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(originally posted by @maximilianfragglebottom on 2019-09-09 21:44:29)

Yup, my friend was 15/16 and constantly dating dudes 25-30. Still sketches me out.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

Hm I told my at the time 15 y/o cousin I thought she was mature for her age cause she had well thought out opinions on political and

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Social issues. She actually got clingy to me in a manner of speaking and I had to shoo her away, like calling me at 3am on a work night

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Cause there was a tornado warning and she was scared or just generally nervous about college. I ended up talking with her mom and told her

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

To calm down a bit. Established boundaries etc. she’s 17 now and probably the smartest teen I know and think she’ll do great things.

6 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Context matters to some degree. Grown men need to see the signs as well so they don’t get classified as a predator and tell young girls

6 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

To back off.

6 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

It is always good to contemplate why someone might not have friends/romantic attachments their own age...

6 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 1

Hey man, I moved and havent found anyone my age. I dont know how to make friends anymore :((((((((

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Dude me too. All the way across the country. I have 3 dogs and no idea what would happen if I were alone.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

“Under 18” is a key phrase here. I was so confused why someone going for an adult was being “a predator”.

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 6

If it’s repeated advances after being turned down, any aged person can be a predator.

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

6 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

Thank you, thought I was the only one that felt this was one of the more fucked up parts of this movie.

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Which movie?

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Pineapple Express. Seth Rogan’s character is a grown man dating a highschooler. But he’s supposed to be a loser so it’s intentionally creepy

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I was 17 and groomed by a 32 yr old...he was massively abusive

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

Sister was dating a guy in jail when she was 16 and he was in his mid-twenties. He was an abusive parasite that preyed on the whole family.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm a health education teacher and I keep telling my classes why would a guy out of high school want to hang out with u and not their peers

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 3

purely devil's advocate : My peers were all dumbasses. I'd have welcomed competent company from anybody.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well it's like 14 year girls hanging out with 23 year old guys. Imbalance of power. 10yr age gap less a problem when girl is in her 20s.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Character limit makes this difficult, I have a sex positive classroom, it's really about recognising people's motives.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Classmate when I was 15yr old; She'd fake I'D her way into clubs & get w/ older guys.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

When I was 16 a 30 Y/O guy was writing me love letters and asking me out. My step mum handled it amazingly and said the same thing to me.

6 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

When I met my now wife she told me she was 17 turning 18. I was 20 at the time. Found out later she was actually 16. When I found out the..

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Truth I slammed the brakes, parked, jumped out the car and phoned her parents asking if they understood the age difference...

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

(In case she had lied to them as well) They said they knew and they were ok with us going out. I was pretty upset and wouldnt physically

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Engage with her for months after and didnt have sex until she was turning 18.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

At 18 its legal, but weird unless it's a long-lasting relationship. Stepmom/dad met when she was 18. 17 year age gap. Together 16 years now.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Granted, she is the only reason he finally grew up and got his life together. She may only be 7 years older than me but she is 100% my mom.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Its a weird-ass situation, sure. But I'll be damned if I take that woman for granted.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yes! Please tell your daughters they are worth more than a sleazy old guy who buys them shit.

6 years ago | Likes 242 Dislikes 8

Are they though?

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 10

If the had been told that earlier they may never have accepted his BS to start. Build them up☺️ from start.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Am I though? Lol

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Some of these blokes. Ah he treats you so good with all the Newports you can smoke and a goodwill stroller to push down the side of the road

6 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

Does that job come with benefits?

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Yes, newports and stroller. Can't you read? No wonder.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Yeah, prolly food stamps and section 8 housing if you're lucky

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Dunno how those creeps stand teenagers

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

There was a guy named Shae in Sanger Tx that never had a girlfriend over the age of fifteen the whole time I lived there, and he was like 24

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

It was the same for me in high school. Girls wanted a college boyfriend. Once you get to college, you realise who those guys are

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As a woman who was 14 when she was preyed on by a 23 yr old. I wish someone had told me this back then.

6 years ago | Likes 123 Dislikes 1

HARD. SAME.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What do you think the 14 y/o you would have needed to hear, and in what tone of voice?

6 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

Words wouldn't have done the trick. They DIDN'T do the trick. Kids do as they see, not as they're told.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I needed a positive role model, and a means of building up my self confidence and worth. Hard gym work have me a sense of autonomy and self

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Dependence. Hiking, camping fishing, woodworking, and diving into practical passions.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

14yr old me would have liked her mother to listen to her instead of being obsessed with her work and saying “no” to every request She made

6 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

But if your mum would have said she forbids you from seeing him because hes too old and its wrong..would you as a 14 year old have listened?

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

The point is to educate why it's wrong & the way it's predatory. Pointing out the "your mature for your age" makes it more of an alarm than-

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

A lure. Especially teenagers need to be taught why and learn how to make educated decisions because they will try to decide for themselves

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

She never even tried to have that conversation

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Alright, but the question is if you, as a 14 year old, would have listened. Because I remember myself with 14, if it was forbidden.....

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I sympathize with you

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I reported a 24 year old going out with a 14 year old classmate, she hated me for it but apologised years later and thanked me.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

They are sexualizing the fuck out of her in this photo.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Gentleman's rule is half your age add 7 minimum

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

nice side-effect: new partner every two years.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ha yeah keep that honeymoon period alive

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Even when I was a clueless teenager I instinctual felt the predatory miasma emitted by college students "dating" 16 year olds at my school.

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 1

Well that really depends because you are 18-19 starting college. it’s a reasonable age gap when they could have went to high school together

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That topic is in full swing and all but these guys were probably 25 or so.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah for sure, that’s disgusting but 16-20 is a valid age range for high school.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Actually ... I recently have realised I was groomed and taken advantage of at 17 by a woman in her 30s... So this applies to them too...

6 years ago | Likes 79 Dislikes 8

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6 years ago (deleted Sep 9, 2020 12:53 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

There are ways out. There are helplines & people in ur close community to help. If ur not in a safe, healthy place I hope u can get one soon

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh man... I'm so sorry. I wish I could help you

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

What does 'groomed' mean in this context?

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

I've known this woman since I was 4. She kissed me when I was 17 and then continued to bait me until I was 19.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I had a 2 yr affair with her from that pt.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Obviously it was and continues to be a secret from everyone in our lives. She's married and was married throughout too. And knows my parents

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She brushes his hair

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Yeah, that's why I was like what does grooming has to do with any of this?

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm a woman.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"You had a sexy phase?" /s

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Are you for real?? I'm a lesbian.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I should have paid more attention to your username.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Basically building an emotional connection and preparing them in subtle ways to build up to sexual activity.

6 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

So, like the normal courtship period?

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 13

People please stop downvoting. I wasn't being sarcastic or normalising/support it. I was genuinely curious but the explanation wasn't enough

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No, it's more insidious than that. Not just because they're preparing a child to be molested, but because they're planting the seeds of

6 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 0

secrecy and normalcy as well.

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

This is important to discuss...predators thrive on shame and secrecy. If a relationship makes you feel Shane frequently it's not healthy :(

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I was being groomed by a 27yo I met online at 13. Advanced to phone calls for a bit before my mum shut it down. I didn't even realise how

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

messed up it had been until I was well and truly an adult myself.

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

You're mum got your back! The awful thing is you didn't talk about it at the time... Realising as an adult is good, realising as a 13-14 to>

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

>> could have protected you from it happening again. Good on your mum anyway!!

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I actually called her to say thank you to her for the first time regarding this. She was a fairly young, single mum, and struggled with how

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

to handle this sort of stuff. I've certainly never held that against her, although she holds it against herself. I know she did her best.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I was 15 when I got with my husband, who was 20 at the time. Been together 10 years. But I would consider this a normal thing....

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

Wouldnt* consider this normal...

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

When I was 13, a friend in our group was dating a 23 year old dude. She was 12. At the time, I was *jealous.* Looking back is awful.

6 years ago | Likes 1071 Dislikes 4

you were not jealous, you were envious. english mate, learn it.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 13

Holy fuck, isn't that super illegal? It is where I live.

6 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 1

It is in here too but usually the girls are so embarrassed about the bad stuff nobody tells the adults. Also very easy to threaten 13yo kids

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Yeah, I see that problem; some are also just so 'flattered' by the attention that they willingly do as told. Dangerous stuff.

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

When I was 19 I dated a 16yo. She dumped me for a 32yo.

6 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 2

In my school all the "cool girls" dated guys in their late 20s. It was weird

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

How did she turn out? Did you remain friends in high school?

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

My schoolmate became heavily religious in her teens, I have no idea what happened to her afterwards.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Well you were 13. By definition you can't be expected to make the right choices in that situation.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

A dude in my highschool was dating a 4th grader

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 4

That’s not dating, that’s pedophilia.

6 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 1

When I was 13 I was still playing with toys lol wtf man. Is this common in your area?

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

My friend dated a 45 year old man when she was 15. I met her about 3 months after they broke up and it was a fucked up time.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

How do people even get convinced to enter relationships like that?

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

No father figure, enticement of gifts, secret knowledge, implied maturity,safety/security, repeating patterns of abuse, Sexual gratification

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

i remember seeing the girls I was friends with doing this shit and just feeling so bad about it...

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I was more focused on LEGO than girls at that age...

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah I remember a few instances of this. Many of the "cool" girls dated grown ass men when they were like 12 and 13. It's fucked up.

6 years ago | Likes 174 Dislikes 1

I remember being in middle school, the popular girl had a BF 19/20 who had a new mustang GT convertible. we were 13/14. gross then.

6 years ago | Likes 71 Dislikes 1

Yeah, in middle school a girl had a 19 year old boyfriend. Even at 12 my ass knew that shit was weird.

6 years ago | Likes 54 Dislikes 1

When I was 14-15 I was targeted and abused by a 27 year old man.

6 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 2

I'm so sorry that happened. You didn't deserve that.

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Thank you, out of everything he did to me the thing that has lasted the longest was him asking me if I was sure I was a virgin.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Bwuh? I mean, that seems like the kind of thing everybody should be relatively sure about. Weird.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I was an active little girl and didn't have a hyman by the time I started going through puberty. I don't know maybe he was hoping I'd bleed.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh hell, I'm so sorry. He's a fucking monster.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Can't say I've ever been fond of men named Chad ever since. Life is messy and we get hurt. Learning to live afterwards is the important part

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

One of my classmates became suicidal after being w/ a 20yo. We were 13 at the time. He dumped her after sleeping w/ her a few times.

6 years ago | Likes 313 Dislikes 2

What the actual fuck

6 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 1

You mean raped her

6 years ago | Likes 248 Dislikes 9

thank you captain obvious

6 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 113

they weren’t explaining what happened; they were correcting word choice

6 years ago | Likes 48 Dislikes 1

And using those words normalizes what is and absolutely should be called a rape. But hey, I’m preaching to the choir

6 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 4

so they were explaining what happened then weren't they. dingus

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 10

Samesies. He also drugged her with alcohol and painkillers to have his way with her. Dumped her when she got pregnant for another 14 yo.

6 years ago | Likes 69 Dislikes 1

Correction: we were 12-13 at the time. He went for a year older girl.

6 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

Wow. What a Fucking scumbag. I hope he's in jail.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

He's not as far as I know, not for this particular case at least.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...and now he's the POTUS

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My friend was 14 and started dating someone 25-26 years old. Once our "circle" got news we made a stink till she broke up with him.

6 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

The youngest age you "should" date: half your age +7. The old age you "should" date: your age -7, then double it.

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 8

This is more what is socially seen as acceptable. And only really works from the age of 18 (to keep things legal, well at least in the UK)

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

In my opinion it works starting at 14. If you're 14 date 14. The margins widen as you age.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Why should my 4 year old be dating 9 year olds? Riddle me that!

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Nah. Start the formula at 14, otherwise it's bogus. It's also just a silly formula and not meant to be serious.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

A friend from high school had lost her virginity to a 30 year-old man. She was 13 at the time.

6 years ago | Likes 103 Dislikes 1

Same story but she was 15. Still really gross

6 years ago | Likes 41 Dislikes 1

That’s rape

6 years ago | Likes 195 Dislikes 7

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6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

as a sophomore a girl in my class dumped her bf to date his dad. ended up pregnant and mysteriously changed schools

6 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

You mean "high school student". Boys are preyed upon just as girls.

6 years ago | Likes 139 Dislikes 56

The scary thing is you might be right but because boys don't talk as openly and honestly this isn't known. Teach children to trust so that>

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

> they trust enough to disclose abuse. Or something weird or unusual that they don't realise is abuse.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Stop your effing whining

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 18

Yeah, but mainly by teachers....no? /s

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 8

No, it’s usually random guys.

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Agreed and it’s not necessary a heterosexual relationship too.

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Yeahhhhh. Not at the same level. I get it, buuutttt. The # of girls vs # of boys would sugg girls need the help more.

6 years ago | Likes 123 Dislikes 41

Speaking as another guy, I'm kind of repulsed at the amount of insecure pity-party guys that are seriously doubting this is the case. 1/

6 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 9

2/ Yes, I have male friends who have had histories of manipulation and abuse. But guess what? That's like 1 in 6 of my male friends. For

6 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 10

3/ my female friends it's nearly every single one of them. Honestly, folks, just shut the fuck up. It's not a competition.

6 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 13

Thank you. Every time sexual exploitation or domestic violence is mentioned, some men suddenly get invested in ‘equality’ ?

6 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 5

Potential other explanation based on evidence you provided: Guys don't talk about shit, or maybe they were abused and didn't realize.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

As a boy who was preyed upon, this is a disappointingly common opinion to read.

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

It’s not an opinion. It’s a fact. Just because you’re a boy who was preyed upon doesn’t mean girls aren’t preyed upon more.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

I'm openly disagreeing with you on one point: I think males simply report it far less often, because societally we're told to bottle it up.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Sure but so do women.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just use a gender neutral term

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 6

That it occurs with either gender means both need protection. Transgender too. All children.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Okay, tell that to a guy that had this happen to him. Tell him it doesn't matter as much because it rarely happens. Would you.?

6 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 16

That’s not at all what they said. I do understand that this happens to boys, but I hardly even know any females this hasn’t happened to.

6 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 8

"...girls need the help more". If we're faced with a problem, why even differentiate between genders and only help one side?

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

Maybe because it's harder for males to come out with it? Been married to my wife for going on 17 years, and have known her 20. She only >

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

recently found out I was molested when I was younger, and I'd honestly repressed it successfully until I'd taken a writing class. One of >

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

As a man with a daughter I fully support this message. Please snitch so I don't have to go to jail for murder

6 years ago | Likes 1604 Dislikes 32

You in my head? Coz this is my reasoning too.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Not if I’m on your jury.

6 years ago | Likes 58 Dislikes 3

Fukin' right. I would absolutely force them to remove me before I let a man go to jail for murdering his daughters rapist.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

As a decent human being without any children, I fully support this message too

6 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 2

Thank you

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Good man. But I don’t get it, I’m 66 and women under 35 don’t look like they’re old enough to smoke to me, never mind anything else

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

That’s cause you’re not a pedo/predator. So good on ya.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

no shieeeet, and for all the Uncles too.... id definitely go to prison for murder if anyone messed with my niece !!!

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

As a dad and step-dad, I agree. Aggravated assault is a much more favorable charge

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I've got a very special hole that's perfect for compost like materials

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

As one father to another. chickenwire, weights and remote lake.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

*addendum: make sure vehicle has no tracking devices in it (looking at you, Onstar) and leave your cellphones at home.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

just hope you have the same jury as Gary Plauche

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As a father of two daughters, I would help you hide the body.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fuck it, I'll help you hide the body. Pedophiles should die.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Remember to bury them straight up and down and squirt yogurt up the ass to accelerate decomp.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Please snitch. I agree with this fully.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

As a human fucking being, I support this.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

it's only murder if they find the body...

6 years ago | Likes 177 Dislikes 7

As a new father I second this motion. I'll help you hide the body. Wood chippers are very versatile.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Wow your roses look fantastic.

6 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Why do you want to sift through the pig feed, officer?

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I hear wood chippers do great work.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

'He dove in head first Sheriff. Must have been one of those suicide pacts.'

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Flashback! Albeit not that long ago. I re-saw it about a month ago.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

As a Canadian with a lot of wilderness and an ocean nearby, I'm not saying I have killed anyone, but it wouldn't be hard to get rid of one.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Australia’s the same, you could hide an army in the Outback and nobody would find them

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Could probably just feed it to a gator.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Crocodiles here, but I don’t think any self respecting Croc would eat a Pedo

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"yard trimmings"

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

No body, no crime.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Burry him standing up police will only sdarch places of disrupted soil thats 6feet ish or for metric User around 2 meters long and bury 1/2

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

A dead animal on top of him so they think the corpse dog made a false claim and carry on sorry for the bad english not native and i tried

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Why kill an animal? Just put a nice bush or plant on top.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So if a sniffer dog finds it theyl mistake it for a false positive instead of digging further

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Those advices are so good you don't need to make excuses. Technically difficult to implement I guess, but interesting nonetheless.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Thanks ^^ well u can make the corpse unrecognizable by removin jawbones finger tips or orher individuals traits rhat can identify him/she

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's a bitch to dig a hole that deep and narrow with a spade point shovel at 2:15 am in someone else's yard.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yeah but do u want to be caught?

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

A fresh, dead animal carcass buried is pretty unusual under normal circumstances, and may be a tip-off.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

What about pets ?

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well, I guess if you’ve already killed a human, killing a pet shouldn’t be that big of a deal.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Someone needs to buy more land...

6 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 4

Pigs. Invest in a pig farm.

6 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 1

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6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Or tigers

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 1

Tigers leave bones.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That bitch Carole Baskin

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Askin for a Baskin!

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Or a good woodchipper?

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

A best friend has a back home , and 40 acres without neighbors

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

Goddamn

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Back hoe

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

shit man i'm 28, i have 2 friends who told me their getting groomed stories and more who hit a grey area of sex w/regret, maybe rape? 1/?

6 years ago | Likes 484 Dislikes 7

What?

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 5

"Grooming" is the practice of gradually acclimating a victim, usually a child, to abusive and sexual behaviors/situations. Like, it starts

6 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 3

with teaching them it's wrong to refuse a hug, then getting them used to sitting on someone's lap, then getting them used to touching,

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

and by the time that kid is being taken to bed, they're so trained that it doesn't occur to them that any of this is not normal and good.

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

Thank you for the information!

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 3

2/? talk to your daughters or your friends. its crazy how much can happen out of sight and what doesn't get said for fear of shame

6 years ago | Likes 320 Dislikes 2

I have a close circle of friends that I’ve known for years. I can easily name 5 that were raped

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 2

almost every single woman i've talked to about it has been drugged.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

3/? i thought i did well to try to help out only to find out my friends' troubles and near misses years later

6 years ago | Likes 143 Dislikes 2

4/4 it's not crazy love or cool BDSM when a mod 20's person goes after a 15 y/o, they will show their abusive nature and it won't be good

6 years ago | Likes 117 Dislikes 2

Not always abusive in the standard sense, but .. abusive in terms of abuse of power

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

Or its been goingnon forwver and the girls arnt offended cuzbits natural

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 67

Someone check this guy's basement please...

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

Dude, put down the bottle.

6 years ago | Likes 46 Dislikes 2

6 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 2

Are you trying to say the girls have been groomed/ hit on by older men for so long that they don’t realize it’s predatory & stay quiet?

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 3

Nah. Girls like older men naturally for thier support

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 17

White male privilege is quite the filter for reality....

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 5

Just under 18? I feel like anyone under 23 has the potential of being groomed still. You’re barely an adult at 25.

6 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 14

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6 years ago (deleted May 27, 2021 1:39 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Ppl who are responsible for thier own decisions can still be victims. Over 18 it isn't statutory but its is unhealthy & the older person is

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

the one who has the life expiernce to know that. Alocating blame for the choice to start or stay in a toxic reltaionship is a messy prospect

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 3

It wasn't until I was 25 that got my head out of my ass... I just wish I could get my head OFF of my ass now.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm barely an adult at 35

6 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Shouldn't you be allowed to bang who you want by age 18 though?

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I was groomed @ 18, he was 30. Spent 4 years trying to make him love me back so I could tell myself that he made a mistake & it wasn’t rape.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I think people can be groomed at any age, under 18 the likelihood of goes up exponentially.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There was a sex scandal at my college when it turned out a bunch of professors were sleeping with their students. Some people didn't think

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

I'm familiar with this political story. A female prof said, when we were 18-20 we demanded freedom. Not "protection" by admins & rules /1

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

She faced Title 9 sanctions for writing about women's liberation and feminism, vs authoritarian feminism

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

back when women who were "adults" - no, actually legal adults - demanded university treat women as adults vs demeaning protectiveness

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I mean, I'm not saying an 18yrold can't make decisions for her/himself and that every relationship with significant age difference is

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

it was a big deal because they're both "adults", but we're talking 18-19 year olds with guys in their 30s and 40s, not to mention the abuse

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

of power issue. As a girl who was almost preyed on by a professor, I can see how a young student can be groomed into it. They basically

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

act like you're so special, mature, and smart and talk to you like you're their peer. The "teacher's pet" kids eat that shit up. I didn't

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

even realize how inappropriate some of the things he did or said to me bc I refused to believe that such a "cool" prof could be a predator

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Another thing to notice is he’s got no friends his age, or at least none that know about you or that you’ve met.

6 years ago | Likes 619 Dislikes 6

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6 years ago (deleted Nov 13, 2020 9:49 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Nah that's cool, but shave off 5 years of both of you and then it would be 25/15 and that's the topic we are on right now.

6 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

I think that’s everyone on this site

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

lol, friends

6 years ago | Likes 75 Dislikes 1

x2. )=

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Well, you can't really bring your 15 year old GF out to the bar. Ugh.

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Not with that attitude

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I don't go to bars with adult GFs either.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If your parents say something about a guy you are seeing, LISTEN to them!

6 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 8

As a former teenager, ew

6 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

*with a reasonable degree of scrutiny

6 years ago | Likes 53 Dislikes 1

The mother of my ex told her that she missed me...

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This is combination with your username makes me... uncomfortable...

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If it is uncomfortable for you princess you need to use more lube.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0