“She needs a meal”

Jan 18, 2018 7:16 AM

professionalbear

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Having a girlfriend that’s on the skinnier side has really shown me how toxic society has come in zeroing in on protecting just one type of body image for women. It seems that all the “body confidence” campaigns and ads are only attributed to heavier set women and never show women that are lighter or struggle in gaining weight. I’m constantly having to reassure my gf that I find her body attractive amidst negative influences from social media, the public, and even her friends telling her that she’s too skinny and needs to eat more. It’s so much more socially acceptable to tell someone they need to gain weight instead of lose it and that needs to end.

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Blame lazy, feckless whales who would rather die young than admit they could solve their issues with an ounce of restraint.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 5

It's more the over-compensating types that irk me. I think they're ones that latch on the this positive fatty image. I dunno.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

It ebbs and flows, back in my day it was all about thin waif women.

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Same here bro. My gf is a tiny and struggles to gain weight. Genetics

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What I'm getting from this is that being a skinny female is basically the same as being a straight white male in today's society

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I think the issue is most of these "thick" women are not thick at all

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

I’m sorry she feels this way but it’s not the same. https://everydayfeminism.com/2014/10/skinny-shaming-not-reverse-discrimination/

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

The world is a shitty biased mess my dude.

8 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

That's why I play War Thunder. No bias.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

For many decades being curvier was seen as gross or not desirable. Now the media has taken it to the extreme in the opposite direction.

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I've never liked fatties.

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

This is good stuff!

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Or men..

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Honesty, as a woman on the thicker side, I find the campaigns annoying to watch. They're literally everywhere, and when someone brings (1/)

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Up anything revolving around the word healthy, they become a giant target. It's getting out of hand. I'm all for body positivity, (2/)

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just don't be a bitch about it even someone opposite of you celebrates theirs. (3/3)

8 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

When someone opposite of you*

8 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

In early 90s, the fashion was skinny girls, which lead to a big amount of girls suffering from bulimia and getting hospitalized.

8 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

It took more than 2 decades to get people to "accept" their body statures and forms = because we are beautiful as we are.2/3

8 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

But do not feel desperate - in a decade or two, skinny girls will be "fashionable"again. For example - chubby ladies were modern through 3/4

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

the entire Renaissance. The guilt for these "fashions" are the artists (like Rubens), and lately the photographs in big fashion houses.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm a guy, but still-- I'm 5'10" and I've been 135 lbs since hs, +- 3. Short of keeping myself overfed to the point of nearly throwing up >>

8 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

at all times, "eating a meal" won't change anything e.e;

8 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I don't have a lot back there *to* shake, but it's generally been pretty well received <3

8 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I am same 130-140 usually only nibble until I feel full on food never overeat even on thanksgiving 5'10" or so. don't care what peeps think.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Mostly the same, I just get a little annoyed when I'm given advice like OP says his gf gets.

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My grandparents used to give me shit like "oh he's so scrawny" at least we're healthy right? I just shake it off and live my life best I can

8 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0