S.O of almost 10 years asked me to move out.

Honestly I'm just really broken by this. She accused me of cheating on her. Stating that by talking to a high school classmate. A girl I've known since I was 14 Is classified as cheating. She used to work her hours at work and come home and occasionally go out with co workers. Lately she's been out every day after work. She she leaves at 5am and doesn't get home till 7pm. I on the other hand leave after her and I'm home before her lately. Mind you we have a dog that is expecting someone home at a certain time and it hasn't been happening so our dog has been using the bathroom in the house.

I went to confront her on her being out late and our dog. Text her to let her know is like to sit down and talk today and this all came out in text message.

She also stated that she feels like she walks on egg shells when talking with me or being around my family. I'll admit that I occasionally get upset with some of the stuff she says/does but I've never called her names nor touched her in a violent manner. The family that has done her wrong I no longer talk to, while the family I do bring her around always question why she doesn't interact with them. They question why she doesn't talk or if she doesn't like them. I've encouraged her multiple times to talk with them when she is ready.

She basically told me today that she will go out whenever she wants, stay out as late as she wants and I don't have a say. I don't mind her going out, I just want her to help with the responsibilities of our dog and house and spend some time with me after work.

She wants to separate for a few weeks and see where we stand after this time. I already know this probably won't end well. I wish I picked up on this sooner so we could have worked it out. She's an overall good person and I don't know what to do.

Tl:dr: S.O asked me to move out today for various reasons.