Public breastfeeding

Dec 22, 2016 3:33 AM

Maldawg94

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I have a 9 month old daughter who is seriously boob obsessed, I'll probably never be able to wean her. With that being said she is also to the age where if I cover her she pulls it off, she's just eating lunch it's not that big of a deal. Today while eating lunch with my mother we were in a secluded corner enjoying our lunch when my daughter who had not napped yet wanted to nurse. I put her on like I always do and went about eating my lunch. I glance across the room where there is a large older woman with a can I speak to the manager haircut. She looked deep into my eyes with the most disgusted face I've ever seen, did the I'm watching you motion with her fingers and continued to shake her head in disgust. The rest of her meal she sat there like a child throwing a tantrum with her arms crossed glaring at me.

If you can't handle seeing a nursing mother don't leave your house. If you don't agree, be an adult and don't stare condescendingly, move seats if you must. Definitely don't do creepy I'm watching you motions and continue to stare like an asshat.

TLDR; an asshat judged me for nursing my daughter, don't be an asshat.

Make a finger gesture back to let her know her opinion means less than what she makes at the truck stop on nickel night.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

FUUUUUUCCCCKKKKK that piece of garbage person. Keep on being an amazing mom and just ask if she wants some for her coffee next time ????

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Society is so fucked up

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Breastfeeding is the best way to provide your baby with not only nourishment but e.g. antibodies to keep safe from diseases. Good job!

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Stoopid cultural arbitrariness is stoopid

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Good on you! And btw, breastfeeding in public is PROTECTED and discriminating against a breastfeeding mother is illegal. And retarded.

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 3

What does she think boobs are intended for? They are more than sexy. SHE is the perverted one for going for the sexualized digust route.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 4

My gf breastfed my daughter until she was 2 and self-weaned. Fuck the haters and do what's best for your baby.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

For some reason I read this as "9 year old daughter" and was severely creeper out.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Its especially odd that a women would be the one to get all weird about this...

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I agree most of the time it's older men or really old women but she was maybe late 40s

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Should have offered her a blanket to cover herself with so she wouldn't have to watch.

9 years ago | Likes 146 Dislikes 5

Should have offered her a blanket to cover her cunt face so that others don't have to watch.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Wanted to buy her lunch for her and leave her a message saying I pity her sad life that she feels she has to bully a nursing a mother

9 years ago | Likes 54 Dislikes 2

If it ever happens again, glare back at her while changing boobs

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fuck that old lady. That was so rude and strange behaviour and she has the nerve to imply you behave wrong? (Also it drives me 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

irrationally mad that the described behaviour reminded me of my mother. Sorry for unrelated notion!) 2/2

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

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Stupid fat bitch...sorry about this but it really pisses me off...She's only doing cos she's jealous and baron...you carry on and ignore..

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

You should have expressed some in a cup and taken it over- "is this what you wanted?"

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Well, if she was so offended, she could just eat in the rest room.

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

People will watch two people lick each others butt holes but find a perfectly natural thing as breastfeeding offensive, makes me sad.

9 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 6

It's true, I can't believe all the people arguing to me about this.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

I'm speculating, but the two categories of people you described probably don't overlap much

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Had a Tata obsessed baby...I mean would pull herself up to my boob in her sleep/undress me awake nurser. They're weanable, I promise. =)

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

Thank god so glad to hear that. Love nursing beyond words but I need my body back. After one year we will wean!

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I lasted~8 months with my younger one. I'm A SAHM and I literally spent all day nursing and it wasn't fair to her sister. I said "enough!"

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I've only got the one so far but I spend all day nursing her I'm a SAHM as well so I don't mind it too much, but need my alone time ha!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Fuck her, give her the finger & keep nourishing your baby OP

9 years ago | Likes 107 Dislikes 7

That was my thought too. Make sure kiddo is supported, then make eye contact and give the international sign of good will.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I figure it'd be difficult to fuck her while nursing a baby

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 3

Only one way to find out

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Oh gawd, don't encourage the perve trolls!!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

At least it wasn't this guy

9 years ago | Likes 46 Dislikes 2

Sometimes I forget that Tom Baker is sort of terrifying

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

"Eccentric" is the word that's always come to my mind.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Honestly I'm enough of a Dr. Who geek that I'd be excited if Tom Baker glared at me for having my boob out....

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

lol I'm sure there was a peeve taking advantage of the moment though

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Peeves are like perves

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Was it a wild peeve or a pet peeve?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Would have mouthed "would you like some?" to her.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 2

That's awesome!!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm an adult female and I'd probably stare because I can't look away from seeing things I've never seen before. Sorry in advance.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Boob's are there for one purpose... Sex.. According to today's idiots.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I wonder if she does the same thing when sees a lingerie ad.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

I don't know WHY I read this as 9 year old...

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

I definitely would have stared at that too

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Been waiting on the right time to post this v

9 years ago | Likes 545 Dislikes 6

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

The time has come

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

The time is now

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

9 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Just like you

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I was thinking more like Me, myself and Irene.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

NSFW

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't think I've ever seen a more perfect response

9 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 0

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9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Well there that. I am not sure which i like more...

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Breastfeeding is fucking hard! I have a 7 month old and every day has been a struggle. Good for you! My daughter will not eat in public.

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 4

I like how most of the negative comments are men all the positives are women who have actually been through it. My kids boob obsessed (1/2)

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

So it doesn't matter where we are she wants it! But good for you too! Always support another nursing mama

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

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9 years ago (deleted Oct 30, 2018 1:49 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

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9 years ago (deleted Oct 30, 2018 1:49 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

I knew one lady who was molested and the person was obsessed with her breasts so she refused to even try to nurse. I understand that.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Its always the same when it comes to women's bodies and their functions. Men. Fuck off. Honestly. When it comes to our bodies. Fuck off.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 5

This entire post was patriarchy free.. you feminists don't score high in reading comprehension i guess.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 9

I was speaking in regards to the comments that have been left.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Then try replying to the correct comment next time

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Please tell me you flipped her off.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

No just laughed and shook my head. I got home and thought about all the stuff I should have done! I took the high road on this one.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Really the best thing you can do is reaffirm how worthless her existence is by ignoring her.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Not all babies are willing to eat hidden under a tent.

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 4

Exactly I'd like to see someone fight a 9 month old who doesn't want to be covered then come judge me.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

My 6 month old will not have it!! Lol he gets too distracted right now at every little thing making nursing harder than it used to be.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh she totally gets distracted I typically will nurse her in the car for that reason but sometimes she can't wait so I try to get her (1/2)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

To focus the best she can. It's getting harder as she gets older for sure!! (2/2)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My son just turned 11 months, he likes to swat at my everything with his free hand if he's awake enough. Which is 90% of the time.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Swat at everything*. Was gonna put my phone, but it's just everything.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Anything they can't have, phones, cords, glasses, my sandwich.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh yeah! I've been rocking a pony tail for months I get slapped and pinched all day, but god damn being a parent is awesome haha.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Slapped, pinched, bitten, boob-grabbed, when they do that thing where they try to grab your nose and mouth at the same time, fingers in nose

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ah yes the fingers in the nose, my kid LOVES eyeballs, if you've got em she wants em

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But I live every second of it :) my baby is my sweet angel

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I couldn't agree more. My whole world in a little screaming mini me.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Love. Fuck this phone.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Please ignore the negativity of some comments. It's 100% ok to nurse your baby, if someone does not like it maybe they should look away.

9 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 7

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9 years ago (deleted Aug 27, 2018 3:44 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

There is a guy fighting me in the comments but it's cool lol

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

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9 years ago (deleted Aug 27, 2018 3:44 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

It's actually some other guy thinking I can't handle an argument because I am responding politely. He definitely hates puppies!!!

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

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9 years ago (deleted Aug 27, 2018 3:44 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

I really really want to bang all the ass hats heads together in that comment thread. Fucking mooks.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1