DarthPiette
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I can't do this anymore to my fiancée. It annoys her. I feel like I can't be flirty at all with her and it is really starting to irritate me. I am sad.
Iwasoutedbyatroll
I still sit up and stare after 28 years whenever she is picking out her outfit for tomorrow and walking around topless in the bedroom.
svon1
Enavi
Vocalize your flirtation. Just establish communication and be honest. Then crush some puss.
JailNurse13
Ummm if it annoys her there is something wrong
ontheceiling
If she hasn't always been this way, it could be depression. People push people away when they're internalising sadness. She might not 1/
ontheceiling
think of herself being depressed. Approach with loving caution. There could be other things in her head you don't know about. Good luck x
FallOverGirl
Very true, when I hit a blue patch or get anxious my fucked up brain keeps telling me that they're lying/being kind/it's a token gesture.
ontheceiling
Mine doesn't actively tell me those things, it just gets all distanced and almost cruel. Such fun isn't it!
BillMcNeal
It's great, my wife knows, so we'll be in our bedroom after work and when I start talking too much she'll take her work clothes and bra off
BillMcNeal
Works every time
RavenPunisher1391
You guys got Shit figured out. It's awesome to read! :D
NiSiSuinegEht
Sure do. She's always shooing me off when she's trying to get ready for work.
danteismycat
I wish my bf stared at my tits more, they're pretty fab.
Ruprock65
Take what happens before you get married and magnify it by 1000% after you are married. Are you ready for that??
cakeresurfacer
After 7 1/2 years my husband does this all the time. It's a good feeling.
Snoot92
Would she rather you not be attracted to her? Like, that literally makes no sense to me.
FallOverGirl
Sometimes when my partners find me attractive I worry that's all that they like about me. People have whole hosts of insecurities.
theartofselfdefense
I'm willing to bet the sex will start to dry up pretty soon as well too, if it hasn't already. Just a taste of things to come, OP.
DawnWright
I got annoyed when SO did that. Realized it is my poor body image.Talked it through and it's getting better.Talk to her. Good luck.
GodGunsAndMillerLite
Fuck yea!!! Free dem boobies.
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
Exactly the same with me! I used to hate it, ended up with no sex for a bit either. Just because I felt ugly and frumpy
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
We're good now though, took a bit of work but it's much better.
WizardCatSaysWoosh
There are dozens of us! Dozens! Seriously though, fuck body image issues.
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
Agreed! Three kids has left me looking far from great, but he still loves me, and that's all that matters.
TheSkullNamedBob
@op. I feel you there Bruh.
cheezburgerzandchill
As a woman, i sometimes get insecure if he doesn't stare.
RavenPunisher1391
BOOM! Problem solved, everyone wins. :D
RavenPunisher1391
See this is one of the easy solutions. "Hey can you stare at me more when I'm naked? makes me feel much more amazing about myself."
BrilliantIdiot
My wife is the same way. She's always been that way. She's just not comfortable naked. Some people are like that, could be the same for you.
lifeisapicnic
Sounds like you're in for a lifetime of "I can't, I'm too tired."
HurtYou
My wife hit this stage. I asked her to be a little more giving. Nice calm conversations. Then, after at least a year, i said give it up 1/x
ILikedTheirOldStuffBetter
Yeah. Shit like this isn't gonna get better later.
CalmyKingBee
I've been married almost 3 years and she might as well be hibernating she's always so tired! D:>
beeratius
That sounds like an issue that needs a long conversation
grabatrokdil
Spot on
HurtYou
more often or at least give me permission to go elsewhere to fulfill this one need. She decided giving it up more would be a better idea.
SirKiwiOfTheFruit
Or can be hard to take a complement from a biased party when you don't share the same feelings about yourself. It happens
NatalieHasFun
yep
GeneralLowselFesteem
Try complementing her. Personally I think compliments are silly, but my SO really appreciates it so I do it. Something about confidence.
majorlow
Nope.
GeneralLowselFesteem
Yeap.
TotallyNotADogInTrenchCoat
They love it. Especially when you really mean what you say. :)
GeneralLowselFesteem
Indeed. Not like "dayum girl those som fine ass titties" unless your black. Then maybe? Is that racist? I dunno anymore. Friggin Internet.
IDontwanttohearyou
I do this every day. If your fiancee gets annoyed, it will change later when she knows you still appreciate her body.
TotallyNotADogInTrenchCoat
I watch my fiancee get undressed/dressed all the time. I usually just stare until she notices, trying to be creepy, but she loves it(1/2)
TotallyNotADogInTrenchCoat
(2/2) for some reason. Keeps saying I make her feel attractive. I get a nice show, and she gets a confidence boost. Win-win.
FallOverGirl
That's really sweet, it's nice to see a positive marital story in here.
sandmannet
I get super annoyed when my wife won't let me appreciate her super hot body.
MosesJackson
Sorry, buddy. You should seriously think about whether you want to end up in a sexless marriage.... Like mine.
Okiegoon
^5
FallOverGirl
I love having sex but physical compliments make me uncomfortable. I realised recently this is due to a subconscious fear that the 1/?
FallOverGirl
feelings they have for me are only based on the physical aspects of our relationship and once the novelty factor of that wears off the 2/?
FallOverGirl
feelings they have for me will fade as they get to know me as a person. Not saying that's the case here, just wanted it to say it's not 2/?
FallOverGirl
necessarily a death knell for their sex life. Maybe it's born from insecurity. (Oops that other 2 was supposed to be a 3) 4/4
steventheslothdude
I always give my gf sexy eyes if she's undressing. Even if shes just taking her pants off for a wicked shit, and shes still flattered.
mayhem83
Upvote for pre-wicked shit ogling
MyCatLikesToLickMyKnee
@paranormalpangolin
GarbageBird
and then she tells you no >:|
Gangsterhabits
I walk around naked ALL the time. Wife loves it....kids not so much
RyanAndNoahAreSluts
Are you my dad
alfrappucino
You gon learn today
cttypo
Married almost 40 years, and I’m in that cartoon. ?
KillingTlme
You probably shouldn't do it at the school you work at.
MissTCShore
What about the people at the grocery store?
LivingDecomposition
My mother would bitch all the time when my dad didn't wear clothes around the house
Heph333
That's one way to get them to move out.
MechaNinja
Why do you think we do it?
BigBadBillyBoy
They're 5 and 7.
DeTourGuide
Now this is a solid Dad joke. I snorted extra hard.
KeteQuinn
I, too, walk around naked all the time. But nobody loves it. :(
toriapinklotus
My mum used to walk around naked all the time, now I do! Teach your kids it's natural!!
WhateverIFeelLike666
Yeah it's weird. We could walk in while my mom's in the bath or changing and no one would care. I walk around in boxers tho and it's messed
dharris2
Simple, Mate. Take charge of the situation. Push her up against the wall and "express" your feelings instead of just making comments.
DarthPiette
I will try this.
goosetractor
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anvil
I would like to know how it turns out.
DarthPiette
Will be a dew days before I can. In another state for work :(
anvil
All I ask is that you honor the code of imgur, and deliver.
smackedup
Serious question, has she put on weight? She could be feeling bad about herself and subconsciously pushing you away because of it. Also...
smackedup
Are you being loving with her without it being about sex? Women often crave mental affection just as much as the physical. Talk to her!
DarthPiette
Oh yes. I crave the cuddling, if that's what you mean.
DarthPiette
10 pounds over the last year or so. Has complained about it, but told her she's still gorgeous anyway. She's 140ish right now.
smackedup
It could be the weight. It's hard to deal with it in our own mind sometimes. Honestly talk to her. Write her a letter if it's easier.
DarthPiette
Thanks for the advice everyone. Majority opinion is to talk to her about it. How do I even start?
bioskope
Tip her the next time she's walking around topless.
ApplesdaKitty
"Bitch, yo naked body so hot, If I saw you nude rolling down a hill Id be able to stop with no hands." "thinking of the idea, "lemme smash"
idontenglishsorry
i would go like this: when i do this shit and she tells me that she doesnt like it, i would ask why, whatever she tells me, i could tell 1/2
idontenglishsorry
her that i really, REALLY like her body and thats why i stare at her, and that i cant help myself to not do it since it is something i 2/3
idontenglishsorry
like
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
My honest advice, as hard as it can be, don't make it about you. Try asking her if she's ok, and maybe broach it as you love her and always
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
will, and you love every inch of her, but she's not seemed happy when you want to be affectionate. This may not be you're approach or what
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
Dammit, *your.
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
works in your relationship but when it happened to me my husband threw a mini strop because he wasn't getting any and it started an argument
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
Which possibly opened the floodgates, but the fight wasn't fun, that's all. If she doesn't respond then ask why it's annoying her because
OmgPleaseSendCoffeeASAP
you feel rejected or whatever. But like I said this was how it went for us, and how I wish it had been different. Don't know if it'll help,
bketnick
Be sincere. Explain that when you complement her you are honestly appreciating her beauty.
bketnick
And if she doesn't like verbal complements you may have to adjust. Winks, hugs, smooch noises. Find out the best way to tell her
Terraluna
Being sincere is the best way. Tell her you truly feel that way about her and that you just want to show your appreciation.
LokiTheLegend
I'd try and ask why/what about it bothers her. Sincerely- be clear you aren't being sarcastic. If you genuinely want to compliment her, 1/?
LokiTheLegend
try to figure out what is bothering her in the first place, and how you can either help alleviate that or work around it in a way to show2/?
LokiTheLegend
your appreciation in a manner you both find acceptable.