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A few years ago, my wife and I stepped in and allowed her sister to move in with us. She has a daughter the same age as my son. The reason we brought them into our home, is because sis-in-law was a horrible mom. She cared more about getting high on opiates and benzo's, than her kid.
We treated our niece as if she was our own, we never wanted her to feel left out or unloved. Three years ago, sis-in-law has another baby and wife and I pretty much are her sole caregivers.
About 4 months ago, I wake up to find my 12 year old niece laying next to me, with my leg between her legs, grinding away.
I freaked. My wife was sleeping on the otherside. I jumped out of bed and left the room, a minute later she walks out. I told her that what she did wasn't right, she just looked at me like she had no idea what I was talking about.
About a week later as I am watching football, living crowded with family, she plops down next to me, throws a blanket over herself while covering me with it, and grabs my crotch, trying to give me a handjob. I jumped up and went into the kitchen. She followed me and jumped on me, wrapped her legs around my waist and tried to grind on my crotch. I had to physically shove her off of me.
At this point I avoid her like crazy, I stay away from home as much as possible. It's just not me, we say her sister who is 3 start grinding on one of her stuffed animals. We told her to stop, she had no idea anything was wrong or bad.
I don't know if this is just about a person discovering their sexuality, if it's a sign of abuse or what. I can't talk to her mom, she is useless. I am afraid that she is gonna do this with a guy who wont stop her and take things all the way.
I feel scuzzy, dirty and just freaked the fuck out, but it's not about me, it really is about her and I don't know what to do.
Tldr: 12 year old is acting out sexually, I am freaked out.
SecretCupCakeTime
I work at a juvenile treatment center hypersexual little girls that come onto adults was pretty common if they'd been molested
Ninja9002
please get the girl to a therapist. she might have seen something from her mother. she needs help.
SunAnvil
Talk to your wife should be your first step. Not us.
DeadlyCheese
Shit that never happened for $400, Alex.
ProbablyNotAnActualElephant
Very definitely talk this over with a child psychologist and/or police officer, this kind of acting out is often a sign of abuse.
ICommentWithWrestlingGifs
SaltIsInYourEyesNow
Was waiting for tree fiddy is this even real?
loveasthouwilt
https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/ this is a child abuse online hotline. They could point you in the right direction for. @krystColorClicker
toraidhe
you need more upvotes to reach top comment.
TheRealSladeWilson
If her 3 year old sister is doing it as well then it is more than likely abuse.
lonelylinguist
Well, it’s common among young kids, before they learn when it’s inappropriate, but the 12yo’s behaviour at least is likely abuse-related.
TheSuperAllMightyPotato
Yup,need to have a sit down chat with her
IncredulousD
Some copy pasta
PoshRaven
That could be an indication that she has been sexually abused by someone. She needs some sort of counseling to learn proper boundaries
Kilsim1v
Or that the mother didn't censor during childhood. Movies. Orgies, ASS2ASS, who knows
jennyfromdabloc
Be careful I live in CA and work for a criminal atty. We have molestation cases... some cases are theres a pervy handsy pedo and some cases
jennyfromdabloc
its a innocent dudes that get accused of stuff. In CA all you need is an allegation of inappropriate touching and a DA can decide to
jennyfromdabloc
proceed, especially if it involves a child. You need to notify your wife and possibly have surveillance to show you are not initiating or
jennyfromdabloc
engaging in any activities.
jennyfromdabloc
We had a case where a 34 year old woman was upset at her father (money issues) and convinced her 13 year old daughter to tell a teacher that
jennyfromdabloc
her father (the minors) grandfather touched her 2xs. The DA pressed charges and even when the woman told the truth the DA was weary bc they
trappedunderice
Sounds like abuse. I'd consult a counselor or child protective services.
Deedeedee137
DeadSailorss
Fuck man. Have you told your wife about this? Maybe your niece might need a little more eduction on how to act on sexual feelings? Good luck
MeanGreenMemeQueen
Given that op hasn't replied to a single comment I'm going to believe this is fake
RedBeardedTrucker
It's an old story. I remember reading this one a couple of years ago or so.
dreamerschemer
Same, downvote OP
luchie24
But what why would someone repeat the story just for Internet votes? People are weird
LosPer
NoooooOOOOOooooo! FUCKER!!!!!
JohnJacobJingleHeimerSmitt
I saw the exact same story word for word like 2 months ago
behrditz
i think its the plot to the movie Orphan. People usually tease this out for three or four posts before "and then we drowned her in a lake"
IdontNeednoStinkingBadgers
I thought it sounded a bit familiar. Almost like that movie.. "Orphan"?
ThatCubanGuy
Talk to your wife before it becomes a bigger issue. Like it or not later on if the truth comes out you'll be responsible for keeping quiet.
MisterMarioc
If you just avoid her she will think its her fault sit her down with your wife and talk about it
kennerly
Her mother is probably hanging out with the kind of guys who take advantage of a 12 year old. These are classic sexual abuse symptoms.
TheSinisterMisterFister
nothingelsewasavailable
In the field here, please get them to see someone. Both can be signs of abuse or at the very least witnessing inappropriate actions.
sionnSparkleBandit
Protect your child! If she is acting out this way with you and did not succeed, there is a possibility that she could try it on your son.
savingfavsandslayingbabes
erichwithanh
Get her a therapist right now.
missladymondegreen
and you and your wife so you know what to do to help her.
ottotravel
Agreed, this kind of aggressive sexualized behavior is often nay even usually because of abuse. Source: 10 years in social services.
Zaboom16
Like tomorrow kind if now
TheSuperAllMightyPotato
What about analrapist?
Downvotemepussy
Damn lol
ThePickle
While I appreciate the joke, there's a time and a place.
YourMemeSucksHarderThanaDyson
Wow people are downvoting arrested development?
loveasthouwilt
On most other posts, they'd probably be upvoting like mad. I think the downvotes are b/c the post is dealing with real child abuse.
MnemonicMonkeys
Probably because this is really not the time for this
TheSuperAllMightyPotato
I'm sad
gamingassassin
Noo don't be :( I gave you a upvote
erichwithanh
Ah the world's first analist and therapist. No he's shit.
Memari
When people don't get your Arrested Development reference https://media.giphy.com/media/a2G83cq7gotnq/giphy-downsized-large.gif
lysani
Zulkier
Yup, this kind of behaviour usually signifies abuse. That poor child
BDawk20
It's normal for the 3 year old but you need to get the 12 year old some help, not avoid her
muscletank
this needs to be the first comment
HushP
12 yo is around when sexuality should start to manifest. No so strongly maybe. Not on family definitely. But the sexuality itself is ok.
CountNugget44
1)no its not normal for the 3year old to be grinding....its ok if shes just making her toys kiss but not grinding. this could be signs of..
KristineSixteen
she's right.
BDawk20
Yes it is normal, it doesnt discount the possibility of abuse but it is also normal for some young kids to 'hump' things
hughesybooze
You clearly know fuck all about kids. Genitals feel good when they're rubbed, kids often discover this long before they discover sex.
MethGasolinePissLemonade
No, you are actually wrong. It is totally normally for a 3 year old. My niece used to scoot on the wood floor ffs, obviously we said NO.
TydenS
In child dev psych this was listed as a normal phase. Boys hump everything at that age. Definitely worth checking for other signs tho.
TrustyFart
My daughter used to grind on pillows all the time when she was 3. She eventually stopped.
uberarticuno
She eventually stopped doing it in front of you.
periwinklepanda
It's actually completely normal for kids, yes girls, to hump things without having been sexually abused. Even up until age 6.
blitherypoop
Older than that too. It's one of the ways girls start masturbating. They just learn that it's private.
periwinklepanda
Yep
CountNugget44
2)signs of her being abused possibly by the older sister since shes not getting feed back from the uncle source : i was molested as a child
CorrelatingGIF
My thought is that she has seen the mom doing it a lot.
Jor1994
I really hope that that's the case rather than the alternative.
MnemonicMonkeys
Or she's copying her sister
MarcUK
Why haven't you told your wife? Tell her and then sit your niece down and both talk to her. Like you said, she might have been abused 1/2
MarcUK
2/2 in which case she'll need professional help.
Ninoue
He told his wife. He clearly writes "WE told her to stop"
OldMateClown
That's referring to the 3 year old grinding on her toys. From the post he hasn't said anything about the older sister yet.
Mavgurian
Yes, the 3y-old sister of the 12y-old. Wife seems to know nothing about the 12y-old yet.
MikeDelta
Damn. You have to tell your wife asap. In great details so that she 1. Believes you. 2. Can help you figure this out. Also keep a log.
GoldenSun3DS
filiuspelei
a log is a good idea!
sqlyoda
Sounds like he's trying hard NOT to keep his log.
SlightlyAngryAtAllTimes
Liquid82
Oh wow, have a +1 for that laugh! Sorry OP
MnemonicMonkeys
It's funny, but this is not the time for this
MyDogJake
This. Document everything in a thorough log. Then soak the log in wood.
Janthran
holy shit man that got me
PleaseDisperseNothingToSeeHere
Not really the right time for that joke, but I absolutely lol'd
foxhoundunit89
It's fucking Imgur dude this shit is probably fake anyway, who cares what he jokes about?
SmokeTiresNotDrugs
It's always the right time for a joke
TheOncomingStorm529
Tell your wife immediately. Then get the girls some help.
zephyrbell
He probably would have if this story were true.
Linanz
Totally agree, please tell your wife if she finds out any other way your marriage is over. That child needs help.
whitevfute
What do you mean you don't know what to do?, Omg, TELL YOUR WIFE!!! Ffs, seriously
tr3buchet
Why is the wife in charge of this? A man can get a girl help just as easily as a woman, i don't understand.
tr3buchet
Excellent i now understand the point you were trying to make :)
qwertina
They are both responsible for the kid and work as a team, so both should he informed about odd behaviour like this.
Kilsim1v
+1 qwertina. Also, unfounded allegations from the niece could mean a lot of headache and doubt from others. Very soon no family, no support-
TheCobb1
This. Unhealthy sexual appetites in youths are often an initial sign of abuse. She might be emulating something she was witness/victim to.
JuicyManFartsAgainstFeminism
You're a total moron or you have a shit relationship with your wife if you didn't tell her IMMEDIATELY. WTF DUDE?? No excuse for that...
Thelocalanimelewdsdealer
I don't think he said out directly but he says "we told her to stop" so I would assume he meant him and his wife
JuicyManFartsAgainstFeminism
If that is accurate, I apologize. One would think that he would make it more clear though...
anvil
That's a fair statement.
Krzyjoe
That's referencing the 3-year-old. I don't think he's told his wife about the older girl.
CheckYouOut
Please tell your wife and let her handle it.
elppapple
Fuck that, this is not just the wife's job! Marriage = teamwork.
partcleboard
Truth
partcleboard
This is a family issue, and can't be secret, promiscuous behavior in children is often the result of sexual abuse. Secrets make it shameful.
WhoYouGonnaCallGhostNappa
Fuck that, this needs some professional assistance, and probably some legal action against their mom to keep the kids while kicking her out
NightfallEverdark
Wife first, then a counselor. It may just be a natural exploration of her self, but err on the side of caution.
WhoYouGonnaCallGhostNappa
Agreed
LazyLexiconographer
It these kinds of overreactions that create the system we have. Document to protect yourself, and let the women in the house have a heart2h
elppapple
Treating possible sexual abuse is not overreacting, you dead stump.
LazyLexiconographer
Maybe so, but this is more common then your probably aware..
madmongoose18
He said in the post he told her...
CheckYouOut
I didn't see that any where? Am I the only one?
Regdor
He never said he told her.
thatduckingguy
Tell her more damnit im worried
OldMateClown
You need to say something to somebody quickly. If she says something first it's going to be an entirely different kind of conversation.
blueKD
Indeed @OP
partcleboard
Promiscuous behavior in children is often the result of sexual abuse. While it isn't @OP fault he and his wife need to work to help her
MixMasterPants
Fuck yes @op. What this guy said.
Kilsim1v
Better post on imgur. Not like my wife would perhaps have some insight...
eBLT4
Have you seen The Hunt? This is what happens
PutinSupreme
Take her to a therapist that specializes in adolescence and abuse. Tell the doctor about these incidents first. Make sure she gets help
decorativemooseknuckle
Just know if that person is a mandated reporter, be sure youre ready for DHS or the police they are required by law to report sexual abuse.
decorativemooseknuckle
Not to say that isnt the right way to go, just know thats whats gonna happen.
tunastrongandfree
She will be embarrassed and might lash out at you, but she needs help, and you need to protect yourself and your family.
exguerrero
I agree. At least he made this post on imgur. This will surely hold up in court.
Notsofunnyone
This! This you jackass! DO IT!
Countercheck
Couldn't have put it better myself
lysomaru
Yeah man... Hurry. No time wasting.
augdah93
@OP listen to this, do it quick. Maybe your wife first? Tell her how uncomfortable you are about it and ask what you should do, together.
augdah93
Tell her exactly what has happend and maybe suggest the girl gets to see someone professional about it and then talk to the girl togheter_..
augdah93
.._ about it. Put a lid of truth on this before a fire breaks out.
NotACanadian
@OP is a fag. This is a reposted story.
GreaterDog
You sure it wasn't the story about the young guy adopting his lady neighbor's daughter then marrying her a decade later?
GreaterDog
Just take any sentence out of this story and put it in quotes and google search it. This is the only one that comes up.
4kdongs
That's your first thought after reading? False rape allegations?? The kids have probably been molested and need help first & foremost!
covetouscash64
I'm sorry, but bullshit. They might need help foremost, but OP protecting himself has to most definitely be FIRST.
OldMateClown
Not that the child might accuse but that the child might say something causing other adults to accuse. Once that ball gets rolling it's 1/2
OldMateClown
difficult to calm people down and explain the situation rationally. It's best to get ahead of it rather than wait for shit to hit the fan
Sa7enGotDeezNutZ
We, imgurians, are your witnesses
imadethisjusttomakeyoulookstupid
whoa now, i want no part of this
DeepMemeConversations
Make a video. Put a discrete camera somewhere that record whenbsomething moves. It's cheap
TXDIllo
Say something, quickly. Legally. I'm so sorry.
dirtypiratehooker7
This is not normal for a 12 yr old. Call a therapist now.
IamNotaBlackMan
@OP YES. Call one for her and one for you.
OldMateClown
Just make sure you take steps to get the girl help.
IreallyMGur
This is textbook behavior from a kid that has already been sexually abused and or being groomed by someone else.
kyslmao
Disgusting :/
reacata
^^ sauce:working with kids. Talk to people and get her some help... Family doctor or someone similar might be a good start.
silverchicharron
Pyrotha
I woke up with my mom's bf's kid with her tongue in my mouth when I was 13, said nothing then got accused of rape and was almost lynched
Lopool
Damn
seventytimes
So what part of the world are you from?
StormyDaniels130000DollarVagene
Alabama.
DildoSchwagins
Makes sense.
suicideclintonbullets
Brutal
Pyrotha
I'm from Florida but this happened in Tennessee
cockiemonster
they hang you for making out with a minor?
Pyrotha
Seemed like it. She was like 7 or 8, but her family was calling for my arrest and my mom blamed me for ruining her relationship