DedicatedtoOC
140
24
15
MRW my friends of 6 years hated me the whole time
TL:DR OP wants some friends
I suffer from severe social anxiety and depression (yes I do see psychologists and psychiatrists) and its never been easy for me to make friends.
All the way through primary school (grades 1 - 6 in Australia) I was an outcast, primarily due to my introverted behavior.
So when I entered into secondary school (grade 7 - 12 in Australia) I was thrilled when this big group of guys accepted me instantly into the group.
I found my anxieties and depression slowly slipping away and I was beginning to open up to them a little more and at the end of year 11 they started inviting me to parties and my life had never been better.
Its only now in year 12 that I find out that they have a facebook group dedicated to talking shit about me behind my back, coming up with ways to use me (I have a car and had music equipment as I am a producer) and they would also discuss ways of getting me to parties so I could get bashed.
I have had a full relapse and now I turn to the only place I feel somewhat excepted.
I don't want to vent or anything just want some people to talk with about anything.
NiteScar
The saddest part of this post, is the amount of time these "friends" spent orchestrating their schemes. Does one even life?
742617
HELLO OP
TheLordofThePing
Had no idea we had those problems in Australia.
unreal669
I know it's easier said than done, but Mate, never let the actions of a few dictate your feelings about the rest.
DedicatedtoOC
yeah i know, i try to stay positive but i mean pretty much half the school atm follows these kids, im just waiting for University now
RobStanhope
That's fucked up
DedicatedtoOC
i guess but i keep going along, hoping for a better tomorrow :)
mydamnkidsdontthinkimfunny
Don't TRY to find friends -do things you enjoy. Go places you like & once in a while look up to see who else is there. They share interests
DedicatedtoOC
fair points
Waaaaaaaaaaaagh
Sorry you had to deal with such assholes OP. Things do get better with time though, so stick in there friend.
DedicatedtoOC
will do man
Ultrabutts
People are shit. You are going to find that the junk that happened in school is incredibly irrelevant to your life within a few years.
DedicatedtoOC
thats the dream
Dyslexicfartcracker
Iv also experienced the same thing. It dose get better. I now have fun with nasty people
PlumSurprised
damn dude. Those are the worst type of people.
DedicatedtoOC
shame i have had them through a large majority of my life, just to come down to petty death threats and crap
Anthony817
Check this out. Once you leave the petty High School shit behind, and move into the adult world it is better. HS drama is so immature. 1
Temenos
Unless you're a girl, then it just becomes a thing where everybody pretends they don't talk shit unless they hear it directly
Anthony817
I also have extreme social anxiety, and am 32. I still deal with it daily, but you can get over it. I did at 23 and had a gf and job. 2
Anthony817
I was doing well, but I also relapsed. I have struggled with it for years now. I don;t even want to leave the house. I just want to say... 3
Anthony817
Fuck those guys and forget you ever met them. I had shitty friends like that too, but I learned to pick friends I am my own best friend.
DedicatedtoOC
haha yeah man, the dreams of a gf and adult life keep me going aswell as the music i make. Music is my life haha
ItsAllOgreNowFriend
So what you're saying is you walked into the path of oncoming traffic while holding an assault weapon?
DedicatedtoOC
no, I would LIKE to walk into oncoming traffic while holding a nerf gun (because weapons are banned in Australia)
ItsAllOgreNowFriend
What would holding a Nerf gun accomplish? Surely walking into oncoming traffic without one would be the same?
DedicatedtoOC
holding the nerf gun is to hope to have them get scared and have more reason to run me down
ItsAllOgreNowFriend
Yeah, because the first thing a driver does when they see a kid in the road with a bright orange gun is stomp on the gas.
DedicatedtoOC
u would be surprised what people will think with a little bit of paint