Hey usersub, help a gal out, how do i tell a guy that asked me to watch a movie that i just wanna be friends without coming off as a bitch?

Aug 8, 2016 5:01 AM

devilsbitch

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a cute kitty for your trouble

Say it plainly and if he gets all huffy, walk away. You don't need that.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

no meams yes

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

With that username, not sure if there is much we can do.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Keep in mind that he might be meaning it non-romantically also.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Slug him in the shoulder. Call him dude. Then tell him lets just be friends. Then do something nice for him. Then give him anal sex.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Did he ask just to watch a movie? Or did he say "go on a date to watch a movie"?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Cue: "hey, i just want to be friends. Sorry." - Guys like it direct and without any kind of second meaning or other crap.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Be honest. Guys don't do subtlety.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Say it very clearly with specific words before he has the chance to make an ass of himself. He'll appreciate it eventually.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"You do not appeal to me as a potential sexual partner, yet I recognize your value as a platonic companion. The movie is on me, dude."

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

There's no great way to do it, unfortunately. The 'best' option is to be direct, pleasant, but firm.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

There's a good chance he'll deny having any interest in being more than friends, and it's probably best not to question it.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Tell him straight forward, in person preferably.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well, I'm always fond of the direct approach. If a woman beats around the bush and only hints that she's not interested - I'll miss it.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

You say no to the movie and get on with your life

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's hard to pin something good to say down, so i'll start with the bad. Don't scream Satanic verses then stab him in the abdomen.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Hope this helps.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Do not attempt subtlety. Smile, eye contact, bluntness.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"I don't want to come off as a bitch, but I don't want to go any further than just being your friend."

10 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

Can confirm as a guy this would work

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Just subtly say you are my best friend in the world

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Grab his dick, say "I don't want this, ever" and smile and continue the movie.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

tell him without any subtlety, and do it asap.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

If you believe it to be a romantic thing, the best course of action is to be upfront about it. He might get offended, but that's on him.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

punch him in the face, slash his tires, and give his toilet an upperdecker.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You could try, ya know, just telling him

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I've seen posts that are the opposite POV, where a guy askes for advice about a girl who just wants to be friends but he wants more 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

2/2 They always tell him "forget that bitch and move on". Can't blame OP for asking the obvious.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Gently, but with no ambiguity. "You are a great guy, but you're not my type."

10 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

Bullshit. Not direct enough.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

thanks, ima use this

10 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Tell him you just want to be friends... There's no bitch in there...

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

you're right but im trying to not be so blunt

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

At the risk of misleading a guy on, it's better to be blunt, trust me, I'm a guy...

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

here's what i said 'you're a great guy but your not my type, i'd love to watch a movie with you as friends'

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You explain politely that you're flattered he likes you, but you're not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with him and you'd

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

2/2 like to remain friends

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"I just want to be friends." You just told us, tell him the same way. Why make things so fucking complicated?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

you are a bitch if you cant handle a movie

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

yea but i dont want him trying to kiss me or wrap his arm around me like he did last time

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

no? Then why put yourself in the same position?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

cuz friends are nice, and i feel bad for the guy, he has no friends

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

i have no friends. feel bad?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

just break his little heart and be done with it. crush his soul into nothing then move on.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

took care of it, read the edited description

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

he says he's making brownies for the movie too, we're seeing aliens

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

oh, well, brownies!!! hey!!

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0