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First of all this bitch may possibly be the worst person I have ever had the displeasure of knowing. She would not only find the smallest of things to start an argument. And I know that sounds like everybody else's ex, but she would tell her sisters and mom and then they would call and text me to help her in her argument. Eventually I was informed that she had cheated on me with a guy in his forties that she met at a bar while out drinking with her sister. (We were both 20 at the time.) Now fast forward two years. I am reacquainted with a guy I played baseball with in high school. We decided that we would catch up over a beer. We hang out a couple times, talk about cars and what we have planned for our own cars. I have a part for my car I needed a hand installing and he drag races and has access to a shop so he happily agrees to lend me a hand. While I'm on my way over he calls me and asks if it's cool if his new girlfriend can come too since she is really into cars and wanted to experience working on one. I was fine with it until I got there. I walked in saw her and wanted to just turn around and leave. She was quite and eventually started feeling "sick" so she left. A part of me wanted to warn him of her crazy ass family and her psycho freak outs, but he seemed genuinely happy when talking about her. I felt like I had no right ruining a relationship. I still don't know what to do, I know I can't face her without saying something, and I feel like if I just stop talking to him it will seem suspicious. Sorry for the long story, just don't know what to do.
tl;dr
Meet old friends new girlfriend, she's my crazy ex and don't know if to warn him or not.
lowcaloriedarkness
People can and sometimes do change, I'm a better person now then I was with my ex and I have exes that have mellowed a lot since as well.
HairyGodFruit
Tell them op
GBMaker
It's a longshot, but sometimes she gets diagnosed for bipolar disorder and gets treatment, so she isn't psycho anymore. It could happen.
HSRalt
Maybe their relationship is different. Sounds like he is not close enough to you to fall under the bro code. I would leave them alone.
zenoghost1
He will find out eventually that she is your ex. Its better that you tell him now.
HSRalt
Maybe they have a different. If she has not changed: doesn't sound like he is a good enough friend to be to fall under the bro code
DevPool
I'd just tell him you dated her. You can't change the past, if he wants that batshit, let him have it.
ChicagoAJ
One man's cunt ex is another man's soon-to-be cunt ex.
Unluky
You are a true wordsmith, +1.
wolfhair
Best to let him know ahead of time. You can leave off the cheating part, but at least mention that you are her ex.
rocketdonkey
If you don't speak up, that shit is on you.
jonestown
If she's half as bad as you say, she'll tell your friend a bunch of shit about you that isn't true.
SuzukiMethod
You should at least let him know you were with her... otherwise she probably will and that could mess up your friendship... just saying.