JohnDeCaux
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11 months sober and life has never been better.
The other day it marked been sober for 11 months and I didn't realise until the next day.
Since I stopped drinking last April, I had been marking each day off to remind myself that I’m getting better and stronger.
The last couple of weeks I haven’t been marking the days, not because I fell “off the wagon” but because I haven’t spent a lot of time thinking about being sober.
It’s freeing knowing that alcohol no longer controls my life. Since giving up alcohol life has gotten so much better, not that it wasn't great before but normally I was too drunk at night to realize.
We bought a house that we have fallen in love with, work has become so much easier and I'm producing higher quality work.
Something I would never have had the time to do due to drinking is to create my passion project - a cooking show! Which I’m really proud of and it’s now starting to find its legs.
Another bonus is, I've lost 20kg!
My wife has been beyond amazing to the point of not drinking to support me too.
I also shaved off my shitty neck beard to help remind myself how much things have changed.
My beard was a sign of laziness and how much I had lost focus on things.
If you feel like you’re stuck in the trap of drinking too much, just focus on not drinking one day at a time.
I constantly remind myself whenever I’m tempted that “If I don’t drink, I won’t feel like shit tomorrow”.
Today is 342 days since my last drink.
Thank you all of your ongoing support!
MadDrDrillBit
its a surreal when driving and noticing your not staring at the liquor stores. good job! dont get complacent.
JohnDeCaux
It's such a good feeling! It's only just started to happen. It was hard because our supermarket had a bottleshop out the front.
LesliD
Proud of you, OP! We just celebrated my boyfriend's sixth year of sobriety. It keeps getting easier. :)
JohnDeCaux
That's so amazing! Pass on my congratulations:)
TasteE260
Almost 3 weeks sober ! Congratulations man
JohnDeCaux
Great work!! I'm proud of you!!!
UnseenCarrot
59 days here.
JohnDeCaux
Great work! So proud of you!!!
Seethreepeeoh
Well, good for you @OP.
JohnDeCaux
Thanks :)
LadySasquatch
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Every time I see one of these posts I am a little more inspired to do what needs to be done. And congrats
JohnDeCaux
You can do it! Thank you for your support
noomunderscoretv
Ive just cone from a family program at a rehab clinic (was there for someone else). This is really positive to see. Thanks for sharing.
JohnDeCaux
The importance of supportive people around is what makes a difference. tried a few time to get sober but they were never because I wanted it
JohnDeCaux
I hope they find the help they need to realise that it's a good choice
lachhzz
power to you dude i fell off this year
JohnDeCaux
Have you gotten back on?
lachhzz
nah i stopped taking my meds at the end of last year as i thought better but things spiralled now im drinking again
JohnDeCaux
You can stop the spiral. Just pull up on he control and level out the plane. I believe in you! Things can get better
ashmenon
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME YOU LOST LIKE 15 YEARS OF AGE
JohnDeCaux
Haha don't you mean gain?
ashmenon
No you lost 15 years of age, you gained 15 years of life. *smokes joint*
colongboarder
Thanks man as one that's getting sober its very nice seeing this stuff here. Keep going man and feel free to chat with me if u would like.
JohnDeCaux
I'm really proud of you! Great work and thank you for your support.
colongboarder
Thanks man, Some really crazy stuff has happen to have me understand my life would be much better with out it.
JohnDeCaux
I believe in you!
colongboarder
thanks man, well its not good for me.
marquisdechocula
that was a bad beard. Way to go on sobriety also
JohnDeCaux
It was a shit beard! Thank you!
IwillSTOMPyourSTUPIDspiritANIMAL
Keep up the good work.. im on year 6 or 7 of soberness after ten years blacked out
JohnDeCaux
Great work!!!
IwillSTOMPyourSTUPIDspiritANIMAL
Did wife quit drinking too?I did it on my own the first year then my man finally put the vodka down. Its crazy how much life can turn around
JohnDeCaux
She did it with me and hasn't had a drink since. I don't think I could've done it without her
IwillSTOMPyourSTUPIDspiritANIMAL
Awesome for both of you :) Its definitely good doing it with someone and having support and trying to figure out sober life together
JohnDeCaux
It's been a journey but well worth it
OLIVEGARDENSBREADSTICKS
but... but why are they in groups of seven?! No one knows how to count by sevens!
faithfuldoubt
Think about it for a second you dickwad
LorianneCyanide
Weeks
faithfuldoubt
Think about it for a second you dickwad
TonyPlush2
Think about it for a week...dickwad
JohnDeCaux
They're grouped by weeks
OLIVEGARDENSBREADSTICKS
But what if you want to know how many days?? HOW DID YOU GET TO 318 WITH SEVENS??? WITCHCRAFT!
JohnDeCaux
Haha! Good question! I googled "day Calculator" and all you have to do it put in a start date :D
fathogwrestler
I see some 8 day weeks in there. What gives?
JohnDeCaux
Haha!
Sirtopumhat
Everyone drinks on sunderday!
ashmenon
Leap weeks brah.
Scyxurz
What's 1000 minus 7?
thagoatman
Love the reference
magicpudding
288 days dry - feels good!
JohnDeCaux
Sure does!
OunceTheOZ
Congrats on the sobriety, going on 2 years myself. Come down to Texas and we can celebrate over a beer or two
JohnDeCaux
Haha!
pelusita35
Congrats to both of you.
CMcAwesomeville
Honest question: You'll never touch alcohol ever again? Or do you occasionally enjoy a glass or two. I don't know how this works
JohnDeCaux
Never mean never for me
CMcAwesomeville
Ok, thanks for the response. Whatever you do: keep it up! Great progress, bro!
JohnDeCaux
Thank you so much!
Dumbone95
is this a man or a child?
JohnDeCaux
Both a manchild
pelusita35
Congrats! My son still doesn't understand he's an alcoholic. He is destroying us all! I'm so so happy for you!! Huge hug!!!
JohnDeCaux
Took me a while before I listened
JohnDeCaux
I hope he comes to realise what his doing, the only person that can change it is him. Thank you so much for your support
JohnDeCaux
I hope he comes to realise what his doing, the only person that can change it is him. Thank you so much for your support
pelusita35
From your Lips to God's ears. I hope one day he is like you!
JohnDeCaux
Me too
VictusVonGuyver
Dude, you have no idea how proud this makes me. Was raised by a drunk. I can tell you, for the sake of yourself and family, this is great.
JohnDeCaux
Also thank you so much for your support
JohnDeCaux
I so glad I made the chance before we move into the next steps of life such as having kids.
VictusVonGuyver
That's what I wanted to hear. =)
nowthisusernameistaken
What's the 16th month?
pickinganameistoomuchpressure
Thats how drunk he was when he decided it was time to change
JohnDeCaux
Other then the US most countries write the date DD/MM/YY
BirdDogFunk
Congrats!!! We are less than a week apart on sobriety dates. Keep up the good work.
JohnDeCaux
Nice work!! So samn proud of you!!
JohnDeCaux
Damn*
Bopjick
I'm 26 years, 1 month, 5 days sober OP. But grats to you
TheGiantTater
JohnDeCaux
Great work! I'm so proud of you!!
TheDinger
21 years and some change for me. Odd part is I work in the liquor industry and everyone finds it weird I don't drink
MagChem
You must have some serious will power. That's like having a compulsive eating addiction and working in a bakery.
whoopsywoo
Jesus fucking credit man, you looked awful. Dont ever drink again.
acidjizz
Credit on a cracker!
JohnDeCaux
I don't plan too!
Pexie
I personally think you look incredibly handsome in both pictures. Maybe it's just because I am a sucker for beards, but glad you're healthy!
JohnDeCaux
Haha thank you!
Fluffycorn
Why are you counting in 7 pairs ??
JohnDeCaux
Weeks ;)
Fluffycorn
..... oh ... :! Why didnt I see that . . .
JohnDeCaux
It's ok, It was a bit strange
Fluffycorn
No, it makes totally sense! I just thought in months when I looked at the list.... so yeah
JohnDeCaux
Ok cool
MyRegularAcctIsntAnonymousEnough
i thought it was gonna be about how erratic your handwriting had become under sobriety … but your story is more positive
JohnDeCaux
I've always had bad hand writing!
Mehhhhh69
Are you a doctor?
JohnDeCaux
I should be with my handwriting the way it is
JohnDeCaux
I should be with my handwriting the way it is
MisterTrashPanda
But you did just that... Nicely weaseled in there lol
MyRegularAcctIsntAnonymousEnough
;-)
JohnDeCaux
Also thank you!
AlmightyDiapahbetusGarlicGerbil
Days sober: 9125. Alcohol was never really "pretty pretty shiny shiny" to me so I never really paid attention to it..
ProjectKurtz
I never got addicted to it somehow, despite partying hard for a couple years. I still drink on rare occasion with no problems.
Wowerus
First pic age 30+ second pic age 15+
percula1869
That's not even an exaggeration .
algavinn
If I shave off my beard I look 15. That's how beards work. Reverse time machine.
thyfartismurder
Its the beard
AimlessSavant
Alcohol therapists hate him, find out why!
FreeHandBrain
The same thing happens on the inside! You can see how much healthier you are and how much better you feel. Congrats to all who can sober up
MichaelMcShwanagan
Sobriety is the fountain of youth !
rainbowabsolutglass
Wow. Who knew I'd never want to drink out of it.
AdmJota
That's why he stopped drinking. He's not of legal age anymore.
AwkwardLee
Benjamin Button IRL
JohnDeCaux
Haha!!
upvotehypnotoad
Go with the trimmed scruff
themuttonisniceandlean
He's not wrong though. You look way younger! Great going, OP!
JohnDeCaux
Thank you so much!
DigitalMau
quitting alcohol definitely did you a lot of good on your appearance, you kinda looked like an orangutan before
JohnDeCaux
Haha thanks
PaliQ
At least you can grow a beard to look older! I had a lady think I was 16 last month. I'm 29!!!
Wowerus
I have the same issue when shaving. Keep up the good work and congrats being sober!
JohnDeCaux
Thank you!
Plague10
11/16/12 for me brother keep up the good work!
Summersky
I thought you were talking about age progression in photos since you stopped drinking. I was like whoa that's a crazy scale. Smh
JohnDeCaux
So damn proud of you!!!
Plague10
Dude Proud of you man!!!
IncognitoCactus42
Well I'm proud of both of you
highonflakka
Andthentheyfucked.jpg
melissaDH
Proud of you @op !
JohnDeCaux
Thank you!
LavaLamp55
16/6/16?
JohnDeCaux
Most place other then the US write the date DD/MM/YY ;)
reverseblumpkin
He also expressed his weight loss in terms of kilos instead of pounds.
doomTREE
I was 7 months with out drinking........but life hits hard sometime and now im 12 hours with out drinking
ninjato229
Buddy, I spent a year drinking when I watched my wife drive away with my son and my dog in my car after she divorced me. Life gets better.
noomunderscoretv
Dont give up. Use the tools you have to find the support you need. If you dont have the tools. Reach out and find them
sonianosia
you can do it! stay strong!
pelusita35
Good luck! You understand you have a problem and are working to fix it. You will succeed!!!!
30Jonseredi
Drinking now and then is completely fine. The need to restrain from alcohol doesn't mean you have a problem with alcohol but yourself
Astrius
It's not terrible to fall off the wagon, it happens. I fall off weekly, but never go on binges anymore. It's a start
knifeskills
Sometimes sobriety comes in seconds and minutes. For cravings? Pray alot and eat oranges dipped in honey! You CAN do this!!!
Jallenallen
If you want to talk let me know. I haven't had a drink in two and a half years and believe me it gets better.
doomTREE
Thanks means a lot
JohnDeCaux
Kept at it! Just get through the next 12 hours.
Corki
how do you quit drinking when it is the only thing in your shitty day you can look forward to to relax and not feel like shit?
JohnDeCaux
Because I was feeling shity because I had being drinking the night before
Thefa11engamer
You can do it, I believe in you!
doomTREE
Thanks man! This post definitely made it easier not picking up the bottle.
JohnDeCaux
I'm glad it could help! You can do it, I believe in you
XZorbys
I'll be sober a year next month. Probably will drink again in the future though. Just needed a break
ImHereForTheHaHa
I hope you find much more pride in your seven months and do not dwell on one decision. Stay strong friend!
TheUnsolicitedDuckPic
Love this comment
doomTREE
Thanks! I never really thought about but it like that. Your comment really made me think twice before picking up the bottle to night
BlahBlahMeatEater
It's not the falling that's important. It's all on how you pick yourself back up.
Codered97
That's the damn truth. Fall 10 times, get back up 11. You're not done until you say you're done.
doomTREE
Thanks! Your comment was just what I needed to get me through the rest of the day
acme64
is your nick in reference to the rap group? cuz they're AMAZING
doomTREE
Haha yes it in reference to the rap group!! Im glad someone here knows them
acme64
bruh, Dessa is life
TheGiantTater
Confession time: not drinking made me less social, and sitting at home alone. It's a vicious cycle...
buttonfly
I feel this, gotta find other ways to connect! http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6506936
smaxor
Go to an AA meeting. You'll meet a lot of people, hear their stories on struggles & success to drop booze from their life. It's a big help.
XZorbys
Yeah same. Spend a lot less money though and goto the gym daily
doomTREE
Definitely know that feeling, especially if all your friends drink and you can't go out with me because the temptation is there.
acme64
well the problem is drinking in excess. a few beers is acceptable, the real challenge is setting a limit. Isee why cold turkey or bust works
exguerrero
For some there is no excess :(
PetuniasFromMagrathea
Are you the creator of the food in your posts?
Salzab
http://imgur.com/user/JohnDeCaux/submitted holycow on a plate, glad I looked. Do you run a restaurant? If not why?
JohnDeCaux
Yep :)
FlamboyantTitans
You look like you smell like a dried onion flakes and flatbread. That's not an insult btw
reanbean
Yep all that food looks amazing. And screw whoever downvoted one of your creations. It all looks delicious.
JohnDeCaux
Thank you!!!
W0ND0
What's your ultimate steak sandwich?
JohnDeCaux
There's a post on my profile ;)
DarkBusterBaron
I looked at them and cried they look amazing.
JohnDeCaux
Thank you :)
wizzobidoof
How the heck did you manage to LOSE weight while being able to create such good looking food
wraithdragon
He stopped drinking booze.....
SocratesPhilosophy
1-congrats on the sobriety. 2- saw the food posts, wow, def gonna inspect in detail
JohnDeCaux
Thank you! There's a ton of recipes on the YouTube channel
SocratesPhilosophy
Awesome. Thanks in advance
eyebelieveanything
Jesus Christ man!!! If you don't own a restaurant already, you should... You could sling this shit out of a food truck in the bay, get rich
JohnDeCaux
It's a pipe dream ;) working up to it, starting with my recipe videos
wizzobidoof
How the heck did you manage to LOSE weight while being able to create such good looking food?
JohnDeCaux
Not sure haha
JuliaVT
It's getting rid of alcohol :P good on you, keep cooking!
JohnDeCaux
Thanks!!!
PetuniasFromMagrathea
Wow. As a 10+ year vegan I'm impressed as hell. That's damn fine looking cooking, sir.
Numerobofis
found the vegan
JohnDeCaux
Thank you that means a lot to hear!
NoRoomForVegetarians
Don't trust him
PetuniasFromMagrathea
Ha ha
RotationOfTheEarth
well atleast people know you're vegan
fathogwrestler
If he keeps dropping the KG, he won't be a vegan for long.
TheFabulousFuehrer
Don't be a dick. That was a valid mention.
arkangelbb
*triggered vegan*