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Yes she knows and we have talked about this situation. 2 weeks ago she said we couldn’t talk anymore because she was in too much pain and felt used. It hurts that I have made her feel that way and I want to be with her.
My marriage is rough right now. We don’t connect well and have sex apx once every 2-3 weeks at best. I’ve told my wife I’m not super happy but I truly do still love her. Feels like an emotionally manipulative relationship and she has all the control.
Wish I knew what to do. I’m really trying to make it work with my wife, but I can’t stop thinking of this other person thinking the grass is greener.
tl:dr I love my wife but see a better situation with another woman
Hiynastrike
You Lose! Good day sir
itsapieceofshit
If you're fucked up in your current relationship, you'll be fucked up in your next relationship. Work on you, then figure out your 'ships.
nerdink
Grass always seems greener
JamesTotally
This is one of those situations where talking to a licensed therapist for a month or two would be totally worth the money.
IAmTheOneWhoKnocksOnWood
Completely agree. If you love her give it a chance, if it’s over... make sure she knows.
rebeccaINgreen
Stop playing games. Make a decision and live it. You are fucking over both this way. Both women deserve honesty at least.
aMiu
What is the "better" situation? Honestly, it sounds pretty selfish to me.
InfiniteOso
grass is what you make it? idfk im in a shit situation myself. let me know how it works.
kelp2100
Man up. You have kids. You're still having sex. Talk that shit out with your wife and lay it on the line.
kelp2100
If either one of you doesn't want to change, then it's time to separate. Try first, man.
youtellmedothingsidoneRUNNIN
One of my best friends is currently going through this very situation. He made the decision to go for the other woman. 1/
youtellmedothingsidoneRUNNIN
He regrets his decision every day and it will weigh on him for the rest of his life. Not that that's your situation necessarily... 2/2
sketchymeats
It's called a side piece James
Bearsinspace2001
Get a divorce and get fucking
iznull
Ever heard the one about the oasis in the desert?
DrSnuess
For craps sake. So friggin selfish. If u do it you deserve all the garbage coming your way. Too bad your wife an kids don’t deserve it.
djkr
ssjbeeno
Put the kids first. Family second. Heart third. Spend time to figure it out with the wife. Make the best decision that you can.
ssjbeeno
Take counseling.
thump661699
Have you heard the saying the grass is not greener? It’s all Astro Turf. Went through the same situation 10 years ago 1/2
thump661699
I stuck with my wife and am happy that I did. I recommend therapy both couple and private.