I'm the worst

Jun 19, 2016 5:57 AM

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I'm the worst

I text my husband when hes in the next room to tell him I miss him. Ive been with him for 13 years, my bed-nest is comfy & he needs to know.

10 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

dont see it as clingy. does he tell you to stop? no? continue

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Tbh this is the kind of girlfriend i want

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

@OP I love it when my SO does that. Reminds me that even when I'm asleep she's thinking of me

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is kind of what I need.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Wish my ex wouldve done this

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I love this kind of girlfriend ;-; if only I had one still ;_;

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Your doing fiiiiiiiiine.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So, the best kind?

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I'm not saying I'm desperate but please do this to me.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

please stop.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As a guy with a girlfriend who would do this, it's not nearly as bad as you think. It's really sweet. Granted, not too excessively but it's

10 years ago | Likes 42 Dislikes 0

These little things that count

10 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

I'm the guy version of this.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's fine to send those things. Just as long as you don't expect something in return, and get pissy when it doesn't happen.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fact.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's fine texting your BF at 2 AM, just don't be the girl who gets mad if he doesn't reply back at 2AM

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Lol not the worst relax.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As long as you don't flip out when he texts back at a decent hour, then do what you want.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Not clingy, natural human response.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Hey @OP I do this to my bf too, and he says he it makes him feel happy. So don't worry about it, as long as your s.o loves you for you <3

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Same, OP

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You're not the worst, some people need that kind of thing while others might not

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Better than no girlfriend!

10 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 1

thats true

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Attention whoring post without any actual value.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

2am is the usually the time I go on break so I wouldn't mind, actually I wouldn't mind anymore texting me for that matter

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

dank confession

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

2 am "I miss you" is adorable. It's the 2:15 "Why didn't you text back" that causes trouble.

10 years ago | Likes 287 Dislikes 1

It's also okay to text "are you awake?" Instead of I miss you. Again not expecting anything back.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"I see you read that..."

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Exactly. This is fine unless you expect him to text back.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It's also okay to text "are you awake?" Instead of I miss you. Again not expecting anything back.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Followed by the "what are you doing?" And "who are you with?" And the famous "I knew o shouldn't trust you" then the "I'm sorry, call me"

10 years ago | Likes 68 Dislikes 1

But I must admit, the amount of crazy I put up with is directly correlated to how fine the woman is.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I love sending my bf messages like this at times I know he's asleep. Just something for him to wake up to.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's not clingy. I think that's normal and shows deep feelings. My GF is the opposite...and I'm not sure I can take it any longer :(

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I would love that. I just recieved a dear john letter on deployment.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I've been married for 15 years and my wife and I still send each other these texts when we're apart. Don't feel bad about it OP.

10 years ago | Likes 364 Dislikes 1

Been with my husband for 8 years (2 yrs marriage) and we will text as often while we're apart for the day at work. Even in bathroom... lol

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My parents have been married 30years and they still call and text each other when apart. I think it's sweet.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

*Nods* 14 years, can confirm we do the same

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

16 years here, we text each other throughout the day even when we're mere miles from eachother. If they are your best friend, why not?

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Except your married

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Married a year and text the hubby I miss him at 2am all the time....when he's downstairs playing games and I'm upstairs! He loves it.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That makes me feel better! Thank you for normalizing!

10 years ago | Likes 91 Dislikes 2

Dont get to comfy OP..when your BF is sleeping next to you, its still a strange thing to do!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Do you send 1? Or 100 and flip out when he/she does not respond for 5 hrs

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You are my type of gal

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Sending such texts is sweet. Getting upset if you dont get a response at 2am is not. Nothing wrong with expressing your love.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

6 years here. We still do this, and make a point out of showing each other affection in silly ways.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My wife and I do that too. Clingy is not always bad. Many nights we have slept on the phone.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I need that kind of girlfriend

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ive been away from home for a couple of weeks and my girlfriend tells me all the time how much she misses me It just makes me feel more love

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I love these types of relationships. Who doesn't want to be missed? It's not like he was in the shower and you tackled him.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

But probably not at 2AM, because they're both asleep.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Knowing someone is thinking about you is the best :)

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Do you send 1? Or 100 and flip out when he/she does not respond for 5 hrs

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's not clingy if the other person reciprocates.

10 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 0

This. It is clingy however if send a ton rapid fire, literally freaking out that he'll dump you just because he's away. Not healthy.

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

But 2am "hey. Just woke up. Can't sleep. Miss you." That's sweet, if the other person feels the same way.

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Why aren't you in bed with him?

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Because he's not into threesomes.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Becuase she's out sleeping around. (only funny to me if you put it in context of Op's post)

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Plot Twist: She is.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Okay, that's some crazy - and I've dated that before. Point to you, my fine friend.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Asking the real questions

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just saying, I don't mind clingy GFs - if they're rubbing my back, fucking me silly, bringing me noms - they can have me all the time.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Also, rich enough to stipend me to not go to work? Cool, let's make things all day, read and converse.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

He's gone this weekend. :( but I'm actually resisting the urge to text. So far. Maybe I'm more of a 4 a.m. texter instead

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Go ahead and text him, let him know you care! I don't see anything wrong with that

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You aren't the only one. My girl has been doing a super intensive summer school and it's killing me

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Keep up the good fight. Go fap instead. Play a videogame. Read a book. A good morning text is far more fun to wake up to. 9:AM :D

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Also, send him nudez. Tell him you miss him, and can't wait for him to get home :D

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

This !!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Why do you have to send nudes? Maybe because I have never photographed well I don't think I'd subject myself to looking bad naked.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

You don't have to - but it's *nice*. If I were the BF, I'd dig nudez. You don't have to if you don't want to, but why's someone hitting it?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0