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In 1874 at the age of 10 Mary Ellen took the stand and testified about the abuse that she had experienced at the hands of her adoptive mother “Mamma has been in the habit of whipping and beating me almost every day,” the little girl testified.
“I have now on my head two black-and-blue marks which were made by Mamma with the whip, and a cut on the left side of my forehead which was made by a pair of scissors in Mamma’s hand; she struck me with the scissors and cut me.... I never dared speak to anybody, because if I did I would get whipped.”
Mary Ellen Wilson was born into a poor family. After Mr. Wilson's death, Mary Ellen's mother struggled to care for her and also work. Mrs. Wilson made the choice to leave her daughter with another caregiver, this way she was able to work days and nights. Mrs. Wilson made regular payments to the caregiver. But after unemployment and falling deeper into poverty Mrs. Wilson was unable to make those regular payments. The caregiver then took Mary Ellen to the Department for Charities. Shortly after this Ms. Wilson went to pick Mary Ellen up from the caregiver, she was told that Mary Ellen had died. But she was alive and had just turned two at the Department of Charities.
Mary Ellen was adopted by the McCormack family. Shortly after the adoption Mr. McCormack died and Mrs. McCormack remarried to Mr. McConnell.
Mary Ellen was beaten, starved, cut and burned for more than seven years and no one came to help her. Often times neighbors could hear Mary Ellen scream while Mrs. McConnell beat her, sometimes 15 minutes straight. The family moved and more neighbors took notice of the beating. Mrs. Wheeler was sent to investigate the matter further.
Mrs. Wheeler managed to get into the home and see Mary Ellen. She had scares all over her arms and face. Mrs. McConnell was yelling at Mary Ellen.
Mrs. Wheeler horrified about the condition she found this little girl in, stared calling a ton of different agencies asking for help. Although none of them were willing to help. That's when Mrs. Wheeler called the ASPCA, they were willing to help but needed evidence of the abuse. Mrs. Wheeler managed to get the evidence and the case went to court.
In 1874 there weren't any laws to protect children from physical abuse.
Mary Ellen is the first documented case of child abuse, and finally got people talking about the rights of a child
After the hearing Mary Ellen was removed from Mrs. McConnell's care and was eventually adopted again this time to a caring family. She was married at the age of 24. She had two kids of her own and also adopted a little girl, she was a sweet, caring and loving mother. She died in 1956 at the age of 92.
TL;DR Mary Ellen was the first documented child abuse case. The ASPCA was the only agencies that helped her. She was remove from her home, got adopted and lived happily ever after.
Courier6tubegalore
Women are 3 times more likely to have a mental illness and 5 times more likely to kill their children. Yet they still are favored by courts
myteenyverse
Poor girl... such a sad life.
trollsack
or maybe, just maybe it was not generally thought at the time, that humans could be so horrible to their own kind but only to animals..
trollsack
stop making this about what its probably not. Have an open, analytical mind.
humptysorthopedic
Long Depression in 1873. Typically after big financial speculators boom then bust.
hypnokrote
Reminds me of Cosette's story quite a bit, must've been an all to familiar tale during the Industrial era
powerofvoid
We still haven't ratified the UN convention on the rights of the child: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Convention_on_the_Rights_of_the_Child
FarkasMacTavish
Who the hell is Mrs. Wheeler? Her name just shows up with no explanation.
juzsayin
She was actually declared an animal in order for the ASPCA to take action as at the time there were Laws to protect animals, not children
juzsayin
I studied this case while training to become a Child Protection Officer.
Gerrery
As the whole story goes, when George Washington cut down the cherry tree, his father did not hit him and he became President.
Twinklepot
That was such a good post OP! The poor little girl. There is so much of this that still goes on ... we need to be vigilant
CheetahFart
*In the US
AlmightyDiapahbetusGarlicGerbil
If you can't take care of yourself and deal with your own issues, then you won't be able to do the same with a kid.
JRobertOppenheimer
Her name... is Mary Polson
TonyTin
As a person who doesn't know how to show emotions this one almost made me cry
johnny538
Nice pics. I didn't feel like sleeping tonight anyways.
SithElephant
Err - no. http://www.popline.org/node/287759 - documenting the 1872 infant life preservation act in the UK. Also, 1840 in Johnson v. State
SithElephant
http://www.libraryindex.com/pages/1360/Child-Abuse-History-OVERVIEW.html
InappropriateReactionGIF
Child labor laws are ruining this country.
notadisneyprincess
ASPCA is an incredible organization. I am so happy someone stepped in to help this sweet girl.
marvelboy
But what happened to Mrs Wilson, did she find out that her daughter was still alive?
thepartypooperscooper
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lordelordelorde
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Pedanticjerk
I also like animals better than children
BassNAss
Now that is some seriously messed up child abuse. Now they take your kids if you send them to bed without supper for misbehaving.
MrIsht
Some people I believe are pure bred evil. Violence towards anything or anyone is morally atrocious, especially a child.
djangojazz
And now kids can sue their parents if they did not consent to posting their pictures on facebook. Not saying I want above, that was horrid.
MotorBoatMyButtCheeks
That was very informative, but damn that's fucked up.
bunduz
You want haunted murder dolls? Because this is how you get haunted murder dolls.
victimsociety
I'd like too beat that woman with a whip. Anybody who abuses there child deserves an even more brutal beating. Cowards is what they are.
tentaclefriendly
It's tragic and horrible but livestock had value and children got replaced for free. Abuse was astonishingly common all through history.
justanotherdescendingangel
Sad thing is people will spend 1000's to save a dog in China from becoming food, but won't help a fellow human being that needs help.
B99Reactions
Cause a "fellow human" is whats hurting this girl, not a dog!
ToastedVanilla
That's such a fucking ignorant comment. Animal charities barely get enough funds for what they're doing.
Bappy211
I help with dog rescue, dogs love unconditionally, people not so much. Plus as a female I'm much less weary of dogs than most humans.
dietderpsy
People send billions off to help children in the third world, animal charities are tiny in comparison.
eastridingbandit
I wonder how many billions have been sent to Africa and if it's actually helped or perpetuated the cycle.
MrsZbornak
Why can't we help both? It's like complaining one cancer charity gets more money than another. Why not help any human or animal suffering?
gangeex05
Because to some, animals are lovable and humans are not.
TranceEnding
You ever thought that people have different values? We're not one mind.
JoeinCanada
The first organization in the world was the New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children in 1875. It's founders were/1
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Henry Berge, founder of the ASPCA (1866) and Eldridge Gerry, Lawyer. The two undertook the Mary Ellen case as a court case in 1873. The/2
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Case so shocked the public that they were able to get a financial backer, John Write and in 1874 formed the Society for the Prevention /3
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Of Cruelty to Children, which still exists today. Part of the problem at the time was that Children, like Wives, were seen as chattel, and/4
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Much abuse took place behind closed doors. It took investigations, most often undertaken by women in the organization, to find truly/5
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Abused children and collect the evidence needed to have "care givers" prosecuted in the courts.
weneedmorequestions
I really do not want to know what happened a hundred years ago :)
kissmyassets
Then swipe next :) continue to live in ignorance.
weneedmorequestions
Sorry for the :)!! Should be :( - I thought I found it all terrible and unimaginable, sorry for misunderstanding.