Black Dads Post Pic of Daughters, Get Bashed with Hate

Feb 4, 2014 8:42 PM

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Kaleb and Kordale with their 3 daughters

This is the photo that triggered the terrible backlash

Posted to instagram with the following note:
Being fathers is getting our daughters up at 5:30 am making breakfast getting them dressed for school and putting them on the bus by 6:30 .This is a typical day in our household . It's not easy but we enjoy every moment and every minute of #fatherhood. #proudfathers #blackfathers #prouddads #gaydads

The photo elicited a stream of racist and homophobic remarks on the couple's instagram feed, but Kaleb and Kordale refused to remove the image.

Soon, the hate was stemmed by an influx of loving and supportive comments from around the globe.

This is just a reminder that the year is 2014, and we still have so far to go. Luckily, there are so many brave and open minded individuals that keep progress marching forward.

In response to the backlash, Kaleb and Kordale posted this:

As far as the positive; yes we are two gay men with three kids who have no problem with preparing them for their education every morning; that comes with anything and everything they may need for school! Our kids are blessed to have three parents (Kordale, Kaleb and their Mother) who love, care and support them in every decision they have made and will continue to make as they get older. We are blessed to have the ability to provide for them in ways that a lot of people cannot for their family, which ultimately makes us happy knowing that they don't want for much! Our main objective as parents is to provide, love, educate, support, encourage, and love some more!

In regard to the negative, people fail to realize that we are people too with kids who love us. We do what is necessary for them to succeed in this ever-changing world but it's sad that we're discriminated against because of our sexuality and/or what we do behind closed doors — which is no one's business. In the same breath, we take all of what's been said in stride. The picture was put out on social media for an opinion so we can't be mad when people give just that: an opinion. People tend to think that gay people cannot raise their children to be heterosexuals. Instead, they have derogatory thoughts of us "tainting" our children or "confusing them" with what society sees deems as wrong an unmanly because we're gay. But this is all comical because people forget where a lot of gays come from: a heterosexual household.

These dudes look bad-ass AND great parents. +1

12 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 3

ISn't one of the kids a son....as in, two daughters and a son..

12 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 2

11/10, would want as dads. I already have two great fathers, I just want two more.

12 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 4

Are they good parents? If yes, the rest doesn't matter and I don't mind. If people mind, they don't matter.

12 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 2

TL;DR but +1 for loving families ^_

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 5

Didn't really need to read it hey?,,, the happy fam part is blatantly obvious! +1

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

^_^

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

wheres the downvotes coming from? I thought imgur was for super cool people

12 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 4

Complain about downvotes? That's a paddlin'.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

There are always haters swimming around the edges, wishing they were relevant.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I don't care if they're black, i dont care if they're two guys. I am just happy that they are there for their daughters.

12 years ago | Likes 191 Dislikes 10

Which is all anyone should care about :)

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

i think their youngest is a boy!

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Off-topic: if you had contracted 'they are' one more time, you would've had a hat trick in that second sentence.

12 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

I must admit that the reason why I clicked on the + was only to see if someone else noticed.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Repost this forever.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Call me an old fashioned bigot, but I believe selfies are wrong.

12 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 6

I see you. I see you and your jokes.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ha

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

As a straight man, that is one sexy couple.

12 years ago | Likes 107 Dislikes 8

"straight"

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

Although you dont need to be straight to know when someone's ugly as f*ck or good-looking as a motherf*cker.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'll second that!

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Am I missing something? Why would they remove their own photo from their own Instagram feed? Then again why would strangers care about it?

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

Because people have nothing better to do than judging others and telling them what's "wrong" with them to feel more secure about their lives

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Have you ever heard of two gay people having a child they don't want? Your move, straight people.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Oh Lord, think of the amount of dad jokes they will be given

12 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 5

Dad jokes are best jokes.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

They are all wearing burberry in the family pic, id say theyre doing a damn good job of parenting

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Good parenting always a +1 for me.

12 years ago | Likes 941 Dislikes 25

I couldn't help but ... are black guys born ripped?

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I think the majority should get their fathering game on lock before throwing stones.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

As a black man, these pictures are fucked up. How come those kids get two dads and I can't have one?

12 years ago | Likes 59 Dislikes 5

:(

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Hey, you shouldn't have let him go out for cigarettes :P

12 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I'm glad Carlos Boozer and Kenneth Faried came out. Good for them.

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

Just prior to this the dads attacked a journalist, biting his leg and drawing blood.

12 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 3

iunderstoodthatreference

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

As a straight woman.. holy cow those dudes are hot.

12 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 3

I wanted to hit like twice, but Noooooo. Can't happen ):

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Laughing happy children, and parents who care. Not really a threat to "Family Values." Constructive and instructive, but not destructive.

12 years ago | Likes 704 Dislikes 23

1/2 - It is a threat to "Family Values" to the people raging about it because they have none or are shitty parents

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

2/2 - (because clearly they are shitty people). These people make them look good. And we can't have that.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I would have killed to have parents like that when I was growing up.

12 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 2

they are cute as fuck

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 5

"But this is all comical because people forget where a lot of gays come from: a heterosexual household." Damn, that's.. damn.

12 years ago | Likes 253 Dislikes 13

How about that he felt it was necessary to point the raising of kids to be heterosexual. Uhh... How? I thought it wasn't a choice..

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 9

(3). I think that's a good damn argument not heard enough. We shouldn't care about the kids growing up gay, unless we pretend to accept them

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

Ellen something similar. Along the lines of "I grew up around a lot of heterosexual people and they didn't rub off on me" xD god i love her

12 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 1

Ellen said* =/

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(2)... or something that can be taught at all. If we have acceptance, why do we care if they grow up gay at all? Either way, sad to see.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

That's a powerful sentence. That one floored me, and I'm already supportive of LGBT people.

12 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 4

Larg Gatorade with Bacon and Tomatos

12 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

1/2 I'm going to be sexist, racist and stereotype gays all in one go. Ready? Heeeeerreee we go! Three black girls raised by two black gay

12 years ago | Likes 379 Dislikes 33

I really thought this comment was going to piss me off. Way to prove me wrong!

12 years ago | Likes 66 Dislikes 1

YOU ARE SO WRONG!! They have a son and 2 daughters ;) Otherwise, you're SO RIGHT!! :) :)

12 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 2

It said 3 daughters up there. Granted the youngest looks like a boy.

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

2/2 guys?? Those are going to be the sassiest people on the entire god damn'd planet when they grow up.

12 years ago | Likes 449 Dislikes 13

I was so ready for this to be terribly hateful.

12 years ago | Likes 108 Dislikes 0

Sassiest *best looking* people LMAO!

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

^ 'I think it is good for children that gay black men can marry... its harder for them both to run away.' ^

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

That's okay....this world needs more sassy women.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh .... yeah... sure.... whatever you say.......

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It's even more surprising that BOTH fathers are still in the picture!

12 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 18

*slowclap*

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Lol. While I'm completely supportive of these guys and everything about it. If there was going to be a racist joke in here, you just won it.

12 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Funny quip, but I bet it won't be true. They will have dealt with so much shit (from other people) by adulthood, they will be WAY past sass.

12 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 1

DAD STOP SNAPPING YOUR FINGERS IN A "Z" AND SAYING "OH NO YOU DIDNT!" ITS SO ANNOYING OMG!

12 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Really sickens me that people gave them shit. Looks like a loving family

12 years ago | Likes 197 Dislikes 18

One of the reasons they were getting shit was because they posted the pic on an adult themed tumblr, which to me was slightly inappropriate.

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

Right? I did not have such a loving home when I was a kid. Those girls are blessed. Also, lol @ the hair brushing face.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Who cares what their sexual preference is, they're all freaking adorable. The world needs more awesome fathers like this.

12 years ago | Likes 111 Dislikes 10

*orientation, A preference would be like "you prefer to do it standing on your head while eating mayonaise"

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

*parents like this*

12 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yes but I feel like a lot of society gets down on dads for being like this with their kids. It's "expected" of mothers.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I bet the kids bedrooms are fabulous.

12 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 4

FABULOUS

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

FAB-U-LOUS

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I am outraged. Kids that age shouldn't be expected to be on a bus by 6:30. That's when I start to think about getting up.

12 years ago | Likes 1119 Dislikes 21

as a swimmer, I'm up at 5 to be in a pool by 5:30 :P

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I had to be at the bus stop at 6:40AM every morning for my whole 12yrs of school life. 7:20AM school start. Sucks.

12 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

When I first saw that photo and caption I honestly thought that's why people were upset.

12 years ago | Likes 97 Dislikes 2

Bless your heart

12 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

Well, here pretty much all schools start at 7am, so waking up at 5:30 was kinda standard

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wait! there's a 6:30AM? I always thought that was a myth. Thought the world started at 10 am :/

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

That is when I am still asleep, and then two hours later, I start pretending to be awake.

12 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I have young kids. We leave the house at 6:30. School's 30mins away. Work's another 30. Sometimes it's necessary. :/

12 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 2

Same for me. So we leave the house at 8:29am.

12 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

No bus?

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

No. They go to a catholic school out of district. Plus they're still too young to wait for it without a grownup.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I rode the bus to Catholic school every morning from kindergarten up. Annoying there's no bus for you.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Inner city schooling is all about the 6:30 am bus rides.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

School starting that early is actually literally making kids perform worse. Kids - hell, NO ONE - functions well at 6 fucking AM.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

First you made me angry. Then you made me laugh

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

6:30am? What's that? O.o

12 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 0

Bedtime?

12 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

it's ok sweetheart, anything before double figures is a figment of your imagination. *pat pat pat*

12 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

You mean 7:15 right? that's when you start thinking about getting up. even when school starts at 8

12 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 2

I can get out of bed at 8:20, shower and eat and still arrive early.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wish I could do that

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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12 years ago (deleted Feb 11, 2014 8:47 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

I can get to school before the time I need to be there by.

12 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

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12 years ago (deleted Feb 11, 2014 8:47 PM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

If I had to be anywhere at 6 fucking 30 in the A fucking M, an all-nighter would be in order.

12 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I used to work at a gym. Being alone in the entire facility at 0500 was an amazing feeling.

11 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0