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Moving out in the next couple weeks once the house I've secured has some maintenance done. Can't wait.
Jun 10, 2017 5:12 AM
ShitMyBrainSays
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Moving out in the next couple weeks once the house I've secured has some maintenance done. Can't wait.
IamNotaBlackMan
SHE split up the family the first time she cheated.
JhericFury
I always say: Fuck "should". You do what's right for you, not what you think you're meant to.
Crazytrain77
Kid = diaper on an anchor.
Duskz
Let me ask you... How long were you together before you had a kid?
ikbenlike
Good luck man
atimewizard
Good for you. Much love and hope to you and your little girl. <3
pirateninjaunicornattacksquad
@OP make sure you take the kid with you. Leaving your daughter behind will set a habitation precedent that you will spend year fighting.
InRetrospectIShouldveLearnedToSwimBeforeBecomingaSailor
Better to have done it now man. Your daughter won't remember anything else and you can actually afford a life since you weren't married.
LawAndNorderSkyrimVictimsUnit
That sucks but...
nosferatradamus
What is tolerated, will continue. Sounds like you did what you needed to do. Good luck.
ShitMyBrainSays
Thank you. It's gonna be a tough road but I'm ready.
okiedokeartichoke
Get everything on paper and be an active father in your kids life. My father wasn't after my parents split and it sucks.
coldiron69
judythedankengine
My man! Better and bigger things out there!
sprinckletitties
Don't blame yourself. He/She knew they were splitting up your family when they cheated.
McVirusS
Good to hear you feel better. Still a sad story though :(.
barnwolf
Any psychologists, why do they feel good? Like: "I quit my job and now sell paintings on the street and feel great".
barnwolf
It seems to happen after a big change. Maybe the brain is just happy the decision stress is gone, even if it was the wrong decision.
barnwolf
*not saying OP made the wrong decision, the happiness just seems more like a runners high than true happiness with life.
barnwolf
Anyways, it seems common enough I figured there must be a name for it.
watermelonwhisperer
Too many stories about people cheating on their loved ones.... whyyyyy
LarrWhy
You feel great, and that's good. Just be sure not to xfer the feelings towards your ex to the child.
LarrWhy
I hope I don't come off as rude. I want All the world of happiness for the two of ya. So that certainly wasn't my intention.
GetMeToStopImgurPlease
Girls. Send this guy some boob pics
ShitMyBrainSays
Yes. All the boobs
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ShitMyBrainSays
Factually speaking, I'm the man, she's the woman.
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kiwiflavored
Knowing this, I have to agree with you. Up until this point, I only knew that OP's partner cheated on them.
thecreep1ngbam
So are you leaving your 1yo daughter with her mother? Poor kid.
KoopaKommander
He never stated he was.
ShitMyBrainSays
No, I'm taking the baby with me as mom cannot afford a place of her own and is not fit to have sole custody.
ShitMyBrainSays
I'm leaving the mother only.
thecreep1ngbam
Fair enough, good on ya
TheLeastICouldDo
Yeah, but your first mistake was having a kid. Welcome to twenty years of drama. Get everything on paper or you will be fucked
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99problemsbuttheexaint1
While I don't agree with the kid being a mistake, I agree with getting everything in writing
PoIluticorn
Man this person posted something empowering and awesome and you come in here talking fucking bullshit about mistakes. Shut the fuck up.
Mauffine
He's just telling the hard truth, when you split, no matter how much you love them, unless both parties are on good terms kids tend to 1/2
Mauffine
Complicate things 2/2
ShitMyBrainSays
Well we were in love when we had her. All the bullshit happened after the baby came oddly enough.
PreciousPotato
Oddly? This happens all the time.
SinGirl75
Put your kid first - She'll thank you for it later. Good on you for leaving and good luck!
PointItAtED209
I'm in love with you too @OP, no homo
genericusername20
...that you know of
Kenyanguyhere
well at least you have us :) thats something
MarkyMarksFunkyHunch
"Gotcha, bitch!"
BetterLuckyThanGood
Not that odd. Happens regularly.
KingZullu
Babies are genetic handcuffs to your past mistakes
Grpi
nabtogo
She still has the privilege that is raising a child. Another person, a reflection of her.
TheLeastICouldDo
I would bet good money that every friday night she is out with her girls.
ShitMyBrainSays
Never goes out actually. Left in the middle of the day on a Sunday to "go shopping" the first time - next time was while I was outta town
TheLeastICouldDo
No woman leaves a man without having another one lined up. Especially when kids and rent are involved
UltraLord69
You are an idiot.
ShitMyBrainSays
Well I'm the man leaving the woman. So it's a little different
flamingflamingo
who hurt you
AliBarber
That's a fallacy and generalisation and unfair.
PreciousPotato
That's just false as fuck. If that's a generalization of your own experiences, you should have a long hard look at yourself and wonder /1
TrustMeIAmTheGovernment
Wow.