the force be with you

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

God, are you my son? Cuz this is IDENTICAL to his story, only his wife was getting side dick for MONTHS, & posted bf on INSTAGRAM????

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Bye Felicia.

8 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 2

GL to you and your kids. We're rooting for you!

8 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

Sad that happened to you but it's a huge bummer to do that to the kids.

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well I'd hope they don't stroke your kids!

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Be strong. Ask for help when you need it. My story is almost exactly the same, but just one kid. The divorce was final a month ago, but 1/

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

there the shitstorm isn't quite over yet. PM me if you want to talk.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wonder how much of the op stories we get are valid, I mean single perspective & all

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Good luck! Same story here but I'm not handling it that well. Four months in and still suffering from anxiety. 2017 sucked

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Get full legal custody of the kids.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same story, free and clear with my babies since this past summer. She's off sneaking around on her new narcissistic supply now.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And life is looking pretty damned good.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do her bff

8 years ago | Likes 81 Dislikes 11

don't forget to maintain eye contact and assert dominance

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Dry, in the doodoo hole

8 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 5

Do her dad...

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

People of a certain company usually keep the same sort of company, just let it go

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Why?

8 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 4

User name checked

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Petty vengeance.

8 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Against her friend? I never knew when my ex best friend was sleeping around on her man...I don't think it's something folks broadcast.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Nah the idea is if he does her best friend it might get to his ex

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Still seems like just ruining another innocent person's life. Her friend didn't cheat on him, and she's still a human being

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1