Honestly, I'm lost.

Oct 25, 2016 1:54 AM

PlatypusInterrobang

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I currently work in a call center. I have been there for 3 years.

I've worked in a toy store, in an auto dealership, as a photographer, in a metal stamping factory, with horses, in food service, in a convenience store, in a street performing group, and as a social media lackey.

My degree is in English with a minor in Art & Design.
My only marketable skills are Customer Service and my Sales experience, and I hated sales.

I used to have a solid dream- to be an Art Teacher, but I was a terrible student in college and flunked out of the education department.

Just had to rant.

Same here, 31, early career academic... started hating academia, gonna find something else to do after this

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm 32 and a college freshman with no idea what I want to do. Spent lots of time gaining 'real world experience' though.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

With a degree in English, you could become a Copywriter at an Ad Agency. You'd get to make TV ads.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I swear that our generation is having their mid life crisis early across the board. We have to be adults so early maybe. I don't know.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I was exactly the same. At the age of 28 I just picked something that mildly interested me and stuck with it. I'm 40 on Friday and have ...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

.. just finished my 3 years at college to become an electrician. Remember pal, time waits for no man.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

.. just finished my 3 years at college to become an electrician. Remember pal, time waits for no man.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Medias got us believing we should be some top tier bloke with some iconic job. Literally, do what makes you and those around you happy.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

As a linecook, most people look down on us because of how much our yearly income is. But honestly, cooking is where I feel most at home.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

You misspelled 'parents' and forgot the emphasis on 'UNDER PRESSURE.'

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I am 23 and working a great job where I feel fulfilled and make a difference. Loved it until I realize w/ traveling so much having a long1/2

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Term relationship is nearly impossible without the right person... who I can't find since I am never in the same place. 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm 33 and few months ago i realized i want to be software developer when i grow up :)

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Lol 36 and Im more lost than I were at 28

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yes, exactly!

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'm the same man, I'm 27 I'm at UPS almost 3 years, I set up a retirement and figured fuck it is can stay here for a bit lol

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Find a tech school/CC with a good welding and art metals program. Learn a very marketable skill that has a large artistic/ design overlap.

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

39, just a few years from military retirement, and I don't know what I want to be either

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

25, have a bacc. degree in economics, unemployed for like 2 and a half years, have no work exp. and hate myself so much. I'm lost too buddy.

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Not being sarcastic, and I'm not a recruiter lol, but have you ever thought about the military? Air Force, or Marines or something?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's not really my fit. I think if the country is not capable od helping citizens through good reforms, and not care at all for (2)

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

"ordinary" people, then the country isn't worth to be protected.

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I wanna be a fire truck

10 years ago | Likes 130 Dislikes 0

Ahhh, advertising, eh?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Do you want to be a fire truck or do you identify as a fire truck? It's OK, society just misunderstands you.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I believe in you

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Perfect. Just perfect

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I've been an Elementary and High school art teacher with a BFA in Fine Art. Florida has an alternative certification program.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I had the same problem back in college and someone told me to clear my mind for a couple weeks by not letting myself get bored (1/?)

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(2/?) It's easy to get bored when you don't have a routine or you let things like TV take up a lot of your time. So I stopped watching.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(3/?) I realized that I was good at writing and gave myself more time to do that. I'm a journalist now. I love it.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

(4/?) It basically let my brain think for itself instead of wandering around for entertainment. Cleared my mind.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Someone asked me once a question that changed my life. He said instead of asking what do you want to do, instead ask... 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Well, Platypusinterrobang, sometimes you do what you love and sometimes you do what pays you enough to do what you love.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Yes! A hobby that doesn't get tied to money is awesome (speaking as someone who became but now isn't a music teacher).

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Oh you hate your job? You know there's a support group for that. It's called the bar. We meet there everyday around 8. -George carlin

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

28 years old, I've been in the same job for 5 years(I started as a temp,) I was taking Analytics/Programming at college. Dropped out 1/2

10 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 1

Because I have no idea what I want to do with myself. It's not an easy thing figuring ones life out! 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

So are you are programmer now?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Same boat, can't figure out if this is what I want for life or I'm just comfortable and scared.

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

I think it's too much comfort.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I'm 24 and I'm on the same boat. Got a BS in Comp info systems, no job. Trying for a Masters right now because doing nothing makes me wanna>

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Same here 25 and applying for a master degree in graphic design.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

SHOOT MY FUCKING BRAINS OUT.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

I'm 48. I'll let you know when I figure it out.

10 years ago | Likes 66 Dislikes 0

I'm 28, working as hard as I can for my dream career, but in the end I might not make it. Adulting is hard @op , *hugs*

10 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Sure is. What're you shooting for?

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'm a published author now, but i'm not a NYT fancy pants author,all the money I make get's basically cycled back into my career#thestruggle

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Hey, that's awesome. I love editing, if you ever need help.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Thanks babe, my publishing house handles the edits though, all that stuff is pretty much out of my hands. I appreciate you though!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

:) had to offer. I do some editing for friends that self publish and for my wife's grad school papers.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

UX Designer and Tech-com writer. They play to your degrees and make Bank after 5 years experience.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

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10 years ago (deleted Dec 1, 2017 4:08 AM) | Likes 0 Dislikes 0

I'm a front end dev. Big stuff.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I'm 27 and sometimes feel this way. Degree in Poli Sci, enlisted in the Army, am now using GI Bill for my masters. I hated the bullshit.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

When i got my degree i didn't envision working in a call center. I always wanted to illustrate childrens books but my high school [1/2]

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

[2/2] art teacher told me there was no point as everything would become digital, turns out he was right but it still sucks. 27 here!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I have been a 911 Dispatcher for 5 years now. Thought Id love it and honestly hate my life now. Dealing with 8-16 hours of other people's (1

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Stress then dealing with my own has cause me to be on multiple meds, can't sleep, can't eat and still day after day I keep doing it. (2

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You get comfortable then grow to scared to move around. Even if you feel like you're doing something worthwhile, don't settle. (3

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I know I do my job well but I have one life just like you. Make the most of it.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I'm the same, and almost 50...holy fuck, I'm that old...shit

10 years ago | Likes 318 Dislikes 2

My 39th is just behind the corner, and ditto. Still have most of the dreams of my younger self, but even less sense of direction than I had.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yeah really, I was gonna tell this twit to let me know how it is in 21 years.

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

This is why I love the LOTR, Bilbo was 50 when he started his adventure. although i am much younger there is always time for greatness.

10 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

but he also looked 60 when he was 111, so not as much in a hurry...

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You're only as old as you... or is that the person you're feeling?

10 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Hi dad

10 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

I think " Grandpa " from now on

10 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

More like brother to me. Sup?

10 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

You too? Oh thank god, I thought I was just a 46 year old slackass!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

seems there's actually a lot of us

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well, at least I'm in good company!

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

me not included I hope ;)

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

46 and I'm right there with you. My oldest turned 25 this year, I don't feel THAT old!

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Just turned 50, and I copy that loud and clear. Cheers, mates. And by mates I mean y'all!

7 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm 44 and I still have no idea.

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Now im scared..

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Me too. 50 in December. :/

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Same... fixing to be 40 in a couple of weeks.. smh..

10 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

and time just speeds up and the years fly by

10 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

holy shit am 25 and i feel the same

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

24 today and already thoroughly stuck in a career I hate :(

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

So try again, @OP. Being a teacher is something we need. If you WANT to teach, do it. Quit trying because you failed once. That's saddening.

10 years ago | Likes 88 Dislikes 4

I don't know where the heck you live, I have a teaching degree but have been floating a crappy office job for 2 years due to no jobs.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Great advice

10 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You don't even need an education degree to be a teacher. In fact, most of the worst teachers I've ever seen went that route.

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I wouldn't want a f teacher to teach my kids

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I'm not sure it's what I want to do. I came from a long line of teachers- (grandmother, mother, aunt, two of my cousins once removed.) 1/

10 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 1

My little bro became a teacher. He loves it. But he also was able to find a job. 2/2

10 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

Art is gonna be hard to find a job in. Oversaturation. IF YOU HAVE THE HEART FOR IT, sped is super fun, incredibly rewarding, high demand.

10 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

1. Teacher here. Persistence and borderline stubbornness is required. I went through 37 applications and 9 interviews before my first offer.

10 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 0

My brother's a teacher. Was laid off 3X. Got certified in special ed (where demand is). Lives in Las Vegas and makes almost 100k.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Forgot what my point was but it's in there.

10 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

2. It definitely sucks at first (both finding a job and salary at times). Subbing is actually a great way to really find what you like.

10 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

3. Keep at it, and don't give up on it. If you really want to know if its what you want, look at being an EA somewhere, usually non-licensed

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