ChrisWise
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So I just gotta vent real quick;
I’m screwed. I’m so, so screwed. This girl is basically perfect. I met her on my birthday at someone else’s birthday party and she was wearing a MOTHERFLIPPEN SPARKLY BLUE DRAGON ONESIE FOR NO APPARENT REASON!!! She writes poetry and paints and knows how to grow a plant. She’s watched all of Initial D. She’s so pretty it has literally made me stutter on several occasions. She reads books for fun in her free time. Her memes are so spicy Christopher Columbus got lost trying to find out where they came from. I am, for better or worse, thoroughly in over my head.
Halp
Update: https://imgur.com/evnJFQW
RednapxpandeR
Be aware of the hot chicks trying to get a free meal. Happened to me. People are garbage.
philipel
bungholio101
Update when it’s over dude
TraveyTrav95
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ABirdWalkedOnMyPillow
My advice is always pretend you’ve known her forever & just jump into conversation like you would with a good friend. Keeps it organic.
ManMashine
in other words: Lies and Manipulation
ABirdWalkedOnMyPillow
Huh? How?
GuidedGoat
Just be yourself. If she's agreed to a date she's obviously interested. Be confident, but don't be who you're not.
MotherFukaJonez
Lost me at sparkly blue dragon onsie.
angrysausagedog
I'm sure someone, somewhere is sick of her shit..
EdPuffany
lol that girls not out of anyones league have a good time. sparkling onesie lol
Ballbreaker
serious question: are you guys 12?
ChrisWise
Only on the inside; I’m the adult 12 year old me always wanted to be hahahaha
hiyesthisissatan
Okay but seriously what age range are you? Teen, young adult, 30's?
ChrisWise
I just turned 28 a few weeks ago
magneticgumby
Is "Cringy as Fuck" an age?
RealityInflicted
Pro tip: Don't fuck up.
LondonerBoy
Dude, it sounds like she's really into some crazy-ass things. So you'll be fine.
MeticAnon
Seriously, what you described would not be my definition of "perfect". But it's yours. So she's in your "league".
thatusernameisregistered
Lemme tell you what my grandpa told me, “Outta your league? Son, let the woman decide why she won’t screw you. Don’t do it for her.”
LurkyMcLurker
Be yourself. It's why she agreed to go out with you. And take her on a boat. It's...implied.
TheDTYP
You had me going for a bit but that second part kind of threw me
bringbakfirefly
ChrisWise
...what’s implied? Do you want me to hurt her?
bushpotato
The implication.
nickdoesntsharefood
Potatozrainbow
The only pain she should receive is the pain one gets from laughing so hard. You know, because you should make her laugh.
SalPic
First part is spot on. You can go ahead and ignore the boat thing.
PotassiumRegulatoryCommittee
No, you don't have to hurt her. If she says no, then the answer is obviously no. But she's not gonna say no, because of the implication
everybodyp00ps
I feel like I'm not getting it. Are you going to hurt these women?
PotassiumRegulatoryCommittee
I'm not gonna hurt these women! I feel like you're not getting this!
everybodyp00ps
I'm not getting this at all. Let's just go.
WristDeepInaPussy
ChrisWise
#theimplication
justyouraveragepeacock
Oh man, I got that reference. I never get references! I'm so nerd-ily excited.
LurkyMcLurker
Huzzah
justanotherdoug
You wanna explain? For a friend.
CocaineAndSelfPleasure
shearsy13
Are ye sure it has nothing to do with school days?
CocaineAndSelfPleasure
Pretty sure.
BangBangLuckyLuke
DungeonsAndDongers
Don’t say words like ‘motherflippin’ and ‘halp’ and maybe you won’t die a virgin.
EdPuffany
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justanotherfartinthewind
favorite comment out here.
Rkfinecake
Out of what league? Don't over think everything. You're two equal people enjoying each other's company, right? Just have fun.
skuubi
Do not place her on a raised pedestal. She has the same basic needs as you (hunger, toilet, sleep, horniness and so on). Good luck mate!
CondescendingCunt
She sounds awful. Initial D is trash, memes are cancer, and picturing the〝omg look at me I'm so quirky XDDD rawr゛outfit made me throw up．@OP
ChrisWise
Memes are the lifeblood of our generation dear sir/madam
CondescendingCunt
-tips fedora-
ChrisWise
Do you remember those terrible flash video skits circa 2008? I’m basically all about that life hahaha
Kamasu0Tra
Name checks out.
carbie
I don't care. Get this crap off FP.
randompotayhtoah
dude you have a good physique, an afro and participate in social events. that's a huge plus.
dingdongbannu
This is cringy as fuck to read. Y’all sound like you’re 15
A10pilotedbyaHoneyBadger
Most of us are bitter and alone. Regardless of attire or circumstances, let them be happy.
hartmonica
She sounds like a manic pixie tryhard.
ilvincbs
They have to be teens.The whole "reads for fun" & onesie thing is something I would have worshipped when I was 16. Most adults read, lol.
carrots23
Yeah I’m glad I’m not the only one that thought the sparkly blue dragon onesie was a bit much
PiGiSpi
It sounds like "Omg she's just so random its amazing xD". A weird qualification, but some kids are into that
SlightlyRacistBanana69
Yeah I would bet they're teenagers. I can hear the record scratch and "Yep, that's me, and that's the girl of my dreams walking away"
hartmonica
Lmfao savage I love you
Poodlebrain
OP is 14 and I claim my 50 cents
ChrisWise
Double that number homie; I’m a child in a grown mans body
Poodlebrain
Apparently, considering the post, girl requirements, and several replies on the comments
ChrisWise
Requirements? I’m just stating stuff I find cool about her. My only girl requirements are finding girls that are pretty and smart lol
HeyOP
alecdshope
For help on growing a plant I suggest Brawndo, The Thirst Mutilator. It's what plants crave.
ILikedTheirOldStuffBetter
Do you have a mustache? If not, try growing one before the big night. I can't stress this strongly enough.
ChrisWise
Alas, I cannot grow a mustache :{( my face grows some joe dirt/pulp fiction shit
HodgeNPodge
Lol dont grow a mustache. You good, man, you good.
Theverant
Use a sharpie then. Mustache is super imortant
ChrisWise
I literally have a drawer full of fake Halloween mustaches, but I’m afraid they wont stick and whatwith being black theyre kinda unrealistic
Theverant
Someone needs to post a moustache style guide for black men. IT MUST BE #ChrisWise DO IT. :D
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thedeathstarwasaninsidejob1
Take her off that fucking pedestal in your head and go have yourself a fun time. :D
DeleteriousDuck
Don’t worry, she will reveal all kinds of reasons why she’s still single..eventually. Just assume she has flaws, it will make things easier.
pandro
Don't compliment things she can't control. "You're beautiful" is lame to a girl who hears it 100x a day. (Not speaking for myself, I'm 1/
pandro
plain.) Young Professor X patronized that girl telling her she had heterochromia. Like she didn't know. "You're creative." say what makes 2/
pandro
you think so. There's nothing wrong with exploring your thoughts ahead of time so that you give a meaningful compliment. 3/3
ChrisWise
But it’s so taaaall and I don’t waaanna :/
1metalnation
But genuinely, don't put her on a pedestal. Keep your head on a swivel and watch for the hot/crazy crossover
Zahnradfee
As a woman: Those people are right. "You're perfect!" is making me uncomfortable, because I'm not. "You're flawed but I like you anyways" >
Zahnradfee
is much closer to the truth. After all, the "perfect" person is just a person whose flaws you can live with. XD
TheSadCafe
That’s right. Find your perfectly imperfect match!
IamLrrrRulerofthePlanetOmicronPerseiVIII
Fine go get the scissor lift
AawesomeAardvaark
Yeah, scissor lift her. Girls love that
IamLrrrRulerofthePlanetOmicronPerseiVIII
Yeah, what girl doesn’t?
NICEUSEOFWORDSSIR
Great username
shiftingillusion
But a dragon onesie. Wear it to your date.
NathanielBanks
That pedestal isn't fair to her, either. Nobody can live up to the high expectations we build up in our heads.
ABluntForce
Y'all, enjoy her damn company. She could be gone tomorrow and if you never see her again you'll always wonder what you missed out on.
BrownJellyTrail
But what happens when you get to know her, and find out she’s just a normal person after all, with insecurities just like you? Get over it!
FrancoUnAmerican
+1 for initial D
FireflyActual
NO ONE SLEEPS IN TOKYOOOOOO
infernopg
I know exactly 0 girls that have watched Initial D, kinda jealous since it's my absolute favorite anime ^^
FrancoUnAmerican
My wife 'watched" it twice... but not because she loved it, rather because I love it lol
infernopg
yeah but that's something different, i'd love to meet one that actually enjoys it and knows it before i show it to her. Same interests etc
SprinkCal
I mean does he need any more encouragement to marry her?
citizentrain
Your description of her reads like a lost verse of 'short skirt / long jacket'.
ChrisWise
Fucking love cake +1
ChrisWise
P.s. if y’all have any date advice, I freakin need it; I’m bringing her a bouquet of origami flowers and taking her to a science exhibition
TheWildDern
Listen. Actively listen. Look at her while she is talking. Compliment her a time or two. Don’t forget to smile.
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Ebinisia
I would 100% go on a second date if this happened.
Bedovian
Origami flowers and science? Dude you got this locked down. Good luck on your date. Not that you'll need it stud.
GormlessLiar
Try and relax and be yourself, know that it is perfectly alright and normal to be nervous, and just have fun
GormlessLiar
You are just two people hanging out, trying to get to know each other better. So listen to her, ask her questions and also let her get to
GormlessLiar
know you
Althox00
ALWAYS be yourself. If she likes you she likes you. If she doesn't, you'll fine someone who does.
muldoonsafarilmtd
Listen to what she has to say. Actually listen and reply. Be interested - not interesting.
FelixTheAnimator
That sounds absolutely rad dude!
xoommoox
Get a boyzilian?
nyrgr99
I have read that you are supposed to take a first date to something exciting (a rollercoaster ride maybe?)
nyrgr99
Because she then will equate you to being excited and exciting. Just sayin’. If it works out - dibs on being best man...
Dondarian
Follow Cyndi Lauper's advice: Girls just wanna have fun! Take her out, do stuff you think is fun that you'd do by yourself, and talk freely.
LordofGoats
Sounds like you're doing things right as it is. I, too, am dating a woman out of my league. Just let it happen.
corbynDallas
Take her to a couple fun bars after the exhibit, if it's going well get something to eat
littlefurrycannibals
If you do go out to eat, have a place in mind in case she doesn't offer one. No need to play the "where do you want to eat" game on 1st date
corbynDallas
For sure. I'll never ask a girl where she wants to go. I'll take her to a place I love.
Jutana
Wear something absolutely ridiculous, go out and get a onesie of your own.
ruferto
get over her looks and engage everything else about her
SomeThingsNeverDie
That sounds like a fun date. Everyone here has said it but be yourself. My advice: be interested, not interesting.
Dondarian
Don't be interesting? I must've misunderstood, because that's shit advice.
SomeThingsNeverDie
Don't try to be interesting, be interested. Probably shit advice for introverts but not extroverts.
Dondarian
Ah, I see what you mean. Don't try to be more interesting than you actually are. Or don't put on a show of lies.
Crabsforeveryone
5 deep calming breaths before you knock on the door. Be you, bebeh. you got this.
ishcamnio
Just try not to put her up on a (figurative) pedestal ! Fall in love with who she turns out to be, not who you perceive her to be. Have fun!
timemac
That sounds fucking awesome plan mate, I don't think you need any advice.
Sirmane
This^
OverpricedCrayon
At most tell yourself shes cute, dont tell yourself shes hot. Doing that puts her on a pedestal making things more difficult for you.
DerangedMaango
Don't put a lot of pressure on yourself. Dress and act like you care.
yourcalllightisalreadyinyourhand
She's not perfect. It would be unfair of you to expect her to be.
sardonislamir
Good move.
Flickerish
Have three plans, one for a sunny day, a cloudy day and a rainy day. Prepare lots of different conversation. Give compliments.
pleaseuseotherdoor
Don't put someone up on a pedestal if you actually want to get to know them. It's lonely up there and you're too far away to communicate.
uwantsomelightlyfriedfishfillets
Cabo come too?
uwantsomelightlyfriedfishfillets
Can I come too
cahendr3
Do not flower on the first date. It cries desperation. Wait for a couple dates when you feel it's locked. Just be fun and interested.
skiracechamp
Listen more than you talk and don't be afraid to make a move. Sometimes the better looking they are the more lonely they are.
Exphixius
Smile. Listen to her. Make eye contact as much as you can when she’s talking. Be nervous, don’t act like something you’re not. Be yourself.
hartmonica
Please ask her questions and don’t just talk about yourself. That’s my biggest date pet peeve, people who dump their whole life story
AttractedToShinyThings
Good choices! The exhibition will help the conversation going & the origami flowers is so original! You got this!
TheyCallMeMrPigeonCuzImJustSoCoo
My advice: be completely honest. No good relationship was based on lies. The lies have to come later.
CarlCrownOfCrows
Hey if you go on a second date, just let her pick a food, grab it and then binge watch initial d
TheScarfyDoctor
... Can you take ME on a date?
TheSwedishCryptid
Well, I'm a nerd. I would think that would be freakin' over the top cool to do.
eddas
Show up in an inflatable T-Rex costume. You can get one next day shipping on amazon.
mihitnrun
If that's something you'd normally do, great. Don't put her up on a pedestal, she wants to go out with you because you're you.
philcollinsdrumbreakdown
Don't even go if you can't understand that she saw something in you and she's interested. Or take a breath and show up with your head right
axisdstc
fuck her right in the pussy
RogueNyanCat
93 replies. 93. Imgur knows their stuff. Sorry I can't help
Contundo
Don't fixate on how nice her boobs look in that top
TheBlackVan
Glance but don't stare.
zodiac585
Act confident even if you're not. I've been told that I'm always confident about what im doing. I'm not i just fake it. But they like it.
TheBlackVan
That faking it will pay off in other ways down the road.
jestersgames
Dude it sounds like you are ready. Just be yourself and make her laugh that's one way to her heart.
Justusdragon
Don't try to hard, chill out and think before you speak.
tonksl
She's gonna Love it!! I wish i was her :( have fun and just take delight in knowing she likes you and u found someone u can be urself
tonksl
With :) i want an update OP so pls let us all know!!
IAmAwayInTheOcean
Wear comfy shoes and offer to hold stuff for her if you see any hesitation. Have a good time, don’t get hung up on the little stuff.
introxx
Be yourself. Make eye contact. Ask questions.
Whynn
Have fun! And clean your bathroom beforehand.
YorkshirePudding25
Just watch the first 15 minutes of the film Hitch use that advice...
AleksandrBlazkowicz
You already sound like you got good ideas, here's my go to guide https://www.nicknotas.com/dating-101/
rigorr
There's some good stuff here @op especially the asking questions. Communication is key imo
rosesintheair
omg this sounds adorable already. have confidence, be yourself and nerd out about similar things with her. you got this!!!!!!!!!
Silamy
This sounds adorable! Post updates!
Silamy
As far as advice, roll with her (or shared) interests, and don't try to fit a "girls like this, right?" mold but you don't seem to need help
betathanlife
Honestly she'll be just as nervous as you! Just try to be your best most confident self and don't get down if it doesnt lead to anything 1/2
betathanlife
Just chalk it down to experience and carry on. I believe in you dude 2/2
Aspecti
Go someplace where you can talk, ask a lot of questions, make her laugh. I met my 'out of my league' gf at a metal bar, couldn't hear a word
llamalibrarian
origami flowers is a great idea, science exhibit sounds awesome, top it all off with coffee in a bookstore
psychomime
Do not put her on a pedestal. Cal her out if you disagree but do it nicely and without judgement. Listen. Eye contact. Listen some more. GL.
OKiluvUBuhBai
THIS @op. This does not have enough uodoots
pinkninjaturtel
You've already won! A+ date plan. You don't even need our help!
iancarry
masturbate before the date..
lunchboxbilly
Doing a stealthy one under the table midway through might not be a bad idea either
YourRealAlienOverlord
I forgot about this one. Definitely used to do that. Clarity fap. Classic
kenderman1
Definitely do this! Twice if you have to.
axisdstc
Always twice
1metalnation
Genuinely, grind one or before your shower. Clarity fap will let you focus on her, not just how blazing sexy she is
firefighter26
Clarity Fap..... that's amazing...
iancarry
i didnt know, it has a name... but it makes so much sense :D
sparkymurdock
Just not in the car with her. Unless she is into that kind of thing
pigbuttworm
I know now where I've been going wrong...
babycoffin
Settle down Louis C.K.
iLikeHockey
In which case, make sure to show her all your favorite bukake videos
drenix
The only date advice I can give you is to write DD/MM/YY or DD/MM/YYYY, it makes dates less confusing in general
Wraith182
That seems like a pretty solid idea. While on the date though, ask her what her favorite foods are. WHEN you get a 2nd date, use that list
Tinkrr
Remember, what you consider perfect, others may consider flawed. For example you didn't mention anything about her financial literacy D:
ViolentWatcher1234
The smallest gestures speak the loudest
JossWhedonsGhost
As a girl, that's a fucking great idea. Good job!
modernxx
Treat her like a princess. It's easy
modernxx
*its easy if you actually feel that way about her
BiffMcCoogan
Sex Panther cologne, apply with a heavy hand
FanBoy1774
For real though, Victoria's Secret Very Sexxy for Him will have the actual desired effect. Do not wear Axe Body Spray.
VolcanoHerder
If you do wear cologne please be very subtle. Some girls hate the stuff.
FanBoy1774
A good point, don't bathe in the stuff.
ChrisWise
I hear 60% of the time... it works every time
Arock77
It has bits of real panther!
budthespudfromthebrightredmud
My numbers are more 45% of the time it works 75% of the time.
dontsayretarded0itsgay
Still a solid 1/3 then. Better than nuttin not hapenin
SquishyWubbles
Only advise is, be yourself. If she doesn't like you for who you are, find someone else. But she probably will...
ASquare
That's terrible advice. Lol. I've been myself for too long and didn't get me anywhere. I changed myself and now people like me!
SquishyWubbles
You just make no sense mate..
Juicemaloose
Maybe he was generally unlikeable and had to figure out how to not be an asshole or something. No offense.
SquishyWubbles
It's what I was thinking but I didn't wanna offend him or be rude. Seeing flaws in yourself is hard. It takes true objectivity to change tha
Juicemaloose
This is all well and good but there's good practical stuff people don't think about. Stay off your phone, for one thing.
Juicemaloose
Make sure the conversation is back and forth, listen when she talks but also share about yourself. Basically pay attention.
Juicemaloose
Be yourself just means stick to behaving like you normally do, but you may have to be more conscientious, if you're not already.
F4llenngel
100% this. She probably will. OP the hard part is behind you. Just breathe. Anxiety is lying to you. Be kind and communicate, that's it.
SquishyWubbles
Beautifully said..
GurdenRabsyKittenKnightbears
"Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken"
doryaa
This. Just be yourself - but the best version of yourself. If that doesn't work, no worries you'll find a better match!
Juicemaloose
Truth, be the version of yourself that's most presentable. Not the 12th hour marathoning the Walking Dead self, or whatever kids are into.
Britlex
This really is it, attraction is subjective. She may think she's some unattractive goof nerd and be just as nervous as you.
GoodBadGibus
Remind yourself that you've got a great date and gift setup and that she'll know you put a lot of care in. The stuff itself doesn't (1/2)
GoodBadGibus
matter so much but the confidence from knowing you've done a good job and her likely appreciation of it will.(2/2)
Ivoteforscience
Well that already sounds awesome. Just be yourself and don't go in with any expectations.
crackedatlas
Just chill out. Putting her above you (league wise) is setting yourself up for failure. She likes something about you. Have fun.
shangooo
Dude, if that doesn't work I'll go out with you and I'm a guy. Just be yourself man, be open. Don't worry about trying to be "cool"
amnjml
have you seen the movie "shes out of my league"? The moral is take any belief you have that she is better and brutally murder it...
amnjml
otherwise you sabotage the whole thing. The flowers sound like a cool touch though.
politicalhack
Be yourself and LISTEN to her.
fandsor
You've probably received this advice already, but stop putting her on a pedestal.
ErmahgerdSperkles
We painted ceramics. I still use the mug every day.
ChrisWise
That was my first idea, but neither of us drive and the ONE place that does it is an hour bus ride for her :/
ErmahgerdSperkles
It's a good idea for another date. I love the keepsake.
Zahnradfee
Science exhibition is great! The origami flowers might be a tad too much, but maybe she digs it. It sounds to me you are on a good way.
MsHoneybadger
Maybe go with one. Then it is cool without being overwhelming. Then you can give her more on each consecutive date. Make it a cute thing /1
MsHoneybadger
You do when you see her until she has a bouquet. /2
IchWillSchlafen
Did you make the flowers yourself? If so, she can't not love it
PenisShapedPoops
Treat her like a person, then a princess, then a Greek goddess, then a person again. Be natural, confident. No pressure.
nanyatenyaa
The advice is to be yourself. She expressed she likes you how you are, you don't need to do anything else but that to impress her.
nanyatenyaa
It's when you start not being yourself people get turned off real quick.
eddewarde
Don't overdo it; best to learn flaws early on.
FrancoUnAmerican
Do not Itsuki on her... Drive smooth and easy, take her out to a nice place where you can talk (NOT A FUCKING MOVIE) I'm sure there a 1/
FrancoUnAmerican
place only you and few of your friends know (a little burger place, or pizza whatever) bring her there, listen to her (sorry LISTEN THE 2/
FrancoUnAmerican
FUCK OUT OF HER) you'll learn valuable info about her (you'll be able to use said info later) Ask about her, compare music styles, get 3/
FrancoUnAmerican
her to talk. Do not think about sex that night, the first night is hot but often stay a first night date, you want more so wait for it.
FrancoUnAmerican
Lol there's someone who don't know how to date a girl. Downvote me man. i'm with the same woman for the last 9 years.
TheShoctopus
https://imgur.com/jGzsn9D
dapperlaputan
My advice: chill out. Just play it cool, don't put too much expectation on this whole thing.
MattFromCanada
I'll give you the same advice I gave my friend, don't talk about nuclear reactors
MadMikes
Remembering to breath will help quite a bit.
infinitelemonarts
If she likes Initial D, play some eurobeat for her
thegarlicawakens
Here is advice: if you met between Thanksgiving and Christmas, DO NOT start dating until after Valentine's Day. Dating season opens 2/15.
JUSTAnxious275
Don't worship her: I.e. don't be so paralyzed by fear that you forget who you are and mess up. Good luck, OP, you don't need it.
ChrisTallant
Just be you... that’s the best gift you can give.
AisforIlliterate
If she's going out with her, you're in her league. Don't worry about it too much.
stickybottle
Don’t try too hard, relax and try to gauge how she’s feeling. Let her know you’re interested but don’t be too intense. Have fun!
CheekyLittleCunnnt
Well daddy issues are great thing. But be prepared for butt stuff and BDSM ;)
Shirtless
Dont over-do it Chris be wise
ReleaseTheKracken
Be yourself and take a second to rethink everything youre going to say, but actually listen to her.
Rediix
Good gracious boy calm down. You got this
Isaypoopythingsbecausemostofyouannoyme
Pull out your dick IMMEDIATELY. show her what she’s dealing with
ApexWarrior848
Legit sounds like a badass date @op
OurLordLucifer
Give her the old initial D
Tarmaccian
Read about “imposter syndrome” first. Everyone has it. Nobody knows what they’re doing. If you screw up somehow, laugh about it. 1/?
Tarmaccian
If she screws up and starts to worry, distract from it. We’re all just kids in adult bodies, trying to figure out tomorrow. It’s okay. 2/?
Tarmaccian
Life is chaos, punctuated by moments of peace. However this date turns out, you are alive through it. Let both of you enjoy it. 3/3
nerdbridge
If she makes you stutter don't play it off. Tell her it's because she's so pretty. It's endearing.
MetaSomma
Stop I can only get so erect dot jpeg
OohDaLolly
Stop putting her on a pedestal. She poops and farts like everyone else.
donutjudgeme
That sounds amazing. Nobody ever gave me origami flowers. Science exhibition is a great first date, because you’ll have plenty to talk about
FuzzyNutSak
Holy shit chillax man! Just chill. Ask a few questions and listen to the fucking answers. That's all. And Don't chew w your mouth open.
AlcoholicsAnonymousBYO
Breath. Through your nose. Into your body. Gently.
LedBlimp
Be super polite to any service workers, smile and laugh at all her jokes.
dontsayretarded0itsgay
She's hot. She prob doesn't know any jokes
ToksanAlpha
Uh wtf
dontsayretarded0itsgay
Attractive people seem to sometimes have less personality; able to get by on looks alone. In my limited experience.
SirPorkington
This.
firefighter26
Science Exhibition FTW @OP! Four things: Conversation, eye contact, confidence and more conversation!
pennetteAlfredoIsNotAnItalianDish
Girl here. A science exhibition sounds very original, good choice! Now, let her walk around, don't push too much and enjoy the exhibit. /1
pennetteAlfredoIsNotAnItalianDish
If she's there it's because she already finds you interesting. So be yourself, talk like you'd do with a friend. Listen to her and reply. 2)
OneBeardOneNation
You will be fine. I felt the same in October. Met her at Wedding way out of my league. Just chill and be confident. She is my girlfriend now
Iskyandar
Word to the wise: be yourself but also be considerate towards others. Suggest things and ideas that cater yo both. Do this & you’ll be fine
FakeHeroicSpirit
If you're able to make an origami flower bouquet there's absolutely no need for you to ask advice here
PrettyMuchLurking
Play only Eurobeat in the car
midgetsaw
@blackbalrog gave you the best advice. "Take her off that fucking pedestal in your head and go have yourself a fun time."
WellWellWellLookWhoItIs
Calm the fuck down. She's not perfect. She's a person with flaws, just like anybody.
Paramedia
Steer very clear of jealousy. She's gonna have a LOT of guys who want to steal her. Just show her that you're better through your affection.
Paramedia
Also, if she's younger 20s range, realize it may not last forever so take it slow and enjoy it.
Paramedia
Not really dating advice, but she already chose you so she has literally slept with you in her head and sees something. Just take it slow.
Paramedia
But don't hesitate to take a hint ;). Blow her mind with a goodnight kiss.
spiffynidd
That sounds solid as hell! For better or worse be you.
JesusAssCrackers
She wants to go out with you, it’s why she agreed. Get out of your head and enjoy yourself. You got this @OP
SirPorkington
Be yourself. She already said yes to the date. Have confidence that you are a good match. Also, she's probably just as nervous as you.
SirPorkington
Also, when she is talking, listen and comprehend.
burpchuck
That is so critical. Be interested, not interesting.
lncorrectGrammerNazi
nwreck
It's a conversation, don't do all the talking but also don't do all the listening. Questions are good but it's not an interview.
nwreck
Which is to say, don't ask 15 questions in a row. Ask a question and talk about the response.
AnnieBahde
Okay lady here and the origami flowers is inspired! What an awesome idea. Science museum is great too because it’s a great way to talk and
AnnieBahde
since obvs there’s going to be shit to talk about. Honestly it sounds like a great first date idea!
nuttypro
Don't call her mom
shakedownblues
Bud, take it easy, do your think, go for dinner then go for a walk or a drink somewhere quiet. And remember, she determines who is in 1/2
shakedownblues
Her league. If she thought you weren't, she probably wouldn't be going on a date with you. Breathe deep and be your charming self! 2/2
thepurpletwitch
Good call on that kind of date. But, you’ll have plenty of time to talk, and you might be nervous, so think of things beforehand because
thepurpletwitch
There will inevitably be a lull and the last thing you want to do is fill it with a horror scene of babbling.
cable7193
Remember: she already said yes. Don't fixate on why. Just enjoy yourself
aluriilol
Just remember to be yourself. Being nervous is OK as well. Read cues and be polite. You can pull her seat out but don't push it in for her.
Grunwald
A mankini seems to work if you want to impress her. Success guaranteed!!!
TheCanadianDrunkard
As a single man of the last 7 years, but for someone gets asked relationship advice all the time. I can suggest, BE YOURSELF DONT OVER THINK
FingMexican
Try to act like its not the girl of your dreams, and just a nice person youre talking to, breathing easy, not really having to think about
FingMexican
--what you say and just going with the flow, it will be a bit difficult but if you act like its every other day then it will turn into every
FingMexican
Other day
FStopMarsupial
Realize that she's not out of your league and have a good time. Enjoy her company but don't put her on a pedestal or she will resent you
FStopMarsupial
ultimately. She's a person, and you are one also. Be worthy of her attention by being you.
FStopMarsupial
Science Exhibit is great, maybe a quick meal afterwards to share your thoughts. If you need to gather words, take a bite.
SilverDust133
Recreation before dinner ALWAYS. Makes for lighter, more natural conversation. Careful on the “bouquet”, find a random item while on date.
AlligatorLoki
Ask her questions about herself. Be yourself. Don't try too hard. Let it come natural.
AmazonEmma
dude, best idea ever ! it's original and you will have things to talk about after the exhibition so no awkward silences.
Rednelo03
Remember to have fun. Don't focus on entertaining her, focus on enjoying the date. Be courteous, mind your manners, chew with closed mouth
spiderqueendemon
I used to be somewhat pretty when I was young. Here is a secret. Pretty girls hear that they are pretty all fucking day long, from everyone.
spiderqueendemon
It. Gets. Old. By the time you're fifteen decent people assume "she must be out of my league," and don't even try, and jerks do, constantly.
spiderqueendemon
Ever notice that pretty women tend to be married to one of three sorts of men? Jerks, men who are funny, and tremendous nerds?
spiderqueendemon
The jerks are the ones women settle for, women love funny guys who treat them well, and nerds talk shop with women like we're people.
spiderqueendemon
If a girl is pretty, she has a choice of a comedian, a jerk, or someone who shares her interests and talks to her like a person.
lunchboxbilly
Try to act like Jack Nicholson the whole time. Wear sunglasses and dont take them off ever, even if it seems weird that you have them on.
Spoonf3d
Be you, you got you this far.
HairyPicklePuller
Try not to bring up Hitler to much.
TheyCallMeMrPigeonCuzImJustSoCoo
Though there is an art to bringing up Hitler just enough.
HairyPicklePuller
Right? Otherwise it's like you're going out of your way to NOT talk about Hitler, which is just as suspicious.
Zahnradfee
I cannot stress that enough. Hitler is a known date killer. He needs to stay at home.
TheBlackVan
I thought he was a known jew killer. He killed dates, too?
Grymhar
Date advice: don't screw it up.
Hotfuzz6316
Don’t worry about it, you got the date, she is interested, confidently be you and you’ll do fine.
Liddybea
Brush your tongue too! It’s not supposed to be whitish.
M1DDL3M4N
Ask her questions about herself and her interests. Be interested in her, be modest and humble, have a condom hidden near bed. A NEW one.
Hawkeyebowhunter
Like grandpa says-"son, let her figure out why she shouldn't be with you"
TheShoctopus
Wow..... that's some sage advice.
ninjaturnip
I'm not good at deduction, what use is that kind of advice
elShiz
He's already got 20+ reasons why she shouldn't be w/him, but let her decide what's reason enough. Don't focus on the negative, she said yes
Hawkeyebowhunter
I think he meant be confident/don't assume you aren't good enough because then he/she will see that as well
Paramedia
Don't give her a reason why to not be with you. Be a little mysterious. Don't set yourself up for failure by assuming it.
YourRealAlienOverlord
Don't tell her how flawed you are. Let her get there on her own. By then she already loves your stupid ass
WizardofAnus
The others here have a good handle, but here's a better way of looking at it: how many times have you been bored by someone explaining a
WizardofAnus
Story they love to you enough to not want to experience it? I've had it happen a few times. Sometimes to come back to it on my own later and
WizardofAnus
Fall in love with it. I imagine that a relationship can be much the same way. If you tell me all the bad parts, why would I want to stick
WizardofAnus
There are few things as disappointing in a date as a lack of balanced conversation. Make a list of reasons you like yourself. Doesn't need
WizardofAnus
To be long. But make it unique. Try and add one thing in that sounds like a bad thing, with a good twist. Have a list of things you want to
WizardofAnus
Change in your life, given the time. These are your best attributes, and your goals. Use them as called for, if called for. More importantly
WizardofAnus
Listen as much as you speak. Make her feel as important as her saying "yes" made you feel. And don't be afraid if she chooses to make effort
WizardofAnus
To do the same to you. After all, look at the list of your best attributes you just made. You're a pretty cool person.