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Kaleb and Kordale with their 3 daughters
This is the photo that triggered the terrible backlash
Posted to instagram with the following note:
Being fathers is getting our daughters up at 5:30 am making breakfast getting them dressed for school and putting them on the bus by 6:30 .This is a typical day in our household . It's not easy but we enjoy every moment and every minute of #fatherhood. #proudfathers #blackfathers #prouddads #gaydads
The photo elicited a stream of racist and homophobic remarks on the couple's instagram feed, but Kaleb and Kordale refused to remove the image.
Soon, the hate was stemmed by an influx of loving and supportive comments from around the globe.
This is just a reminder that the year is 2014, and we still have so far to go. Luckily, there are so many brave and open minded individuals that keep progress marching forward.
In response to the backlash, Kaleb and Kordale posted this:
As far as the positive; yes we are two gay men with three kids who have no problem with preparing them for their education every morning; that comes with anything and everything they may need for school! Our kids are blessed to have three parents (Kordale, Kaleb and their Mother) who love, care and support them in every decision they have made and will continue to make as they get older. We are blessed to have the ability to provide for them in ways that a lot of people cannot for their family, which ultimately makes us happy knowing that they don't want for much! Our main objective as parents is to provide, love, educate, support, encourage, and love some more!
In regard to the negative, people fail to realize that we are people too with kids who love us. We do what is necessary for them to succeed in this ever-changing world but it's sad that we're discriminated against because of our sexuality and/or what we do behind closed doors — which is no one's business. In the same breath, we take all of what's been said in stride. The picture was put out on social media for an opinion so we can't be mad when people give just that: an opinion. People tend to think that gay people cannot raise their children to be heterosexuals. Instead, they have derogatory thoughts of us "tainting" our children or "confusing them" with what society sees deems as wrong an unmanly because we're gay. But this is all comical because people forget where a lot of gays come from: a heterosexual household.
Yowhatthehellup
These dudes look bad-ass AND great parents. +1
catdogismycampkasemname
ISn't one of the kids a son....as in, two daughters and a son..
Gonefishing
11/10, would want as dads. I already have two great fathers, I just want two more.
renderman
Are they good parents? If yes, the rest doesn't matter and I don't mind. If people mind, they don't matter.
QQTrain
TL;DR but +1 for loving families ^_
stillcleaning
Didn't really need to read it hey?,,, the happy fam part is blatantly obvious! +1
QQTrain
^_^
CabalGroupie
wheres the downvotes coming from? I thought imgur was for super cool people
ThisNameIsMaybeTaken
Complain about downvotes? That's a paddlin'.
stillcleaning
There are always haters swimming around the edges, wishing they were relevant.
TheDepartmentofRedundancyDepartment
I don't care if they're black, i dont care if they're two guys. I am just happy that they are there for their daughters.
thekidwrites
Which is all anyone should care about :)
M4RN13
i think their youngest is a boy!
hoodgriller
Off-topic: if you had contracted 'they are' one more time, you would've had a hat trick in that second sentence.
NaturallyHighPenguin
I must admit that the reason why I clicked on the + was only to see if someone else noticed.
roninswanson
Repost this forever.
PleasenomoreEmmaWatson
Call me an old fashioned bigot, but I believe selfies are wrong.
Warranty
I see you. I see you and your jokes.
LateTunnel
Ha
imsorrydaveimafraidicantdothat
As a straight man, that is one sexy couple.
leeardamer
"straight"
leeardamer
Although you dont need to be straight to know when someone's ugly as f*ck or good-looking as a motherf*cker.
JacobDando
I'll second that!
tarataqa
Am I missing something? Why would they remove their own photo from their own Instagram feed? Then again why would strangers care about it?
SilaBen
Because people have nothing better to do than judging others and telling them what's "wrong" with them to feel more secure about their lives
cmc8290
Have you ever heard of two gay people having a child they don't want? Your move, straight people.
abbypks
Oh Lord, think of the amount of dad jokes they will be given
JediKnight
Dad jokes are best jokes.
iAmMichaelScott
They are all wearing burberry in the family pic, id say theyre doing a damn good job of parenting
groenefee
Good parenting always a +1 for me.
SashaTheGray
I couldn't help but ... are black guys born ripped?
H8tred
I think the majority should get their fathering game on lock before throwing stones.
MMPRMastodon
As a black man, these pictures are fucked up. How come those kids get two dads and I can't have one?
stillcleaning
:(
matrix86
Hey, you shouldn't have let him go out for cigarettes :P
Grumpis
I'm glad Carlos Boozer and Kenneth Faried came out. Good for them.
ThatDwarfWhoStealsYourOpinions
Just prior to this the dads attacked a journalist, biting his leg and drawing blood.
stillcleaning
iunderstoodthatreference
LoveEngineFive
As a straight woman.. holy cow those dudes are hot.
Kayaker
I wanted to hit like twice, but Noooooo. Can't happen ):
guairdean
Laughing happy children, and parents who care. Not really a threat to "Family Values." Constructive and instructive, but not destructive.
sweepingzero
1/2 - It is a threat to "Family Values" to the people raging about it because they have none or are shitty parents
sweepingzero
2/2 - (because clearly they are shitty people). These people make them look good. And we can't have that.
HarryPotterGeek
I would have killed to have parents like that when I was growing up.
TheChosenAsiangirl
they are cute as fuck
krysyoyo
"But this is all comical because people forget where a lot of gays come from: a heterosexual household." Damn, that's.. damn.
stutteringbob
How about that he felt it was necessary to point the raising of kids to be heterosexual. Uhh... How? I thought it wasn't a choice..
stutteringbob
(3). I think that's a good damn argument not heard enough. We shouldn't care about the kids growing up gay, unless we pretend to accept them
AllTheTurtles
Ellen something similar. Along the lines of "I grew up around a lot of heterosexual people and they didn't rub off on me" xD god i love her
AllTheTurtles
Ellen said* =/
stutteringbob
(2)... or something that can be taught at all. If we have acceptance, why do we care if they grow up gay at all? Either way, sad to see.
AlmightyHamSandwich
That's a powerful sentence. That one floored me, and I'm already supportive of LGBT people.
N0CashValue
Larg Gatorade with Bacon and Tomatos
jsktrogdor
1/2 I'm going to be sexist, racist and stereotype gays all in one go. Ready? Heeeeerreee we go! Three black girls raised by two black gay
futurenurse
I really thought this comment was going to piss me off. Way to prove me wrong!
stillcleaning
YOU ARE SO WRONG!! They have a son and 2 daughters ;) Otherwise, you're SO RIGHT!! :) :)
TheRecklessMightyB
It said 3 daughters up there. Granted the youngest looks like a boy.
jsktrogdor
2/2 guys?? Those are going to be the sassiest people on the entire god damn'd planet when they grow up.
hotterthanthebottomofalaptop
I was so ready for this to be terribly hateful.
stillcleaning
Sassiest *best looking* people LMAO!
imsorrydaveimafraidicantdothat
http://i3.kym-cdn.com/entries/icons/original/000/010/319/almostpolitically.gif
funkmaster40
^ 'I think it is good for children that gay black men can marry... its harder for them both to run away.' ^
wheresmycabanaboy
That's okay....this world needs more sassy women.
jsktrogdor
ehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh .... yeah... sure.... whatever you say.......
ThisNameIsMaybeTaken
It's even more surprising that BOTH fathers are still in the picture!
jsktrogdor
*slowclap*
therespectrum
Lol. While I'm completely supportive of these guys and everything about it. If there was going to be a racist joke in here, you just won it.
JasonD
Funny quip, but I bet it won't be true. They will have dealt with so much shit (from other people) by adulthood, they will be WAY past sass.
jsktrogdor
DAD STOP SNAPPING YOUR FINGERS IN A "Z" AND SAYING "OH NO YOU DIDNT!" ITS SO ANNOYING OMG!
Stolf
Really sickens me that people gave them shit. Looks like a loving family
DoNotHappyTooMuch
One of the reasons they were getting shit was because they posted the pic on an adult themed tumblr, which to me was slightly inappropriate.
delonwheels
Right? I did not have such a loving home when I was a kid. Those girls are blessed. Also, lol @ the hair brushing face.
chickieboomboom
Who cares what their sexual preference is, they're all freaking adorable. The world needs more awesome fathers like this.
ChildOfThanatos13
*orientation, A preference would be like "you prefer to do it standing on your head while eating mayonaise"
stillcleaning
*parents like this*
chickieboomboom
Yes but I feel like a lot of society gets down on dads for being like this with their kids. It's "expected" of mothers.
iMightHaveBeenDroppedOnMyHead
I bet the kids bedrooms are fabulous.
lexaflex
FABULOUS
stillcleaning
FAB-U-LOUS
tinyhighlife
I am outraged. Kids that age shouldn't be expected to be on a bus by 6:30. That's when I start to think about getting up.
TheRedCup
as a swimmer, I'm up at 5 to be in a pool by 5:30 :P
akki14
I had to be at the bus stop at 6:40AM every morning for my whole 12yrs of school life. 7:20AM school start. Sucks.
callmescrappy
When I first saw that photo and caption I honestly thought that's why people were upset.
plazmatyk
Bless your heart
stchameau
Well, here pretty much all schools start at 7am, so waking up at 5:30 was kinda standard
BEWface
Wait! there's a 6:30AM? I always thought that was a myth. Thought the world started at 10 am :/
eviscera
That is when I am still asleep, and then two hours later, I start pretending to be awake.
LivinginLuling
I have young kids. We leave the house at 6:30. School's 30mins away. Work's another 30. Sometimes it's necessary. :/
kestert
Same for me. So we leave the house at 8:29am.
Ninjafrog
No bus?
LivinginLuling
No. They go to a catholic school out of district. Plus they're still too young to wait for it without a grownup.
Ninjafrog
I rode the bus to Catholic school every morning from kindergarten up. Annoying there's no bus for you.
DeadGodJess
Inner city schooling is all about the 6:30 am bus rides.
mechanimated
School starting that early is actually literally making kids perform worse. Kids - hell, NO ONE - functions well at 6 fucking AM.
devasto
First you made me angry. Then you made me laugh
Meowdouken
6:30am? What's that? O.o
scorpion7
Bedtime?
itsamazing
it's ok sweetheart, anything before double figures is a figment of your imagination. *pat pat pat*
TheRealMNightShyamalan
You mean 7:15 right? that's when you start thinking about getting up. even when school starts at 8
AerysIITargaryen
I can get out of bed at 8:20, shower and eat and still arrive early.
TheRealMNightShyamalan
I wish I could do that
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AerysIITargaryen
I can get to school before the time I need to be there by.
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gingerkangkang
If I had to be anywhere at 6 fucking 30 in the A fucking M, an all-nighter would be in order.
pelusita35
I used to work at a gym. Being alone in the entire facility at 0500 was an amazing feeling.