Why is this okay?

Mar 6, 2016 12:00 PM

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To all the people who share these kinda motivational "take me as I am" pics...

"It all depends on you." What about YOU? Have you no sense of responsibility in a relationship? It's normal to have a temperament you know. Everybody has feelings. And who wants a loyal soldier? I know I want love and respect. But I know it's my own god damn job to make sure that my loved ones respects me as much as I respect them. With kindness. It's all about love with respect towards one another.
Now. If I turn the tables...

Is this okay?

Or just creepy and sinister like all the fudge in the world...?

Would you think it's charming and quirky if men started making and sharing pictures like these? Or just wrong and ill tempered? Cause' I can promise you. That is how most men look at your cute little "monstervational posters".

Now, I ask you. If your partner suddenly one day managed to hurt you, or step on your feelings, in any way. What is the right response?

"Fuck you! Eat shit and die! Don't even fucking look at me! I'll rip your ugly face off!"

or...

"Why did you do that...? Is something wrong? Do you need to talk about something? I'm here for you, always, and I listen."

True love elevates above it's own hurt. And it reasons. Through understanding you will find what you're looking for. Not anger and resentment.

My lovely cat, Tigger! (cat tax)

I thought we just used this for people that post crap like that?

10 years ago | Likes 146 Dislikes 3

Basically every profile on a dating site

10 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 0

Because people like to brag about being badasses until the shit hits the fan and they break down. That and they think they're more important

10 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 1

I read loyal as a spider; then spent ten minutes looking for the deeper meaning...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Is this facebook?

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Works for both gender equally

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

This is just that Marilyn Monroe quote bullshit. Instant red flag.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's reactionary and a way to not take responsibility for your actions. Your mate's mood should not change who you are.

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Your cats nose looks like a man with a very majestic white beard and crazy eyebrows.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If you can't eat pinecones out mah a-bomb, then you not ready to meet my wife.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

same with the "I'll follow you everywhere" bullshit, don't fucking follow me, join me and let's make decisions together!!

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Lol. I know the girl in that first picture. She's cute, but a total twit

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Really attractive people -- male and female -- often get away with selfish behavior. This will not change.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

My Facebook is covered in this type of crap.

10 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Time to clean out the friends list?

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That's a bit hard when it's mostly in-laws. :/ I did delete the app off my phone.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I wouldn't give these people the time of day.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Was planning to downvoting, then read the rest. +1 Vindictiveness has no place in modern society.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This is worse than the original picture

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

+10 for "monstervational"

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Should have posted the text on the cat, too

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Thank u so much for saying that. It made my day. I'm tired of seeing this nonsense everywhere. U put it perfectly.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

needed to be done.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Love it! xD

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One of the problems with social media is that idiots can fall into the trap of thinking they're philosophers.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This sounds more like late teens-early 20's to me. This is no different than "I'm brutally honest," which is code for "I am an asshole."

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Mean as fuck" isnt really a description though. How is a fuck mean. Obviously candy is sweet. Gah this stupid shit.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I have wondered why being an ass ha become acceptable. I treat people how I want to be treated. If you are rude I stay away.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Everyone should be able to be an ass, just as everyone should be able to comment on the behaviour

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Everyone should be able to be an ass, just as everyone should be able to comment on the behaviour

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I got downvoted for giving this same advice. People want to do what they want but also want other people to treat them nicely.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's almost like, and follow me here, communication is key.

10 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 5

WHAT'D YOU SAY I CAN'T HEAR YOU

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

COMM-UN-I-ah fuck it.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

True love is unconditional, and it takes a strong person to commit to it. The ACTUAL unconditional part takes a lifetime to master.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Even true love has it's limits.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

True. Cheating destroys the bonds of almost every love that a person is capable of having. Even Christ condones divorce in that case.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I mean, there are probably SOME conditions. Not taking everything I own and running away to Mexico with your lover, Manuel, might be one.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Well, there's a "no cheating" clause, even in Biblically defined marriage. If it's mutual unconditional love, cheating is nearly impossible.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I don't think romantic love should be unconditional. You can want the best for someone without putting up with their unhealthy shit forever

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

"Unconditional love" is a promise made at a wedding. It's deeper than "romantic" love, and it's definitely different from "in love."

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

"If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best." - George Washington

10 years ago | Likes 195 Dislikes 5

Ha ha! If someone expects others "to just put up with them" when they're at their worst, they can just fuck right off :)

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"If you can't handle me at my best, Wu-Tang Clan ain't nothin' to fuck wit' nigga" -Benjamin Franklin

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

"I handled you at your worst. Now I don't want you anymore." - some guy on internet

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yeah, but your worst is really really bad, and your best is just ok. Bye.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

" 'If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best." - George Washington" - Bill Nye quoting George Washington

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If you dont want me at my doodliest, you cant handle me at my toodliest. -mr. Skeltal

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

I feel like that was Abraham Lincoln

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I thought that was a quote from Jesus. No?

10 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 2

Jesus was known for saying "Well, I had me a boy, turned him into a man, I showed him all the things that he didn't understand, whoa"

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well now you're all just making shit up.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

All those single moms on facebook are bitter about their baby daddies leaving them

10 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 8

This is so true, I never even noticed! Almost all of the people that share these on my fb are single moms.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Your username intrigues me

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As does yours o.o

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Can confirm: all my single mom friends post these like a drug habit. ..but I have found some of the single men just as bad with

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Yeah I bet, those "tell you how I am" posts are a bit much on facebook

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

the woman hating/ bashing bullshit as well.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's.... just sad. wtf.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's just one of many I've currently got on my pg from a butt hurt male who just lost his gf.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh shit lol I just saw that one yesterday from the same guy!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0