Marriage Equality ≠ Real Equality

Apr 8, 2013 4:53 AM

atlantisboy10

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Okay, I'm a gay man, and I have a bone to pick with the whole "marriage equality" thing...

Marriage for us gay people is great, but I'm scared that people might think that marriage equality means total equality

The problem is that 29 state still have no discrimincation protections for gay people on the books

And anti-sodomy laws still exist on the books in 18 states (although the Supreme Court has thankfully invalidated them)

There is still hate for gay people in the United States, ranging from religious fanatics...

... to someone just using the word "fag" in a derogatory manner

Too many young people, like these pictured here, have killed themselves because they felt they could never be accepted as gay

So don't be deceived by this logo, which implies marriage equality means total equality... it doesn't

Equality for marriage a good start, but real equality is something that will be much harder to achieve. It isn't won with Supreme Court decisions, or when laws are passed... it's won when a gay people don't have to fear for their personal safety, or their jobs... when they don't feel the pressure to kill themselves because they don't belong. It's won when a young gay children can come out to their families without fear of rejection, among many other ways. Until then, there is no true equality.

And now since you were kind enough to indulge me in my rant, I present this unbelievably adorable corgi gif as a reward...

Laws will not change some people's attitudes. Unfortunately there are people that don't like others.

13 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Great job OP! Thanks for sharing. Hope you recieve the respect and support you deserve and make it to the front page.

13 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 9

.............who would downvote this?

13 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 7

Who is being such a jerk to this post? I'm upvoting everything...

13 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

yep and this is why colorado is a great state.

13 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

I wanted your share your post with a friend. I was rather sad and disappointed that it was not on the front page :(

13 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's insane to me that there are people out there that take the time to protest Gay marriage, that is absolutely ridiculous.

13 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 6

As a gay man, I don't think referring to people who don't use their blinkers as huge fags is that bad.

13 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 3

Treating gay people difffeerent from anyone else is just as silly as treating someone different due to their race.

13 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

As a black person who has experienced racism. You have my full support in being happy and treated fairly.

13 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Just to clarify: I do think marriage equality is AWESOME. I can't wait to get married some day. I'm just saying it's not the solution

13 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 4

You're totally right. I cannot believe how many states fail to protect PEOPLE from discrimination based on sexual orientation/identity. +1

13 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Personally I think laws "protecting" workers or any race gender or sexuality are retarded. Just gives people a reason to sue if theyre fired

13 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 9

Love how I get down voted for a fact. If people get fired for being a shitty worker they wont hesitate to pull the discrimination card

13 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2