Pray I don't fuck this up for myself

Dec 19, 2016 7:25 AM

alamoustache

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I've had social anxiety for as long as I can remember, so this is big for me. We're going to see rogue one tomorrow so I think it's safe to say I'm beginning to migrate out of the dreaded friend zone. Wish me luck

FP edit : Holy shit guys front page! Thank you all for your support, it went pretty well. We didn't end up going to see rogue one but we did go to a Christmas party together which was pretty fucking great. No dicks and no tits were shown, but it's a start ;)

Good luck. Don't over think it. Worst comes to worst it's good practice x

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

High five bro, get some love

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do you laugh like Seth Rogan?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Lady balls? Don't sell yourself short.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Better fuck him quick then

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good luck, hope he's cool.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Grab him by the pussy.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

You've always had them, @op, they've been inside you THIS WHOLE TIME!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

+1 For gonads. xD

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Laughter is a great way to win people over. People like being around when good times are had

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I love your laugh wanna hang out?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wish more weapon did this. Most of us men are more scared than you are

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I wishbone more weapon shot men tooo

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Be nice and keep that genuine feeling of wanting to see him.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Movies, clubs and restaurants are rubbish for first dates. Go somewhere where you can just walk & chat - in the countryside /mountains/beach

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hey @op- how did it go??

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Be honest, enjoy yourself, get to know him better. And as far as friend zone goes, if you want to move beyond friends... 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Tell him clearly with words that you want a more romantic one, plenty of guys won't take the initiative or pick up on hints easily. 2/2

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

OP, you have a courage I wish I had. I'm still stuck debating whether or not to tell this one dude if I like him. Then I don't do it.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

WELL THEN, you had more luck than I did this summer. Never asking a guy out again. Once is enough. And apparently too much.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

awww... Better luck next time on the D&T thing... but I guess Christmas is alright too...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That's pretty awesome! Congrats OP! At least rogue one gives you a reason to have a second meeting :)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Go for his balls.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

OP on my first date with my bf, i said thank you after he kissed me & babbled for 3 minutes. He thought it was cute. Be yourself it works

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Enjoy your time together, relax and listen. If I can get a girl to laugh, I am in heaven. Be yourself and you will be fine.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As a dude, I find it refreshing when a lady approaches me first. Good job, @OP! Good luck!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

*high five* Great work!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do men have friend zones?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Touch his penis. Dudes love that shit.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Good luck, don't be over critical, silence is ok!

9 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 1

Its also required at a movie!

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

you're not wrong!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

this is honestly the best part about a first date/movie date. some time to get used to someones presence with a reason to be silent.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My best advice is to be as genuine as possible...if he's a good guy he will value that:) good luck OP!! First dates can be nerve-racking

9 years ago | Likes 213 Dislikes 2

yeah but really though, who are you, and why should i care for your advice?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 21

I'm a locksmith and I'm a locksmith

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So you know how to unlock their heart?!

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

But they can also be alot of fun:)

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

That's what 2-3 pre-date beers are for..or 4-15. Depends.

9 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Adding to advice here: "GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD, and have a good time!" If you overthink it, you are likely to mess up. Just have fun!

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Just laugh the whole time. He loves your laugh play your strengths yo. He says hi you laugh. Asks how you are? Laugh.

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 2

It works for Jimmy Fallon

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do it. Don't be a jabroni.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Do NOT do this.

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Noooooo, don't!

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Don't listen to this jabroni. Laugh nonstop.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

First time being called jabroni. Thank you chef.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's what I do.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0