BackyardRoses
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It feels like my whole world fell apart and I wanted to vent to friends only to realize I have no friends of my own. College has been pretty rough for me as far as friends go because of some shit at the beginning of the year and I was depressed and withdrawn for most of my first year. Now a second year and transferring to a new school in late February I just feel stuck.
Sorry for ranting but I guess Imgur is the only place I feel like I can talk
Tldr: read the meme
FP edit: First off, thank you so much for all the kind messages and support! 'm sorry if I haven't gotten around to replying but I'll do my best.
Send kittens and.. friendship?
Tankgirl79
I'll be your friend #BackyardRoses
jujubeefrwin
glad I'm not the only one. Sorry to hear that but I'm in the same boat. My gf just broke up with me and most of my friends were from her
Sh3rlockH0lmes
danisme
The pain sucks, I feel yours from my own recently. When you trust someone two things can happen, earn a friend for life, or a life lesson
Speedlisz
You know where to make new friends :P
Easytotell
Relatable title.. but that sucks about ur friends.. maybe they werent real friends if they decide to just not kick it with u anymore.. gluck
nuggqueen69
Try volunteering? Also there are a handful of online sites/apps that are helpful: not4dating, tinder, bumble for friends.
punishherwithmypurpleheadedwarrior
Are you kidding id give my left nut to be in your position its never to late for a fresh start sweetheart go have some fun and post us
Justanotheraussiebogan
Are pen pals still a thing? Sign me up if they are
Canyouconvertthatto
Enjoy the debt!
animal531
Time to text all his male friends...then suddenly he'll realise he has no friends.
HeDiedInABizarreGardeningAccident
Friend of mine brokeup with his gf, now I never see her even though everyone else in social group likes her and he's just being a dick
ValhallaArise
Sending friendship and hugs. :D
deathglow
I don't have any pictures of kittens but feel free to check out my fat cat in my profile pitures. :P
cbutler84
Just cause they were his friends first doesn't mean they're not yours. If they stop, see it as a blessing. Who wants fake ppl around anyways
iminaglasscaseofemotions
This sounds like an opportunity for self development, you've got this! Focus on your health and your studies. If you need a talk PM me.
ShockedAndAwed
Join clubs, that's how I met literally all of my college friends. Find a club you enjoy and meet people there.
Guywhospendswaytoomuchtimeonimgur
people learn from experiences, so do the impossible and dont haha. You have to just try again and be willing to get hurt. but dont fixate
sstein14
I'll listen if you need an ear
LadicalRarry
Joining a drug cartel is a great group activity for form friendships @OP
TheGoudaKaramazov
Yeah, me and all the imaginary friends in my head agree, also meth is super. Just kidding you'll find good people
tawaiii027
You can always message me OP
likeumreal
40something looking back on events like this from college, trust me, this is the little piece of dirt that is going to turn you into a pearl
KiritoJikan
I'll be your friend!
Nath3l
I did the exact same thing! but he lost all his friends because it turns out i wasn't the only one who realized he'd changed for the worse
Mathematicaster
It's tough after everyone is in their own cliques already. Join a club or group. Also, don't be afraid to be alone. Learn to love yourself.
Mathematicaster
Also, if you want guys to throw themselves at you then play videogames. I recommend Overwatch.
Hopsnscotch
This is good advice @OP. Listen to this. Most social groups in college are arranged around a common activity.
InfernoTerra
It's 4 oh 3 and I can't sleep. Without you next to me I toss and turn like the sea.
InfernoTerra
No? Okay I'll finish. If I drown tonight. Bring me back to liiife. Breathe your breath in me, the only thing that I still believe in is you!
jbird84
New friends time! New university soon! Your adventure i just beginning
BackyardRoses
I hope so! It's just this lull between classes that's going to drive me mad
jbird84
New hobby? To do
usrid004
If you are cool and nice then "his friends" will actually stay "your friends"
TheMayorOfTittyCity
Those would be pretty lousy friends if they abandon their friend to hang out with the his ex girlfriend.
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kirmokum
it's called "being an adult".i'm still friends with most of my exes, they're still friends with my friends, & i'm friends with their friends
ShirouBlue
Unfortunatly, that doesn't always work...
Cucumbawumba
That's rare. Most times I've seen it, when you take away the person who brought you together (the bf) the relationship just dies off. Especi
Cucumbawumba
2/ally if they are still close and hang a lot with bf
kirmokum
it's not that rare unless the breakup was particularly nasty.
Runningoutofcharacterswhencommenting
this is my girlfriend. I feel bad and try to get her out of her she'll but she doesn't know how to communicate and thinks she's a deva.(1/?)
Runningoutofcharacterswhencommenting
I try to get her to do stuff without me but she just wants to stay with me all the time. What do I do? p.s. in college (2/2)
BackyardRoses
Maybe she has anxiety? Try new activities maybe she'll stick with one without you
TheMayorOfTittyCity
It is literally your girlfriend, or your gf is in a similar situation?
bearstrike
My ex was like that. We moved to big city together. She didn't make friends. Hooked her up with my friends. She couldn't do it so ended up
bearstrike
Moving back home to be with her highschool friends. Such is life.
EagleEye3x3
No time like the present for a change and if old friends arent here for you now, they werent really friends anyway, fuck em.
ForrestIndustries
True as that may be, it still hurts, especially if you have a hard time making friends.
PainItForward
^^THIS. As someone in the military, you find out who your real friends are after all the distance apart and time between visits.
BarcodePrinter
Listen to him @op, fuck with all your ex friends. Nothing is better than an orgy with his friends to tell him how much you're over him.
EagleEye3x3
Ok not that lol. Just forget they exist and after a bit it wont even matter.
straightforwardwithyou
He's telling you to have an orgy @OP are you gonna listen?
Krympehl
I'm down for an orgy.