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My dad.
These pictures are from this past Saturday. We took a road trip to South Carolina to see his brother, my uncle, who was on the hospital because of a cancer scare. A lot of things were going poorly between my dad and my mom for a few years, but they had started to fix things and get back on track. A lot of these problems prevented us from doing things like this road trip and unfortunately it took my uncle going into the hospital for us get our asses in gear and go see our family.
Me.
A lot of these problems between my mom and dad caused a lot of resentment between all of us, but I still love them with all my heart, I just didn't like them sometimes. We, as in my father and I, aren't the greatest communicators, we don't express our feelings well, but when we do its deep. This road trip my dad and I took was a great bonding moment for us. We were able to get a lot of our frustrations out and see things from a more clear perspective.
I found him this morning, according to the ME, he passed sometime Sunday night in his sleep, so the night we got back from our trip. I followed him in my truck to the rental car office. He got in my truck, we drive back to his place, I dropped him off and said see ya later.
I know I'm kinda all over the place here so I guess what I'm trying to get at is go hug your father's for me today. Tell them you love them. I didn't do it enough and I won't get another chance to.
Thanks.
kolfacekilla
sorry for your loss man, pretty cool that you were able to take a trip together so recently. keep your spirits up, one day at a time.
dlb313
So sorry for your loss
BlackassMan
First time imgur made me cry. So sorry for your loss man. I'm going to hug my pops in the morning.
rawdog
Sorry for you loss
imgonnawreckitagain
your dad is way more majestic in that pose then you. seems like a cool dude. hang in there
dubya8098
So sorry.....
erbiumyttriumytterbium
My condolences. I lucked out, I said goodbye to my dad before he died.
nipplepanties
I'm very glad you had this road trip before the end. If anything, what a great memory to leave on. I hope you find peace.
Piornet
*hugs*
JustMare
So sorry for your loss...It will be that wonderful road trip memory that will sustain you....and your long remember! ????
ReposterCallerOuterMan
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :(
carrotsoup
ugh i'm so sorry for your loss @op :/...
Raggart
I am so sorry for your loss.
Spiderkeegan
samplesofsass
Im so sorry for your loss@op. sending bountiful hugs your way. My inbox is always open if you need to chat!
stupidpendous
OP. I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you and your family. This is a shit time but strength comes in many forms. Hang in there
noman007us
Sorry to hear that bro. Everytime you miss him look in the mirror. He transferred a part of himself in you. Hope you feel better
Hulagirl01
So sorry. I wished I had been nicer to my dad and spent more time with my mom and dad. I would give anything to have that time back:(
Hydr0p0nik
Till Valhalla OP's dad! My condolences OP.
Aviator101
My dad passed away when I was 16 in 2005. Very similar story to yours. The older I get the more I remember the good times.
LetsNotDoThat
Damn, @OP. I'm sorry, dude.
jcgc
Lost my dad to sudden heart attack almost 3yrs ago. No words. Hold on to the good memories.
cerberusVIII
I lost my dad last year in October to a sudden heart attack as well. My condolences to you and your family.
NippleHunter
Sorry for your loss OP. Your post really hit home and has made me want to get back in touch with my dad.
ilovecosmetics
BangersAndMashers
I'm sorry for your loss. If you need someone to talk to feel free to message me.
sbm4034
My condolences
jimieratchet
Sorry for your loss
humankin
I don't know what's worse: a slow, creeping death or the ones where you don't get to brace yourself and say your goodbyes
QADA
Or being on fire and having someone throwing cobras at you while stepping on pieces of Lego in your bare feet
TheChandrian
Quick is better for the deceased and worse for the family. Slow is the other way around.
omgtessie
The second
ilovecake
I've gone through both, and both are pretty bad for different reasons. It is worse to see someone you care about suffer a lot.
muscletank
is that the titanium package?
Dontblink5150
Yeah it was, pretty cool rental. Quick little bugger.