Lost my dad today. I need your help Imgur

Feb 9, 2017 9:56 PM

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I don't need upvotes. I just need words. I've never lost anyone like this before.

Thanks for the support everyone. I don't live near anyone I can really be with right now. Just reading helps.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Imgur is your dad now.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Peace and love, friend.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just take it a day at a time. You'll be back in your feet and even stronger because that's what he wants from you.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well did you find him?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

It's not going to get any easier, but you are going to get better at it...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

People say it gets easier with time. You'll think for a long time that's bullshit but they're right,but only if you work through the grief.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm not sure if I am capable of expressing emotions or sadness if I ever lost close to me...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Also, you have my condolences. Hope you will get better over time.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

These things happen, whether we want them to or not. Think about all the good times you had with him and how much you love him. 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

2/2 Things are going to get better, remember that. Don't let yourself get down in the dumps about this.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Internet hug and prayer for you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry @op. Just message me if you need a friend!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm so sorry @op. We're here for you.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's hurting now, it's going to keep on hurting, that won't change right away, and that's okay-you're going to pull through

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It will feel like the world.moves on to quick. But don't let that rush you. Grieve.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This one might knock the wind further from you, but honesty is best here: if you've got home movies, keep those safe with all your life.

9 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

After losing my dad, I wanted to hear his voice, to the point where I'd call his phone; so it'd be easier to have them before you NEED them.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Words will only help so much. Take time to grieve, but also focus on the life he lived and the impact it had, not just that he's gone.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Live on and be greater for him and for yourself. I'm sorry for your loss

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Get a therapist. Someone you won't feel like you have to apologize to for talking about Dad all the time.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Remember the good times and the small things that were marked you the most; take a rest & grieve. Pick yourself up and honor him. RIP, pops

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My dad commited suicide 2 months before I was born. I'm sorry for your loss but you'll always have the memories.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Nobody exists on purpose, no-one belongs anywhere, come watch TV - Morty Smith

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My grandmother, crying over my grandfathers lifeless body, whispered to him "its over for you, you have nothing to worry about anymore"

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Idk, made me feel better

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

did you look behind the couch thats where mine was

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

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9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My dad passed away last October. Stay strong for the loved ones you have and always keep his memory with you and he'll never be gone.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Remember all the good times with him the things he taught you the ridiculous jokes. Don't dwell on could haves and should haves. It's what

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Helps me.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Remember to just keep breathing, even when it feels physically impossible. One day the sun will shine again <3

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Can't find the original, but here's a copy to read: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/1wzcaj/comment/cf6s51b

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You grief is in proportion to the love you feel for your dad. I am sorry for your loss.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's pretty heavy. My condolences. What was he like? Any dad jokes?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

He loved cars. Speed racer was his favorite. Some of the best dad jokes. He made so many puns

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