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First of all, sorry for my mistakes. Non-native speaker here. I'm sorry too for the long text, and I'm conscious I can be downvoted to Oblivion.
My girlfriend called me a week ago to announce me that she cheated on me the night before, and that she felt really sorry (like someone who cheated on you would).
The fact is that, I assumed that we could pass through this together with A LOT of communication, and I was not even mad at her for what she did, since I thought that at the right moment when we would success to forget all this, we would grow as a couple. The problem is that she didn't felt the same way.
She decided not to continue because it would be too hard to see me and talk to me after what she did, which I think is a typical selfish decision.
Though, we decided to separate in "good terms", so it would be easier to forget all this. But now I feel like I missed something.
I really loved her Imgur, and now I feel alone, and I the feeling that I can achieve nothing because I miss this precise person in my life.
Please, send me messages to help me pass through this, and maybe some cat pictures.
TL;DR: My girlfriend cheated on me, I wanted to stay with her but she didn't want to.
ishotjfktwice
Sulfur + hydrogen peroxide
JustMare
Okay, first off sorry this happened...but guess what if she cheated on you & stayed she would do it again! Your gonna be alright! ????
HeyGuysAmIRelevantYet
She cheated to try to get you to dump her so she could play the victim.
Dentedcylon
It was used for her reason bro.
justsoda
start lying
LonelyBrannigan
Yeah no, she cheats, she needs to go!
LawFiveGuy
It hurts now OP, but only for a little while. She would have cheated on you again. And again. Your future would have been filled with pain
Relictor
Better off without her. Good luck
PerfectGifComment
lexadOU
Ahah thanks dude.
sasquatchisfalse
You didn't care. Means this isn't serious. Enjoy that you don't care and move on.
DisGonBeGud
Cheaters aren't shit but hoes and tricks
HereIGoLurkingAgain
SubtleOrc
You're a loser.... Dump her arse
RumbleNtheJungle
If you aren't mad that she cheated on you. You probably didn't truly love her. Maybe just loved being in a relationship.
Quaxx
That's a good point introducing swinging to the relationship. It really helped us.
sitondis
in the words of the famous Mr. Garrison in reference to Kathy Gifford out doing him since grade school... "The bitch must die!"
iamkyleh
Thats why i like being emot. Stunted. If something like this happens, i can cut all ties without any feelings towards the other person
iamkyleh
Although it does make it hard to form connections in the first place
cinemeasctha
She did you the biggest favour of your life. Go out and find someone who deserves you.
lexadOU
Thanks dude, it's quite hard to take the decision to go out and forget it all. I have to convince me it's not a big deal to go out.
JawaLol
Stop being a cuck. Go and show the world what you're made of
cinemeasctha
Everyone is their own worst enemy.
mortalkay
bro ive been in your exact spot. trust me shit gets easier you'll do it. you got this.
makemineadouble
Breakups suck, but self-pity and misery is unfulfilling. Keep your chin up and dive into a hobby. Good living is the best revenge.
JetWagner
Now you just find a sweet girl who likes doing butt stuff and you live happily ever after!
Triysle
I forgave a cheater once. She cheated on me two more times and stole a bunch of stuff before she finally dumped me. Life lessons.
Scylia
She wanted to break up with you. She slept with someone and told you to make you be the one to do it, you didn't, so she just left.
CaptainMiffles
She left you for him
lexadOU
I don't know, and it might be the case. It's rude to say this, but it doesn't matter.
UltraBooster
Just cheat on her too. And never buy a ring
TeaWithGhosts
Your ex cheated on you but that doesn't mean you have to cheat yourself out of a nice future and life or some shit. I dunno, best wishes
lexadOU
I think you're right, but I decided to continue because I thought she would not do it again, implying that we could have have a great future
ThatAwesomeGinger
Bro, she cheated. Cheaters are not and never will be long term relationship material. She did you a favor, once a cheater always a cheater.
lexadOU
It is so simple to consider that ever since a person cheats on you, you have the right to remove their humanity (2)
YesPleaseSomeMore
Why are cheaters not long term relationship material?
lexadOU
I don't see her as a cheater but as a person, that's why the situation is difficult (1)
lexadOU
This is a person I used to love, to know and to laugh with. It is way more complicated than that. (3)
ThatAwesomeGinger
I have had very similar relationships, and trust me it is that simple. She made the choice to betray you, she would likely do it again.
ThatAwesomeGinger
You can still care about someone abd not have anything to do with them. Move on to a girl that will respect you.
Freygl
I think so too. But the fact that she is to big of a pussy to suffer the consequences and chickens out either means she's an asshole or...
Freygl
..just doesn't love you
Bigcock7786
Just think of it this way... better to find out now when you don't lose half your stuff... go out and do 3 things she always said no to
Bigcock7786
And enjoy life...maybe it's renting a fast car...or a trip somewhere ... don't let her stop you anymore
Abowlofoatmeal
You're a good guy, bigcock
Bigcock7786
Being in the military for 18 years and some kids join and get their harts crushed....I tell them the same thing and it's the best advice
WholsJusticeBeaver
I love this advice