Pretty sure that my sister has middle child syndrome.

Jul 5, 2016 2:02 PM

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So I was what you would call an accident. I am 9 years younger than my sister and 11 years younger than my brother. My sister has always been convinced that as the youngest I get special treatment. When I was 4 my sister pushed my off of my grandpa's flatbed trailer and I cracked my head pretty good and was in the hospital for a couple of days. When I was 10 she threw my PS2 into our pool because I accidentally left her bird's cage open and he got out in her room. Then she "accidentally" killed my hamster when I was 11. I've been picked on and bullied by my own sister more than anyone else in my life. If it wasn't for her amazingly awesome kids, I would probably never speak to her again.

Marsha Marsha Marsha!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

wow. your sister is a bitch. when you were 4, she was... 13? and pushed you off the truck? cunt...

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

My sister was supposed to be my maid of honor at my wedding and decided not to show up. She just spoke to me for the first time in 7 years 1

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

And I am trying to figure out the best way to tell her to go fuck herself. I am so angry with her for just abandoning me. The first thing 2

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

She said to me was some racist BS about me teaching on a reservation. If she needed an organ I wouldnt give it to her thats how mad I am 3

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Had nothing to do with pecking order, she's just psychotic.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

That's seriously insane. Has she shown that kind of anger towards anyone else? I'm only asking because my aunt had similar issues. 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Everyone was scared of her. When my mom was married in and stood up to her, she kicked my mom in the stomach (while pregnant with me).

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

THIS! My sister is the worst person I know. Bullied me so much and told me that she hopes I never have kids with my rotten diseased...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...pussy. I have endometriosis. She tole me this because I didn't give her the gift she "deserved" on mothers day. She's a twat waffle...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...and if she died tomorrow she would be doing her kids a favor. She once told my mom (who took care of her son) that if she gave her...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...her son back, good luck figuring out which dumpster she'd find him in. But I'm the asshole for not wanting a relationship with her.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You can't choose who you're related to, but you can choose who you want to be around. Toxic family really sucks. Cut the cord & run.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Im confused...isn't that generally how childhood goes for most siblings...in fact thats tame compared to my own sibling things.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Not normal. This extent considering the age gap is messed up! I have an older brother and we fought, but never to this extent. Same with 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Most other siblings I know. 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If she really did kill his hamster on purpose, that's pretty messed up. Otherwise, normal sibling stuff imo.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I think a lot of it comes from the age difference. 13 year old pushing 4 year old down is quite different than say, 6 year old doing same1/2

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Also, killing pet is bat shit crazy and definitely not normal sibling behavior in any situation. Also, adult destroying kid's property is2/3

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

also crazy. 3/3

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I was all "Yeah, my sister's a bitch too!" But your sister isn't a bitch, she's a psychopathic cunt blister.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As a middle child I never understood this.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Me neither. I was bossy & overbearing to my younger brother, but not cruel.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I would be a big brother to my younger brother, but the oldest (sister) was and still is the worst.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sorry for what happened to you. But is she a good mother?

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Yeah, she has calmed down since for the most part but she's still a super bitch

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Sounds like the kids might need you some day. Hope you manage to keep in touch with them.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

As a mother whose grown children still bicker also hold onto the rivalries of their child hoods This is heart breaking to me. 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

2/3 I don't know how long it has been but if she has two kids it has been a few years. People do shitty things when they are young.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 2

Unless she is hurting you now, sooner you can all put aside birth order crap the sooner you will have a friend who knows you like no other.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

She's wasn't really ever violent, she slapped me once but that was it. She's just a bitch like that's it haha.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just saying you have shared history that will increase in value as you get older. Life is too short for resentment. Experience

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Hang in there, Tyrion. Cersei will get hers soon.

10 years ago | Likes 112 Dislikes 0

Best... Comment... Ever...

10 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 2

I debated being "that" person to point the older brother and sister's difference in age but this is too clever not to up vote.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Well Cersei is Jamie's twin, but Jamie being the heir of the house kind of makes Cersei the middle child.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

OP clearly states a 2 year age gap between the older two siblings... It has nothing to do with social views of inheritance/hierarchy

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I vape.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Isn't Cersei the oldest though?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I mean yeah she sounds like a bitch, but also a bitch who needs to see a psychologist stat...

10 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

More like a psychiatrist.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sometimes I'm glad I got a twin bro, equal footing and all that

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Having a twin has always sounded so cool to me, are you and your brother alike at all? I've known some twins that are polar opposites

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

We are really similar and at the same time we are not both geeks but we are different in personality, both gamers and we look the same

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ah so identical twin then? That's so cool!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Mirrored twins even

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ooooh, did you know that in same cases of mirrored twins even your organs are mirrored? Also that's super rare so it's really neat

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

DAMN, OP, I think your sister is the biggest bitch I know too!

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

She's got some serial killer shit in the works there homey. Give that bitch some room or drop a dime.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Middle Child Syndrome is a thing.

10 years ago | Likes 55 Dislikes 5

Middle child here who used to suffer from it. This goes way far beyond anything reasonable.

10 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 1

I'm not saying it's the only thing wrong here

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

So is only hearing one side of a story.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Never heard that it turns you into a ducking psycho though...

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Ducking psycho you say?

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

Did I ducking stutter?

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Middle child here. It's a thing

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I thought "birth order" stuff reset if there was >5 years between kids. So older sister would be a "youngest", and OP is an "oldest".

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

eh not sure I believe that theory unless 1st set of kids is out of house. anyway this is totally more than MCS imho the girl just crazy lol

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yes, but that's not middle child syndrome - that could be something mentally wrong.

10 years ago | Likes 41 Dislikes 0

She killed a hamster at the age of 20 because she was jealous or angry? She really does sound like a troubled bitch.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm glad you are friends with her children at least, they're going to need you once she goes full psychotic on them

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Youngest sisters ARE shitheads (in my experience as the oldest :P ) but it's no excuse to treat you that way. She's terrible. :(

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If I were you I'd constantly do little pranks to annoy her forever

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

She drowned his console and killed his pet. If her issues aren't sorted out, I wouldn't exactly recommend poking the bear...

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

It's not as bad as it used to be, she just ignores me and shit. She did tell me last month that I was a loser who will amount to nothing.

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

How'd she off the hamster?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

She "forgot" to feed it and told my brother she did it on purpose and he told me.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

She really needs to see a psychologist before she flies off the handle.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

So your parents never intervened in any way? If my siblings acted like that there would've been dire consequences.

10 years ago | Likes 375 Dislikes 1

Oh man you better believe it

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

They always did everytime, she had to buy me a new PS2 and was always punished but she still did it.

10 years ago | Likes 308 Dislikes 0

your sister sounds like a cunt

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My 14 yo stepson has shown signs of being this way toward my 4 yo daughter. I am so glad he moved in with his bio-father. I'd hate to 1/

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

2/ kill another kid.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

....another?

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

His oldest daughter's homecoming date brought her back home at 9:35 despite the heavily emphasized 9:30 curfew.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Did she but a new hamster

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

*buy

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

How about your brother? How does he feel about her behaviour, or you for that matter?

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

He's cool, he is an alcoholic so he doesn't care.

10 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

it sounds like you might want to do an intervention for both of them then. Not to be rude but your sister might do something else later on

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

an intervention wouldn't work on someone like the sister, just sayin.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

and your brother might need some help, just a suggestion

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

that line would work in so many different contexts...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

:/

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Wow. Was it only towards you she behaved that way or to other kids as well?

10 years ago | Likes 101 Dislikes 0

Just me really.

10 years ago | Likes 96 Dislikes 0

Aw man, as someone with three younger siblings that hurts me to hear. *hug*

10 years ago | Likes 50 Dislikes 1

10 years ago | Likes 40 Dislikes 0

My husbands you get half sister was a spoiled brat and claimed he rapped her when he was 13 she was 11. 4 days later she confessed the lie

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Younger****

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That blows i have a sister 6yrs younger and a bro 12 years younger. for his 15th i bought him an xbox 360. for his 16 i got him a gamer pc.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Middle child syndrome has nothing to do with this behaviour, your sister might have borderline personality issues though.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(1) I feel the same way about my older sister (8 yr difference) She sexually abused, physically abused, and threatened to kill me from the..

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(2) age of 4-10. I told my parents when I was 16, they did nothing. She's their first-born and could never do wrong by them. I hated her..

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(3) until last year, when my nephew was born. We "mended fences" for his sake but I still can't stand her. I still feel bitter.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sounds like Shelly from South Park

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

This is not middle child syndrome. I'm a middle child and a fairly normal and loving person. Your sister is in need of professional help.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The youngest does get special treatment. The parents give a fuck is broken by then.

10 years ago | Likes 149 Dislikes 7

Sadly this is all too true.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Youngest of 6. The give a fuck for pictures of me as a baby and child were gone. Would have rather been kid 3 or 4.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I got lots of special treatment with hand me downs and no braces because money ran out by the time it was my turn.

10 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 1

For us, it was the other way around. My little brother got all the stuff they couldn't (yet) afford for my older brother.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Here is to paying for it ourselves! (I am getting ready to get them)

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As the oldest, I get special treatment. Then again I have cancer.

10 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

Man, that was dark. Have an upvote.

10 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

I actually had the worst parenting as the youngest of 4. I always got hit and singled out by my siblings.And my parents never cared about me

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's true. But no need to take it out on the sibling

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

I did get it as the youngest of four girls. But it never did me any favors. I'm 25 now with very few life skills bc sheltered by all. x_o

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Truth, but not necessarily a great thing. Sure it's fun when they dc how late you're out, kind of sucks when they dgaf about your problems.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Statistically, older siblings are more confident and successful in life so I'm guessing that special treatment does no favors

10 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

Yeah I'm 28 and have 4 jobs in my life, and am going to school to become a welder/machine repair, my brother is 24 and has had like 30 jobs.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm the youngest and I definitely got more attention than my siblings. But I've also had health problems, so that contributed to it.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I think I was treated pretty fair. My parents got me a car. But my 2 of my older sisters got to go to Florida for spring break with the 1/?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Because a car is only useful for an entire weekend. As the oldest, i didnt get a car. other 2 did. Youngest is a complete fuck up.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

band. which my parents paid for. along with one getting a lettermans jacket and the other a class ring. All I got was a $500 car. 2/3

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I feel like it was a semi fair trade off. Even though I would have loved to gone to florida.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As a parent of 3, I fully admit I parent differently with each one. But it has nothing to do with giving no fucks.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Never done the "you can watch whatever your siblings is watching"

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

This makes sense since all kids are different.I was a little rebel and my brother a book worm. Parents disciplined me more for being a shit

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It's all about learning and growing. With the first one you don't know wtf you're doing but by the third one you got it on lock

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

No always. I am youngest and never received special treatment.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Jesus, she sounds like a psychopath. Any 18 year old who kills hamsters for revenge needs to see a clinical psychologist.

10 years ago | Likes 1505 Dislikes 3

Xhamster

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I think I'd need to know how 'accidental' the death was, We're getting only OP's side.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

Exactly.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I agree with most people here, your sister is fucking dangerous, you dont just kill helpless animals to get at your siblings, bitch be crazy

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

any *pers9n* that kill anything in revenge is pretyy fucked up.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

A 13-year-old pushing a 4-year-old off a flatbed is bad enough. 13 is well beyond the "cry for help" stage when children grow out of it.

10 years ago | Likes 102 Dislikes 0

Yeah, but 13 is the fully-retarded-teenager phase.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 3

Almost, Kevin

10 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

I get that reference +1

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

I didn't but I do now. +1 to both of you.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yay! Now is when we make psychological diagnoses with half of one side of a story! YAY!

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 22

Guys I think we found the sister... Hide all valuables.

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Wow, sometimes people here are worse than on 9gag...everything doesn't need to be black or white.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

one one half of an internet sob story. 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

I have a penis, so I'm unlikely to be anyone's sister. Sister is probably a shitbag, but none of us are qualified to diagnose her based 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Tell me a single thing with that could justify killing a hamster and making it look like an accident?

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Tell me how you know OP didn't just presume that the sister did it on purpose because she was always bullying him?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There's always the possibility that it actually was an accident...

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

What other side of the story could justify an adult doing this to a child?

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 2

The other side of the story might say some of this isn't true? People can assume things and call them facts.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

letting it out of its cage, but we're hearing OP's side, so we assume that was accident while the hamster was through malice. 3/3

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I couldn't even guess. Which is why I try not to judge until I hear the both sides. OP said sister claimed it was an accident. It's 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

20 year old. 20 Christ. Even a 19 year old throwing a ps2 into a pool is so immature it's not even funny.

10 years ago | Likes 547 Dislikes 0

amyone over like 12

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I hope she was at least made to pay for it.. If I broke my siblings stuff on purpose like that, I would be :p

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Something tells me she didn't admit doing it to her parents. People like this tend to be decent liars/manipulators.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Plug the playstation in and then throw her in the pool with it :P

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ah geez, my mental math is off today. I must go commit honorable sudoku

10 years ago | Likes 155 Dislikes 0

You must be tired, you probably meant subaru.

10 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

No way, you do that and you die!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

First fold a Frisbee really hard

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

It is the only option for you

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Either that, or live in shame. Up to you.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Too many upvotes now to delete comment and correct error

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

For what it's worth, the fact that sudoku is a number puzzle just makes it funnier.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Brennan is that you? Sorry if your not I had a friend who i lost contact with who used to say that all the time :/

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sorry, I'm not Brennan. Hope you're able to get in touch though!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Awe damn. Thanks anyway!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 125 Dislikes 0

Very clever

10 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

Do you actually get bubble butt pics?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not much anymore. Though I don't comment as much anymore as well.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

*seppuku, for those wondering, is honorable, voluntary suicide done by self-disembollowment (plunging dagger into abdomen). Then rather ...

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

...than let you bleed out, a bystander mercifully decapitates you.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Just because she's blood, doesn't mean she's family.

10 years ago | Likes 50 Dislikes 3

"The blood of the covenant-" and all that.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Obama means family!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

*Labamba

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

"Blood is thicker than water" was actually intended to convey exactly this. "The blood of the covenant is thicker than water of the womb"

10 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 2

Weird seeing someone actually get the quote right haha

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Is it right though?

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That is terrifying.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Can you find a source for that because I thought this was a later interpretation than the original

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I haven't read the originals, but there are a ton of examples. Just google the phrase + origin and texts from the middle ages come up.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Get her kids a drum kit for christmas. That should make up for a lot of your trouble.

10 years ago | Likes 314 Dislikes 0

A violin works wonders as well!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My father bought my kids these nerf like guns that fired "spit balls" (they used water) I still haven't forgiven him!! They were everywhere

10 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 0

Glitter works well too. Especially the gallon drums of it.

10 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Ahh good old glitter it's like the Devils dandruff.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I fucking love you for this response, I want to give you all the upvotes

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

The way she sounds it doesn't seem like it would be very effective. They'd probably "break" somehow.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

all of my loud and obnoxious toys would break too! they must be defective!

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I wish I could up vote this more than once.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

10 years ago | Likes 133 Dislikes 0

Point taken I know it gets worse :)

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

My niece has that...

10 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

Thats prob y shes a bitch

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

Pure....evil....

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Holy cow!

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It's only $10 on Ebay too. Just one click and you can drop ship it anywhere. No one man should have all this power.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0