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Sorry for the long post but i want to get this out to someone. I started dating this girl and when she would get drunk she would basically try to sleep with anything with a heartbeat. After about 8 months of dating and her spending time with my friends (i wasnt invited out with her friends) she ended up making out with one of my friends while black out drunk while i was using the bathroom. Fast forward about a week later and my friend told me that she pushed herself on him and also sent him nudes through snapchat a few days later. Now i really apreciate honesty and the fact that he told me speaks volumes to me. So i told him we were cool and everything. I tried ending things with her about 4 months ago when this happened and she basically told me she would destroy my car if i left her. I have been talking with her and stayed there for her up until new years day. But part of my resolution is to end all my toxic and abusive relationships so i can get in a better mental state. So i left, and even through the crappy days at work and through life, my days are starting starting to turn good. I'm feeling better, taking more care of myself and also spending more time with the friends who care about me.
Tl;dr i broke up with my abusive and controlling girlfriend and I'm finally in a great mental state and doing so much better.
Spammanduh
I went through something very similar and as soon as I removed myself, amazing things started happening for me. Be strong! It’s worth it!
VodkaReindeer
So is she single?
fionajane
congrats dude! Great way to start the new year! I ended an abusive relationship this year. Best decision.
belovedlover
I knew it's good to be lonerYou couldn't feel
turkturkleton651
Don't stick your dick in crazy.
heizu10000
Change your passwords, accounts, cards, door key, ...
Kliban
You deserve all sorts of praise here. This is next level adulting, and you did it! Don’t ever forget this process - it’ll serve you forever.
runtheday81
Leaving is never easy but you did the right thing. She sounds like an asshole.
cunninglinguist85
haleybirdw18
Good for you!
messmor
johnnakay
1 month out of an abusive relationship, and it’s hard , but getting easier daily.
KDC0982
My friend's abuser left her and she is sad, im hoping he stays gone so she can get better too.
Nrpain
so did she fuck up your car ?
tailoredefehse1
"The best payback is living living well"
OhFlip
Good for you, OP. Nobody deserves to be in a relationship like that. Sounds like you have a good friend, too.
308Marksman
More power to you man. Hope everything goes alright for you from now on.
thespiritofadventure
I may getting broken-up with this weekend...and I'm just so damn glad no guy will ever be able to say all this crazy shit about me.
KittyMathafurrkah
date a hoe what you expected?, go for the STD check dude
HPfan0816
911 dispatcher here. If she tries to destroy any of your belongings or threatens you file for a civil protection order. If she violates
HPfan0816
It then she can be arrested!
yzrocketman
Put your car in the garage!
azzy48
Beet feet my friend..toxic indeed..best of luck..lord knows I'm gonna need it too..
toetag
Good on you!
macnchiez
Thank you, it took me a few months to work up the courage to leave. Abuse is not only towards women, it happens to men too
NotAMale
So ... you single?
supercalifrajelisticexpealidocious
Vissari
All the pics are of dogs she's a dog look out!
MayaMacabre
I find this kind of weird because I literally just did the same a day or two ago and im having a reall hard time sleeping or getting
KDC0982
It gets better with time. Be patient with that. Don't go back just to ease the pain. It will just be more of the same. You gotta heal.
MayaMacabre
Motivated. Which is shitty because we are still seperating. This gives me hope that ill feel better eventually. Oh and the loneliness.
GiveMeAllThePizza
It will get better, promise.
Yenismyhomie
I think Offspring wrote a song about this.
AndrewCanadian
All the girlies say I'm pretty fly for a white guy.
unsweetmelissa
Self Esteem
bitemark
You have to hit the caps lock for posting Offspring lyrics: I WROTE HER OFF FOR THE TENTH TIME TODAY
baronswung
I took her back and made her dessert
stabthecrab
Drunk again and looking to score
JPRiddles
When she's saying oh that she wants only me then I wonder why she sleeps with my friends
PuppyDontCare
My friend's got a girlfriend man he hates that bitch, he tells me everyday
Yenismyhomie
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Abrn8aVQ76Q
HeroThatWasNeeded
Hmm.
PuppyDontCare
YOU ARE RIIIIIIGHT it was this song! "i know she's playing with meeeee but that's ok cause I gaot no sel esteeeee"
Deadmanwalkn
They hate each other in that song lol
PuppyDontCare
Yeah it was the other one, "Self esteem"
FourthCause
I fucking hate that song. It's the only offspring song the radio will play in my area
defabs86
ended things with my gf a month ago. she cheated on me with my best friend but begged me to take her back. i did and we were together
defabs86
for a while after that. she did change and things were okay. but it slowly ate me alive. it still does. even after that she still was
defabs86
terrible to me when she’d get drunk. she would say so many hurtful things and was just so up and down. but now that it’s over i still feel
defabs86
so terrible. good to hear someone is doing better. i’m not. i hope no one has to feel what i felt and what i’m feeling.
lighterletter
Be good to yourself, you more than anyone deserves your own kindness n respect. Things like that hurt less when you know you deserve better
HarryHamwallet
did she try and say she didn't remember the things she said while drunk, or that it didn't count because she was drunk and didn't mean it
defabs86
yea she says she doesn’t remember. i’ll never forget what she said. keeps me up at night and provides invasive thoughts that ruin everyday
Vantie
It's the feeling of betrayal, ain't it mate? Or what was it, that did it for you? I've tried the same thing, unfortunaly, that's why i
defabs86
yea it’s the betrayal. just knowing she was with someone else. it made me feel less of myself. it really does take control of your thoughts
FreakyFerguson
Why do people put up with so much torment so early in a relationship? You are under no obligation to take abuse, especially not immediately.
badintensions42
Because the sex is usually really, really good.
Lulabel73
Some people think they can “save” a person or are afraid they would be considered a bad/selfish person for leaving.
dmay1210
Especially, not ever!
justpointingouttheobvious
Low self esteem.
IRandomycommentinJapanese
Because some people, like myself, who only find one partner every 10 years or so are not confident enough to go "screw this, I'm out"
IAmInGreatPainPleaseHelpMe
Because you convince yourself one day you can replicate how you first felt when you started dating. It's a lie, but a convincing one.
NintendoSupport
When one wears rose tinted glasses, all the red flags look white
PuppyDontCare
-I want to break up -I'l break your car -You made a valid point, let's stay together
stalledmoon2390
Well at least it's just a vehicle and not anything like say her own life
dan123dbl
pktfratboy
Maybe it's a bitch'n car like a dodge challenger or a ford raptor or a ford focus rs or a jeep wrangler rubicon.
NickRivieraMD
everybody's young once
Lulabel73
People do this their whole life.
NickRivieraMD
And there's a lot of research to show why some people do that. But I don't think that's the situation in this case.
Lulabel73
That’s true. Let’s hope he learns from this
narniasreal
even cthulhu?
NickRivieraMD
Has cthulhu really been far even as decided to use even go want do look more like?
narniasreal
Are you having a stronk?
NickRivieraMD
https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/has-anyone-really-been-far-even-as-decided-to-use-even-go-want-to-do-look-more-like
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
Maybe some people are used to being treated badly by someone when they were growing up, so it doesn't seem so bad at first? I grew up in /1
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
a very loving and supportive family, and at the first hint of this kind of thing it would feel so wrong that I'd get out of there. But /2
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
not everyone has that advantage of learning so early how you should accept being treated. They have to come by it the hard way, and some /3
InkyBlinkyPinkyAndClyde
never can learn. /4
EatsBees
Love is blind :/