It's a genuine question! I should stop drinking now...

FriggoffMrLahey

Just because you look at someone sexually sometimes doesn't mean you only view them sexually.

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VaneloppeVonSchweetz

One of the most valid points I've ever read.

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WildlifeAnalysis

have an upvote

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ellcrys

I've actually seen a number of good articles on this subject written by lesbians. Can't put my hands on links at the moment, (cont)

11 years ago |

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WildlifeAnalysis

would be interested if you could find them

11 years ago |

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ellcrys

But I know I've seen conversations about this and it's something that is a source of conflict for some lesbian women.

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Purphikt

I believe that defines every feminist. Everyone is guilty of being sexist whether you notice it or not.

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HeyOP

Shut up you stupid slut I'm in no way sexist.

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TheWanderingPoet

I'm not sexist. I hate everyone equally.

11 years ago |

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wererat2000

#notallfeminists

11 years ago |

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Purphikt

All humans.

11 years ago |

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wererat2000

I'll concede that, humans ARE a bunch of bastards...

11 years ago |

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Purphikt

I just mean there's a shit ton of double standards that are overlooked. Even the word feminism, it should be humanism and thats it.

11 years ago |

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ikissalldabirds

I'm a lesbian. I don't objectify other women. It's not difficult. I also don't hate men even if I believe in equal rights for both genders.

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Th3V4nguard

You never ever objectify women? Never once see an attractive woman walk in a room and just think "yes, she's hot?"

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ikissalldabirds

Sure, but I don't think of that person as just a piece of ass fo "fap" to, which is the difference between attraction and objectification.

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Th3V4nguard

I think I've been looking at too much Tumblr on Imgur because I almost forgot attraction was a thing on its own. You're right. I'm sorry.

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WildlifeAnalysis

i'm not saying anyone does, but some things can be easily defined as such - so to be attracted by it, is one not equally culpable?

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ikissalldabirds

being attracted to someone and objectifying them are two different things.

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WildlifeAnalysis

of course - but is there never a situation where you see a pic that you know is obectifying (not a word i know!) but you find attractive?

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ikissalldabirds

I don't find the objectification of women (or men) attractive, so no. The mere objectification is a turn off.

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WildlifeAnalysis

so you've never seen an image of someone you don't know trying to be 'sexy' and been attracted?

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It's a genuine question! I should stop drinking now...

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