Who's the asshole?

May 2, 2020 2:14 AM

meeowzerz

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Renting a room in a nice house from a guy who was really alright until lately. Came home and house smelled really bad. Opened doors and aired it out. No big deal. Mentioned it to him, asked if he was smoking (cigarettes) in his room. Said "yea, sometimes." I says ok. Didn't tell him not to. Just asking. Woke up to this.

Had to tell someone. Not feeling so good.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Well, at least he was kind enough to write out exactly what your next step needs to be.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Leave. Use this as proof. Good luck, op.

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

The handwriting looks so identical to an ex-boyfriend of mine, it caused a mild panic attack.

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 1

This was your warning sign. Ignore it at your peril.

6 years ago | Likes 319 Dislikes 1

Run bitch run.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

You’re paying rent? Then it is your place.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

....aaaaand that’s why I don’t have roommates. I love my tiny old house.... all to myself, Thats the way.gif

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Is that person called, "Edam"? If so, that's the problem... The house DOES smell... Of cheese.

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Definitely pack your shit and leave. And if he's just renting too, mention it to the landlord when you're handing in your key.

6 years ago | Likes 50 Dislikes 0

If you're renting, it is your place and you have some rights.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

All of the rights

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If he was alright until now, Maybe he’s going through something. Nothing you can do but leave if you feel you need to

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Pleasant.

6 years ago | Likes 70 Dislikes 1

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Edam sounds like an asshole.

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Super glue everything in place inside the fridge on your way out. If he has ceiling fans I recommend putting mustard on top of the blades.

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

Sounds like your a pro.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Shit in his shoes and leave a similar note.

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I have a roommate who wanted to evict me over asking if she would get around to fixing the WiFi she broke. Called me a victim, to fix WiFi..

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Sadly I recently had the same thing. Woke up one day to post-it notes around the house saying "This is mine. Don't F___ing touch".

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

That's so weird. It's like, who the fuck thinks that's an effective way of communicating?

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

in the midst of his rant he mentioned he was in an abusive relationship for 12 years. Not sure if his attitude is the result or the cause.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I asked him about it and he goes into a long rant accusing me of things I never did, and threatening me for talking back (correcting him).

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Later that day I went to the police. Within 2 days I had moved out. That guy had issues and I was not sticking around while he sorted them.

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Good!

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Fish boiling time!

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

On drugs..move out now

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

It looks like a white envelope, but it's a red flag.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

What is he smoking?

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

According to another comment and ops reaction... meth

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Meth, probably.

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Are you going to move out? All the comments are pretty scary so I hope you’re ok

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

A real cowardly move.... leaving a note. He isn't man enough to talk to you face to face.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

He’s an ass for that, but he’s probably right. Yours are two incompatible lifestyles.

6 years ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 9

...mentioning a bad smell exactly once = incompatible lifestyles??

6 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Someone who cares if it sometimes smells of smoke and a person who smokes indoors are not compatible lifestyles for tenant and owner

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

*overreacting to someone mentioning a bad smell once indicates incompatible lifestyles.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

yeah.... regardless. I think it is time to find a new place to live. You dont need that kind of passive aggressive bs.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Let the games begin. Step one change the cutlery drawer to another area

6 years ago | Likes 68 Dislikes 9

Move everything in the common areas 2” to the right or left. It’s not blatant but it fucks with you.

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Step 2 send someone they know flowers with an appropriate card

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 2

Step 3: death

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

No step # 3 listing their house for sale!

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Oooh you're the lasagna post, your food looked amazing, this guy clearly doesn't deserve your food either

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Do exactly what the note says. Pack your shit and move. No good will come from this.

6 years ago | Likes 2125 Dislikes 2

Ya next thing you know he’s going to lock you out...

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yeah that’s a red flag. Don’t bother waiting for the next one, because there will be a next one, and a next one...

6 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 0

Make sure to post that publicly so that other people know his douchebaggery.

6 years ago | Likes 59 Dislikes 0

Why do people who do not want roommates rent a room out... People act like if they rent u a room you are nothing and GTFO if u don't like it

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Agree. I knew a woman who rented out a room. She charged this poor guy 600 a month and had him doing chores. He wasn't allowed to 1/2

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

2/2 eat any of the food in the house or use the laundry room. He stayed because he had night terrors and PTSD. He couldn't live alone. Bitch

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yeah I agree.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I agree. On my way out. Applied for an apartment and should be there on the 15th if all does well. Not my first time running.

6 years ago | Likes 708 Dislikes 1

Be sure to tell us if he flips out.

6 years ago | Likes 38 Dislikes 1

Massive red flag.. watch your back.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Good on you. Like everyone said, staying is just going to lead to more issues. It's not running, it's being sensible. Best of luck.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hey, you're that quilt guy. Go move in with your Mum and share more quiltssss

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

*guy is gender neutral where I'm from

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

It's not running. This is wisely choosing to remove yourself of someone who is visibly incapable of living with someone else. Fuck that shit

6 years ago | Likes 56 Dislikes 0

And document everything.

6 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

Pro tip: poop in the top part of his toilet before you leave - it’ll make for a fun scavenger hunt for him down the line

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Well, you really have no choice but to move out now anyway. It seems the upvotes have you.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nice, if you're on a lease, he just gave permission to break it!

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Before you leave, buy a fresh fish and hide it in the air vents

6 years ago | Likes 415 Dislikes 12

Actually, buy some Limburger cheese and toss it down a heat vent. My dad did this as a joke to my friends dad growing up and it was so bad.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

or, you know, be an adult and realize this person has serious issues and it's unkind to kick a person when they're down. Whatevs..

6 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 4

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 3

Fish is for amateurs. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ABV7RCM/

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Shrimp. It reeks

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Someone I know hid a Reuben sandwich for weeks = no smell, I was baffled. Bag of boiled brocolli is the real game changer.

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

Put some teabags in the shower end.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Which comedian shrimped his daughter's dancing school because the teacher was a twunt?

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Two words: Upper Deck.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Nah, shrimp. Much smaller, easier to hide, just as smelly when they go off.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Teal talk.

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

Petty, but I like it. I’m with this person.

6 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 2

Uncep the ends of curtain rods and hide a shrimp in it. Cap it back up. They'll never find it

6 years ago | Likes 256 Dislikes 2

I see you watch tacoma FD lol

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

? Make sure you point out that he OWNS the curtain rods. That way, he takes them with him to his new place.

6 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 0

OMG, didnt a guy do that to his cheating wife?

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Yup then she sold the house for super cheap cause the stink and he secretly bought it back from her. She took the curtains when she left

6 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

6 years ago | Likes 67 Dislikes 0

Tacoma FD!!!

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Or cut a hole in the ceiling in case you need to shit into his apartment later

6 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 2

@ChefShwasty

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It works

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 1

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Holy hell, that's fantastic

6 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

i came to post that.

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That's really evil, and it lets me enjoy my milk steak while I make it. Boiled over hard

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

If it smells like nasty cat piss he’s smoking meth not cigarettes

6 years ago | Likes 819 Dislikes 2

Furniture polish is meth.

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Is that why sketchy fools always have cats they don't care about? Blame the smell on the cats?

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

.... God, that explains why my "parents" refuse to clean their litter boxes as regularly. It's to cover the meth smell.

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Smoking meth does not emit an odor btw

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Either that or drone

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Crack is cat piss

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

so much shit makes sense now... I grew up (for a stint) with my extended (and now distant) family and wondered where the cats were.

6 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Is there cat piss that isn’t nasty?

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yes

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Shit. I went to school with a girl who reeked of cat piss and cigarettes

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Would an apartment smell like that for years after continuous use? I moved into an apartment and my closet always smells of cat piss

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

not sure if it's better or worse, but that might just be actual cat piss. the smell is ridiculously hard to get out

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I'm about to move because of it. I've done everything

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

explains the irrational response

6 years ago | Likes 151 Dislikes 0

That also speaks to the paranoid response note.

6 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

That's also why he gets so defensive, it makes you paranoid

6 years ago | Likes 54 Dislikes 1

My first association was fox pee. But cat is similar.

6 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

It smells like burning a cooking pot’s plastic handle to me

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

How do you know what fox pee smells like?

6 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

6 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

About tree fiddy

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thought the same thing

6 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It smells like meth.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

you can buy bottles of fox urine and other animals, when poured in peoples cars it makes for sufficient retaliation to shit...

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Have you never been in the woods smelled and saw a fox burrow?

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

Or in the Zoo?

6 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Yes, my Zoo holds only foxes so if there's a smell I know for sure it's coming from foxes.

6 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Burnt plastic where a cat peed onto to extinquish the fire if you ask me

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Wow i never knew that....

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Oooooh! I never knew that's what that was! I have been in places that smelled like this, but there were no cats!

6 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

?

6 years ago | Likes 591 Dislikes 0

Yeah fucking run.

6 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

If that’s correct gtfo. I had a roommate a long time ago that I knew forever and got addicted. She started stealing all my shit

6 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Ok, now i fully support the fish in the vent idea

6 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Time to gtfo if hes on meth before you wind up dead

6 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

That's what it smelled like huh

6 years ago | Likes 316 Dislikes 1

Pack your shit, buy new locks for all the doors, change them, leave a shitty note. P.S. all different door locks, dont leave the keys.

6 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 22

That’s criminal. As much as I’d enjoy this, it could lead to many many more problems.

6 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

Like calling a locksmith?

6 years ago | Likes 0 Dislikes 1

Why would you do that to someone? It IS his house, even if he's an ass.

6 years ago | Likes 36 Dislikes 1

Yeah this is dumb. Moving out will already create enough problems, now he’ll have to find a new renter while smoking meth.

6 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Why not? 50 bucks for a locksmith. Oh well.

6 years ago | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

Can confirm, had a roommate who did heroin and meth. House smelled like cat piss and bitumen when we got back from a weekend away.

6 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 1

I know what bitumen smells like!

6 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

6 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

that would also explain the hostile behavior. Cigarettes usually don't have that effect. Meth would.

6 years ago | Likes 188 Dislikes 0

Additionally meth heads will be up all day and night while you sleep, so just imagine this idiot having hostile thoughts at you at 3am.

6 years ago | Likes 42 Dislikes 1

Maybe give the police a hint on your way out?

6 years ago | Likes 64 Dislikes 3

Snitches get stitches. In this instance, possibly actually stabbed.

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Well as long as you give the hint anonymously and don't tell the methheads where you live you should be fine

6 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

My brother stayed with a clean, responsible roommate who over night turned in to a meth addict. It can happen, I guess :/

6 years ago | Likes 75 Dislikes 0

Yeah my sister and ex brother on law were just normal stoners then BLAM fucking psycho

6 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 0

I did the same! Was renting a room in my friends house, & damn near overnight he turned into a psycho asshole fuck demanding $$ constantly

6 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0