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Jan 12, 2014 11:24 PM
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biggbear86
very next gif is a rape joke
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cucumbersome
some people don't get it.
TDWPTWD
they do. they just dont give a fuck
herekittykittykittykittykittykittykitty
I really hope this doesn't get lost in User Sub
shadowex3
It gets reposted at least once a week, it won't.
thevegan
I wish I could hug every one of them and find a way to make it all better. No one should ever have stories like these.
shnarfshnarf
These are horrible but it needs to be shared
LynzeiWolfe
i feel wrong upvoting this but feel like it should be seen by all
OhMuffins
<3 :( /hugs OP. Thank you for sharing.
Norwegiansauce
This literally brought tears to mye eyes, but at the same time I think it's great to see such beatiful, brave people tell their stories!
pandaxing
Shit :( and stay strong OP.
VeggieNinja93
Thank you.
ishwood
I never raped and I never will. I always accepted "I just like you as a friend" - according to imgur friendzone does not excist.
ishwood
and still, I rescued more than once girls who friendzoned me from their abusive boyfriends, gave them a place to stay
ishwood
and watched also more than once as they went into a relationship with a guy who was known as abusive
ishwood
and when she called in the middle of the night I again picked them up, gave them a place to stay and did not take advantage.
ishwood
today I am 42, single - and the woman I am in love with for 15 years has been raped 3 times by her boyfriends
ishwood
this very moment she is on the way to a guy she met online - I am prepared to drive 500km to pick her up
TwoOreoesOneCup
This needs more points. Very powerful.
invincibully
This makes me sad,s so have my upvote. I'm going to move on now. -_-
mellowcreme
humans doing this to each other is something I cannot begin to comprehend. I'm so sorry you went through this.
Benegesseritwitch75
Do not let this get buried, they aren't alone and it isn't right ever.
JediKnight
I apologize on behalf of humanity to ANYONE who has been sexually assaulted. I cannot imagine how one could do that to a fellow human being.
Jherden
But you can't apologize on the behalf of humanity, when humanity did nothing wrong. The perpetrators don't have humanity.
Jherden
(2) They have lost their right to claim any sort of humanity, as far as I am concerned.
JediKnight
I don't agree with that. You cannot dismiss the worst of our species as inhuman: isn't that just ignoring a societal flaw we must correct?
Wormbo2
Upvoted for awareness.
123123mail
+1 for awareness. And in my opinion, all rapists should be castrated.
zuriki
It makes no sense to make the punishment as sub-human as the action. Also implies only men are rapists, what would you do to women?
Lucyintheskywithscorpions
Sew them up.
Jherden
as a male, my non-existent lady-parts cringed.
TheFreshPrinceOfDenmark
The day this get aired on national news instead of what Miley Cyrus wore to dinner is the day we graduate to being being human.
OurLadyBabalon
Wish I could share my story... Someday.
VeggieNinja93
Take your time, focus on healing. It will come out when you are ready.
CompuGlobalHyperMegDotNet
Anyone here will listen, Anytime you are ready.
tarac2091
This disgusts me. Then I remember that people like you have the courage to speak out about it, and it reminds me we're not all broken. +1
DeadGodJess
"Oh please, you wanted it."
wholesomehousewife
hugs, ive been date raped by a couple "boyfriends" now when my new male friend tries to hug me i flinch
VeggieNinja93
Oh god, hugs are the worst. I only let my boyfriend, immediate family, and my two best friends touch me. Anyone else is risking an (1/2)
VeggieNinja93
accidental punch in the face. (2/2)
wholesomehousewife
im a huge hugger but with males if they initiate i auto flinch. for at least a year i couldnt have a guy behind me or else id panic
VeggieNinja93
I'm so sorry. :(
wholesomehousewife
hugs itll be okay for both of us, therapy has helped alot!!!
VeggieNinja93
I'm so glad. :)
TheBurninator
I hate when girls touch me without my permission, just saying.
VeggieNinja93
As you should. Consent is not optional.
TheBurninator
even if it's not sexual like grabbing my arms and stuff, it weirds me out if I don't say yes before
zuriki
Very common. I'm the same, hugs are the most awkward thing ever for me. If it's a friend, I try to tickle them to make them stop.
zuriki
Might seem counter-intuitive since tickling is quite intimate too, but if they're already hugging me... it makes it end quicker. :P
TheBurninator
I'm very ticklish. I wouldn't enjoy that.
VeggieNinja93
I understand. Consent expands to more than just a sexual realm. If people are touching you without your permission, something is wrong.
CompuGlobalHyperMegDotNet
No touching, any/all touching? is this new?
VeggieNinja93
Like, if you're going to touch someone, tell them, or at least ask them if it's okay. Some of us have been through trauma and (1/2)
BaronVonFappypants
So, DON'T rape? Ok.
rollout25
I kind of don't get the second one. I know that sounds bad
Jherden
(2) The details change, depending on how they define themselves (ex; Male-to-Female, or Female-to-Male).
Jherden
They are a transgendered individual. They were forced into a sexual encounter to "prove" they shouldn't be trans.
dduncan55330
I know rape is a big issue but when you are with a guy and he makes a move, saying or doing nothing to stop him isn't rape in my opinion. 1
dduncan55330
If he forces himself on you or yells, then I think it is rape. Going with the flow, however, is not. Women have the ability to say no. 2
jbitel
"If you tell anyone I'll kill myself" seems like a win-win to me
ermergerdwerrfers
"if you tell anyone I'll kill your mom and dad, and do what i'm doing to you to your sister." (I was 6 and he continued until I was 12.)
VeggieNinja93
I am so sorry.
ermergerdwerrfers
Its been 13 years since it ended, I have an amazingly supportive husband and a beautiful 3 year old daughter. I couldn't be happier.
karvanapperi
blaablaablaa.rape doesn't just happen,it is let to happen.unless victim is REALLY small and/or unconscious.I'd rather die than let it happen
karvanapperi
meaning, i'd fight with every thing i have and adrenalin would help. Bite ear off, what ever. Rapist have only 2 hands and he needs 'em both
VeggieNinja93
Not-so-fun fact: the first one is me. Survivors aren't some creature that exist in a far-off land. We are here, we are real. We are human.
LeadBasedPaint
As someone who also submitted to Project Unbreakable, I'm proud of you OP! We're so much stronger than what happened to us.
AnthonyStark
godricgryffindor
Rape is shit. I would give victims hugs but I am afraid of triggering anything by accident so I just be a Sheldon and there there
chemistrydoc
Very brave OP. Thank you for making it a bit more personal than it had to be. I hope you are healing. Thanks for Imguring with us.
ceesoul
Thank you.
kyoo92
Hey seriously..power to you.. I bet you are really strong underneath. A trait that some or maybe even most people cannot understand
123123mail
Fuck that guy.
acertainjenesaisquoi
Of all the things that could be said....
acertainjenesaisquoi
Sorry, that may have been in bad taste, I don't even know anymore.
Beezlebubble
If he's in prison, he's probably been fucked. Sorry for what's happened to you OP
VeggieNinja93
He is not. Won't be, either. Unfortunately, this is the reality most of the time. The conviction rate of rapists is appallingly low.
Beezlebubble
Which is why I handled my friend/ex's rapist the way I saw fit.
Lasmodoe
There is nothing I say or do to fix this. All I can do is offer you my sincerest apologies that you had to go through that. Stay strong.
VeggieNinja93
Thank you.
chemistrydoc
Probably not the best choice of words here...but I see what you're saying.
firrecracker
I'm sorry you had to go through that, OP. I am so very sorry that a good deed turned into something so terrible.
mytai
Going through this right now. Not sure how to deal with it anymore. Can't sleep. Sorry this happened to you OP.
TrueDragon13
I'm so sorry. Please, if you do need anything, OP or I are here to listen. Sometimes it's easier to talk to strangers about it.
VeggieNinja93
Hey, do you need to talk to someone? I'm here.
mytai
Thanks. Spent one night in the hospital to get some sleep. Now it's back to reality. Trying to move forward. Report. Counselling. Sleep.
VeggieNinja93
Oh god, I'm sorry. I wish I could say that it's all downhill from here, but you're likely going to have to face more hardship. I know (1/?)
VeggieNinja93
it sounds kinda shitty, but I think that it's all going to work out. Stay strong. I will always, always be here if you need to talk.
evilbunnyo
On behalf of all decent men on the planet, sorry.
RedCass
And decent women. (It is not a one gender problem)
evilbunnyo
I wasn't treating it as one it was just the fact that she said it was a he is why I said it.
RedCass
I wasn't correcting you. Sorry.
Jherden
unfortunately, it's often treated as one. Stay strong. We're here for you.
wk97
it's ok lil nigga you'll be alright
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chemistrydoc
wk97
uh why?
chemistrydoc
After what OP just shared with us...you think "it's ok lil nigga you'll be alright" is an appropriate response? Really?
wk97
I meant it with love, I honestly hope they're okay... I always try to cheer people up in moments like this, sorry...