What it is like to be falsely accused of rape at college

Sep 12, 2016 11:12 AM

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http://dailycaller.com/2016/04/20/i-was-falsely-accused-of-rape-victim-centered-investigations-are-a-travesty-of-justice/
one of many such cases

While there are worse things, lying about being raped has to be the most pathetic thing someone could do

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One of the main (Former) proponents of using the polygraph has come out and said it's a subjective piece of garbage. Don't ever get near one

10 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Hell, it's been common knowledge for years that they don't work.

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This is awful. Using a knowingly false accusation as a power play to hurt someone is also hurtful to actual victims 1/2

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who already find it difficult to be believed when it DID happen. 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

Am I being charged? Am I being detained. That is all you should ever say until you get a lawyer.

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Steven Tyler was falsely accused of Rap after his 'Walk this way' remix with RUN-DMC

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False accusations of all kinds are terrible. Rape is also terrible. We need to address both aggressively.

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

Now imagine the devastation of a similar technique being used on someone who had actually recently been traumatically raped.

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Just like if you're accused of ANY crime - never talk to the police without your lawyer. Never.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Watch like one detective movie and you will realize that when your being interrogated they are not on your side.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Oh, god, actually reading that article the "start by believing" group sounds absolutely insane. Like, utterly insane .

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 5

If you find yourself in an interrogation that starts with a confrontation, it's probably the Reid technique, and they think you're guilty.

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Riley Reid technique?

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Can you explain the Reid technique? Just curious

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I don't buy this story. Sounds more like propaganda against that group it mentions at the end. Why did he even know about them?

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Payed for a polygraph at his own expense? I feel like his lawyer would have saved him some money and told him they're not admissible

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Not admissible for *prosecution.* Defense can absolutely use them.

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Your legal system is totally fucked.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

That's why I always have to witnesses and a notearized form of consent when I do the nasty. It's super awkward for every party there

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

What really stands out to me here is how similar the way this guy was treated sounds to black lives matter accounts of police treatment.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

There was 0 physical evidence, a gap of a year, and not even a specific day outlined? How the hell were charges brought? The guy should sue!

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It's incredibly difficult to do that, because the system operates on a premise that it would scare off reporting of real assaults.

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I'm thinking of gross negligence on the part of the police department. Something as simple as a date of offense is generally required

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Normally yes, but they rationalize that would deter traumatized people from coming forward much later.

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Even generally speaking, what is happening on colleges these days is pretty messed up. Administrators everywhere need to be fired.

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College campuses need to just be a part of the city's police department. Want to reduce tuition costs? Start there.

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As someone who was on the receiving end of being falsely accused, you have no idea.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

I heard that!

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10 years ago (deleted Jul 8, 2022 9:50 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

But if they turned rape reports over to actual police, then they woild have to admit how many rapes are happening and lose donors.

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

Yes this is the common sense obvious approach that should be done.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yep. College has become a haven for the entitled.

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'one of many' citation please

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Not just at college.

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10 years ago (deleted Jul 8, 2022 9:50 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

College is particularly bad because they often have tribunals for this made of students and faculty. [1]

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The issue being the tribunal is often Gender Studies students and the Title IX coordinator for the school, who are ideologically biased. [2]

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The accused don't get a lawyer, don't get to cross-examine their accuser, sometimes aren't even told WHO is accusing them, etc. [3]

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Not to mention the standard for guilt is "preponderance of the evidence", so a 50.01% chance = Guilty in the hearings. [4]

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

This is why the only thing you ever say is Lawyer, Lawyer, Lawyer.

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BEFORE I ANSWER ANY QUESTIONS, I WOULD LIKE AN ATTORNEY. (them) you sure? YES, I WILL EXERCISE MY RIGHT TO REMAIN SILENT. Practice that shit

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

@OP false accusations are terrible. They are also vanishingly rare (<1%). Meanwhile only 3 % of actual rapists actually see jail time.

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THIS. *nod nod*

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 5

someone else's comment stated it well: 'less common, but not less serious'...

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

Most false accusations do not make it as far as court (fortunately)- however this also means that the actual rate is not as rare as <1%.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 2

It actually does. The 1% rate is calculated by dividing false accusations from total reported rape, not total rapes committed. Only 1/

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 7

Claim value (with surveys they can quantify precision (+\-) and the numbers are still below 1% when total rape is accounted for 4/4

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 7

Below 1%. Just as a point of clarity, different studies alternatively use survey rather than arrest data to get the number of false rape 3/

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34% of rapes are reported, meaning out of all rapes, even accounting for the issues you mention, the rate of false accusations is well 2/

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There's no way you can that 97% of your 'actual rapists' weren't falsely accused that is a ridiculous statement

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You've posted this exact thing, verbatim, at least 3 times in these comments, and been told off for it repeatedly. Adjust your position.

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Being told off by people who's world views reality clashes with isn't the same as being incorrect. My father was accused of raping a child 1

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Never was he made to feel outcast or vilified, and he continues to work as a teacher today and a still a respected member of our community 3

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Over a thousand times more likely to be raped ourselves than to be falsely accused, and we have a greater chance to die in a plane crash 6/

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Add on top the extreme rarity of false accusations of rape (most of which are by children not adult women) and the extremely low rate 4/

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Of jailing actual rapists really makes this a virtual non issue. Are there a hand full of exceptions? Absolutely. But as a man we're 5/

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Or from lightening than to be falsely convicted of rape.... 7/7

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He's a teacher (still is), he was investigated, found innocent and never missed a beat. It really sucked during the investigation but 2/

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10 years ago (deleted Jul 8, 2022 9:50 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

@OP For some reason IMGUR keeps auto-deleting posted links. See the comment chain below this for citations

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They were direct links, see the post below the one in reply to this chain for the links

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So you downvote me before reading a citation I will provide? Real classy @OP

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10 years ago (deleted Jul 8, 2022 9:50 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

lol, irony. Accused assumed guilty by default

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Because you have yet to supply one

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3% jail rate bjs(dot)gov/content/pub/pdf/cv14(dot)pdf *replace (dot) with period. Sorry I posted all these as links but IMGUR auto-deleted

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1% false accusation rate cps(dot)gov(dot)uk/publications/research/perverting_course_of_justice_march_2013(dot)pdf *replace (dot) with period

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This article sure goes on about polygraphs a lot, considering they are completely inadmissible and only really used to incite confessions.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Inadmissible for *prosecution.* The defense can absolutely use them.

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Considering it's sponsored content and they seem to think polygraphs are legal procedure I severely doubt it's authenticity.

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Too bad legally speaking the results of a polygraph are not permissible in court due to them being only ~40% accurate.

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Never ever ever speak to any form of law agency without an attorney present. I cannot stress this enough. I was a victim to cops lies.

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Story time?

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/a/tX0k7

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*Does not apply to traffic stops. YOU MUST TALK TO THEM.*

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You could remain completely silent, it's within your rights. It would not make the situation easier, I'll bet.

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Well to a degree. You don't have to give a statement, but you do have to provide ID and usually you are required to answer basic (1/?)

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identification questions. Beyond that, if he asks "Do you know why I stopped you" I suppose you could remain silent, but at that point (2/?)

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you're basically giving up hope of being let off with a warning. *Bonus video from my own town* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2kAGByZvCoc

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That will start to become a hassle when you retain a lawyer on every international trip to talk to the border patrol for you.

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Or for every speeding ticket lol. Seriously, folks, only ask for a lawyer if they they thing you did smth criminal.

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So was I.

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What happened?

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/a/tX0k7

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Holy moly. Alright, I'll throw together a post tonight. I've got a couple of stories dealing with being lied to by the law.

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Here it is /a/tX0k7

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Most estimates I've seen put "actual rape" at 50-100x the prevalance of "false accusation rape", yet Imgur cares 10000x more abt the latter.

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Show me on the doll where your father touched you...

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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Blackstone%27s_formulation Better that 10 guilty go free than one innocent be punished.

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Society ALWAYS cares more about miscarriages of justice that see innocents charged or convicted. Don't act like rape is special here.

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are you serious? Imgur goes nuts over rapists like brock turner. There were like 50 posts about him on the frontpage in one week

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Oh please, imgur is absolutely convinced that false accusations of rape are significantly more prevalent than actual rape.

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better that 100 guilty men go free than one innocent man be unjustly punished.

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not sure why i got downvoted, since that quote is the basis for our legal system.

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Imgur is full of MRA neckbeards.

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Until he was proven innocent, 80% of you would've gladly tried to ruin his life

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Or stand outside his house because he is an easy target and a judge let him off. God the net is full of stupid people

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Look at the Patrick Kane case. Chicago media dragged him through the coals. Then the alleged victims house of cards collapsed. 1/?

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There was no evidence they ever had sexual contact let alone him raping her. None of the media that made a villain out of him, ever 2/?

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wrote retracting statements or apologized for their rush to judgement.

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One of my greatest fears is being accused of rape when I know I didn't do it. I am always wait for evidence when it comes to these things

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I don't fear that at all, because it's so astonishingly rare that as a dude, I'm more likely to be raped than falsely accused.

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This is how the court of public opinion works for most crimes

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The court of imgur too. This community is disgusting.

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The issue is that if you'd commented "Let's wait to see what they find," you'd have been accused of defending a rapist. Rape culture, etc.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

I want to ask the question "what is your ideal sequence of events" following a rape accusation. Just to see what these people want.

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Do they want an accusation to just be treated as guilt? She said he did it, case closed? Seems they think investigation is victim blaming

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I would have sued the State of Virginia as a response - $60k in lawyer fees just to prove that your ex had second thoughts? Fuck that

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Would not fly. If there is enough PC for a Magistrate to issue a warrant, the state is covered. You realize if they didn't arrest 1/2

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That 60k number doesn't seem realistic to me at all for a semester's worth of legal work.

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How is it legal to charge someone lawyer fees if they've been falsely accused???

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10 years ago (deleted Jul 8, 2022 9:50 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

You can get a public defender for free i believe but depending on your county they pay be shit.

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In denmark a few years back, we had a debate about how to classify the US, and how to handle visas etc, as it was suggested, seriously, that

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the US justice system was based on "money makes right". Makes you wonder when first world countries start thinking you are corrupt. Or it

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SHOULD make you think.

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And imagine the guys that can't afford a lawyer. There was one scandal in which 4 or 5 black guys on a college football team got accused.[1]

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None of them could afford attorneys. They all grew up poor. It was DNA evidence linked to the chick's boyfriend that cleared them. [2]

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An attorney will be provided, free of charge.

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Sometimes you get a real shifty one

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Can request another on from the judge.

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sometimes all you get is shitty ones. Public defenders have a reputation of being well meaning lawyers that had their souls crushed long ago

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and he will spend an average of 4 minutes on you and the other hundred people he is representing.

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People who falsely accuse rape should be sentenced with the same punishment they would have dolled out on an innocent person

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10 years ago (deleted Sep 23, 2016 11:46 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

shazam! nice find

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As long as it can be proved that the accusation was malicious, and not just wrong. So no "I think it might be him, but I'm not sure"

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specifically i am talking about situations like OP went thru. There is no question the ex was intentionally making a false accusation

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*doled, and I completely agree.

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Falsiflying a police report is already a crime. If you could prove it was malicious you could probably sue for defamation of character too.

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Unfortunately there is a widespread precedent where the justice department doesn't press charges even if there is evidence the accuser lied.

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People just don't press charges / counter-sue in these situations. Maybe if they did this shit wouldn't happen as often...

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They do, you just don't hear about it. For one thing, it takes a long time, so the cases aren't news anymore. Also, gag order clauses. (1/2)

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Also, malicious false accusations are uncommon, and rarely make it all the way to legal action. (2/2)

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Fuck it they can vilify me, I'll take them to court for enough to not have to deal with the public ever again

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So, 3 months?

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humorous! average sentence for convicted rapists was 9.8 years, while the actual time served was 5.4 years

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I totally agree. However, there should be an addendum for mistaken identification. Like if it was dark/you didn't see the attacker's face.1

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If it was an honest accident, then the victim shouldn't suffer more for that. 2/2

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Problems arise when it becomes "he said/she said". When the accused is found innocent due to lack of evidence, is the accuser instantly(1/?)

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charged with lying? You couldn't prove that the accused was guilty but that doesn't always mean you proved they were innocent. And even(2/?)

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if you did prove they were innocent, that doesn't mean the accuser wasn't raped, it could just be mistaken identity. It gets really (3/4)

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complicated legally, which is part of why I think this isn't part of the law (4/4)

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Feel the need say that I'm not making an argument against you here.The legal system where I'm from has a 3rd verdict for what you described.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Other comments were suggesting it'd have to be proven to be malicious so I imagine it'd go to judging the mens rea as in many other cases.

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Fuck that. How do you propose figuring out for certain that they were falsely accusing someone. If we knew that we wouldn't need courts.

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Agreed, even if the accused is cleared of all charges no one can get rid of that stigma that ruins their life.

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Being cleared of charges isn't proving the victim to be a liar though, it just means they lacked proof they were telling the truth.

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So what do you want though? The person being branded for life because of accusation. We've moved past the Scarlet Letter

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They're not being branded for life. And are you not aware of libel law?

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