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I love him, but sex feels like a chore. The mere concept of sex completely grosses me out. Why on earth would I want him licking me out? Sounds incredibly awkward & uncomfortable for both parties. I'm 21 y/o and have never experienced an orgasm. Any suggestions? I really don't want to be asexual :/
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Fuzzynubz
EcstaticBagel
Wasn't trying to be sarcastic, now I just sound like an idiot
perkdrip
Hahaha! Don't worry about it, bro.
SendMeAllTheMemes
Either find someone who's also asexual or learn what you like.
aginglikeapotato
It's awkward early on. Explore and find out what you like. It doesn't have to be him going down on you. It can be anything.
theuniverseissobigthatnothinginitmatterssowhogivesasquanch
I don't think you get to pick if you're asexual or not. Let him sleep with your friends or something. I'm just spit balling here.
JustYourNormalEverydayAsshole
It'll eventually happen. A young dude isn't going to waste his whole life not having sex.
ocelot77
Get married. It'll feel normal then.
DaneJ8
Find what does it for you. If you're not interested you're not interested but maybe you just haven't found what works for you yet.
CamelbackJack
Think about different things, try different types of fantasies. If you ever get a tingle, explore that with him.
Huhwhatcrazy
Buy and try every sex toy under the sun till you cum
Chechesaurio
:,(
aginglikeapotato
He is trying to make you feel as good as he feels when you go down on him. What turns you on can however be completely different. Explore
exblazer
You are missing the opportunity to discover and enjoy sex with someone you love. You should try and decide.
StrawberryPrincess92
Orgasm. See if you like it.
NotThatJoeYouKnow
look for a reputable expert source of advice on sex and this will probably be in the frequently asked questions section
FPV270
Obviously he's not doing a good job in the bedroom then, sit down with him a Google how to find the clitoris.
swingkatd
Check out Ohjoysextoy.com. They do sexual health/advice as well as sex toy reviews. Some of those might trigger something.
skybejef
Then move on.
DarkGnosis
Men fake relationships to get sex, women fake sex to get relationships. Start faking. Or get a little "bullet" vibrator, smoke pot, orgasm