I know, I hate me too.

Aug 29, 2016 2:18 AM

vallena88

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June 11, 2016 - August 28, 2016

245lbs to 218lbs.

In June I hit rock bottom. I am smiling in the photo but I was beyond unhappy. But I should have been happy walking in the Pride Parade as a gay man right? It hurt even more knowing that my dating life was none existent and my longest relationship was 3 dates during a weekend where we celebrated love.

Decided to change. Changed my diet and worked out. Nothing extreme and I still enjoyed cake and alcohol from time to time.

I still have 20ish lbs to lose but I'm ready to get myself back out there and see if I can get to a 4th date.

Down vote to hell because I probably deserve it.

2.5 months?! jesus christ dude you already look like a new you! very inspiring... keep up the good work!

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Wing?!?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yes, you look amazing. Keep it up hun. It's a hard long journey. More mentally than physically. You got this.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You're fukkin fabulous

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As a straight dude, you're pretty fab looking. Keep on keeping on!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You are handsome.

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

Aw thanks. I bet you are too! or pretty if you prefer to be called that. I like being called pretty from time to time (all the time).

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I hate myself too

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Stayin' Alive by the Bee Gees came on as soon as this loaded good on ya!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

2 and a bit months?? That's crazy. Congrats & keep it up!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Thanks for showing a great example of how getting into shape does not always equal massive weight loss. It's not about #s but you did great.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Now, if you could lose the other tonnage that weighs you down... Your title and last sentence make me sad

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Reading it over, it makes me sad too. Hold me.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

A year ago I weighed 260. Currently weigh 230. Goal by years end is 220. It can be done, it will be done. You've got this, and so do I.

10 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

wohoo!!! keep going!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm at 270 and journeying down to 220 as well. We can both do it!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yas get it! That is awesome! Keep going!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"Down vote to hell because I probably deserve it." Well, when you put sentences like that in your post...

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

I don't understand why people can't just leave that out

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

amazing. and i love your hair. you should be proud. what an amazing transition.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You look great <3

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hair on point. Congrats on your progress.

10 years ago | Likes 50 Dislikes 2

I can thank Tigi Wax Stick for that one.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Seriously, you're fab as fuck haha!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good for you! Lots of folks just stay at home and get bitter. You are making yourself better and healthier!!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nice job, man. I'd totally date you

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

If you're in DC, hit me up. :P

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

DC?! Damn.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I see you haven't lost your sass.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

At first I thought this read "ass" and got sad because I'm sure I lost 10lbs just from that section of my body. :(

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oooh you go gurl! No but seriously - keep up the excellent work! You're an inspiration....

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good for you homie, keep your eyes on the prize and pretty soon you'll get every guy buying you drinks and all the cake you want!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That would be a lot of cake.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Not fair. I wanted to make a gay joke. +1

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I love gay jokes.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I went from 425lbs to "i can see my penis now" in one year.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I too can see my penis better now. It says hi.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

but now who's gonna play prop! but congrats!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Shockingly I'm a hooker and will stay in that position for as long as I can play.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

perfect a mobile hooker! your the 3rd flanker now!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yup! But since we have plenty of flankers on my team, hook is where I can shine and play 80 or at least until I collapse around minute 60.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

well i mean with your mobility you are the 3rd flanker on field as hooker your a BAMF now! congrats dude you look awesome!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0