Being left in the aisle

Jan 1, 2017 12:08 AM

NeoStone

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After two years of leaving together and with plans of moving from Argentina to Germany, one week away of our wedding my fiance decided he is not ready and we break up. I feel kind of sad, but I'm happy since he start being really fucked up and I was doubing about it too. I have a lot of friends and family who love me and support me, which is nice and want to me traveling around.
I need this to finish it. And cheers for me, since he was being abusive and violent, this help me to open my eyes and focus in myself. Cheers since I'm not supporting him anymore, his troubles and insecurities, his darkness and crap. Now I will be happy! Now I can do whatever I want. And let's sell the dress and move on with my life! Chers for a new good year!

Be careful if he slithers back. Do not give an inch that he has a chance. Cut him off fast.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So you're single?

9 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 6

How's the last year been?

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

And we've come full circle. People now moving from Argentina to Germany.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

https://imgur.com/IFcsUqY.jpg You've got that going for you

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

As the saying goes, “You dodged a bullet.” There are plenty of really good men out there that would treat you right and love you.

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You look beautiful - you don't need no man ????

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Good on you @OP.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Viva la gozadera. Desde tampa florida

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I would never leave a lady waiting in the aisle. No man would

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As Evita "said" in the song (but adapted) ..Don't cry for him Argentinian Woman! @OP Hope 2017 turns out for the best!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I feel like you should hear this, despite it coming off as rude. DO NOT MARRY after only two years of being with a person.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There is no rush for marriage and if your relationship can't hold up without the title of 'married' then it wasn't going to work anyhow.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hell, there isn't a harm in waiting 5, 7, or 9 years before marriage. The longer the wait, the more secure the relationship

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Stay Strong. You sound awesome!!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Go get it OP

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I was just sorting by old posts. How did things turn out?

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good job OP.. start the new year off clean and no weight on you.. 2017 will be your year.. and PS.. your hot..

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You're so much better off without him in your life. All the best with your future OP!!

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This makes room in your life for someone better! You deserve someone DECENT!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You look great I hope youve found the right person to use that dress beside

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Cheers

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Another reason 2016 sucked. I hope you have a better 2017!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Beautiful

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

dodged a bullet

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

From the sound of things, this is definitely for the better. He doesn't deserve you and you deserve all the happiness in the world.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

De lo que te haz salvado flaca! A festejar la llegada del año nuevo con ganas,alegría y rodeada de tus seres queridos. Abrazo pampa!

9 years ago | Likes 44 Dislikes 3

Todo lo mejor, espero que el año que viene te trae felicidad.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I felt like making a joke, but I'm worried anything I say will be considered tactlessly racist.

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Probably the right instinct, wouldve been hard to come off any other right

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Come to America I'll marry you and take good care of you.. i love you

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Not with that broke ass penis of yours

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My pen is broke...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Being left in the aisle be like

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I wanst literally. I was one week away of getting married

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was making you a humour

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I know...I just don't know how to make an update.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Thanks for all t he positive message. Finally I got the courage to left him. And I was the kind of plp who thinks it is easy but is f*cking.

9 years ago | Likes 145 Dislikes 7

Germany is full, stay home.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

At the very least you are pretty, so you've got that going for you.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

*hugs*

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Congrats! But I for one, believe that we are as likely to choose our SO based on their flaws as much as their good points, so be VERY

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Cautious about the reasons you start up with the next guy. We contribute to our own situation by the choices we make, and don't repeat your

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Past mistakes. In no way am I victim blaming, I've just seen too many take up with new SOs with similar traits to ones they left. Good luck!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hard!

9 years ago | Likes 67 Dislikes 3

Now I have the courage and feel finally good about myself! I'm sad too if course I loved him. Altought im free and relax.

9 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 2

Good on you OP! I was in an abusive relationship and it took me 2 years to realize he wasn't good enough for me and that there are other

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Fish in the sea

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You left him, he left you... this is all very confusing.

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

Story flipflops a lot, I wanna go with fake and not very thought out.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Something tells me English is not op's first language.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

This. Pronouns and tense are very hard for non-native English speakers.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0