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They used my internet history to try to prove I did
I wasn't in the state when she claimed I raped her
I had never touched her when she claimed I raped her
The main piece of "evidence" they had was I liked Rape Fantasy Porn. I'm a victim of child molestation and would never hurt anyone in anyway. I cry like a baby when I watch sad movies ffs.
But because my fetish is fucked up and she accused me of it when I dumped her cause she was abusive, I'm labelled a rapist whenever I feel comftable telling people
I AM NOT A RAPIST. I HAVE NEVER HURT ANYONE IN MY LIFE.
NuVanDibe
The media is what makes you guilty or innocent. If you're innocent of rape, but the media paints you as guilty, you "got away with rape."
Starkiller02
Sue that mother fucking asshole
ddrfr33k
Welcome to the shitty double standard. Sorry that happened to you.
looseasamoose
Recently saw a guy get assaulted in a bar followed by the women alleging to police that he had done something to her first. He didn't want
looseasamoose
To press charges cos he's not that kinda guy... Buddy she's that kinda girl. She walked away from that experience empowered to do it again.
ElegantKitty
That really sucks, sorry. :( <3
T5Kyle
Women who falsely accuse a guy of rape should go to jail in his place for destroying his life even tho he's innocent.
EaRapture
Fuck her OP. Well, don't. Poor word choice, but you get the fucking idea.
Embronyx
Oh my GOD that bitch should be in jail. Or dead.
Moxteth
I've been going through something similar. Our legal system is a mess.
Smurfeteisaslut
That's exactly what a rapist would say
yaymuffins0
If it's true it sucks, but spare the sob story. Those most likely to abuse are those who were abused, that's not a defense
DoktorVyle
You were raped/molested, Clearly that means we should just assume you're a potential rapist and or molester. You have dog shit for a soul.
sunmartian
Where is a statistic that backs that up?
unappropriate
As a person who fits that category, my shrink says that shit all the time
sunmartian
I'm sorry. :(
ImNotFunnyISwear
Just curious, why rape porn though?
ImSynnical
porn can become very desensitizing and you often expand your "research" for results for things that peak your interest
Ezzybells
For me I like porn that is a bit more extreme than I would do IRL. Plus you know they are just acting (badly) so it's not like getting off >
Ezzybells
2/ to an ACTUAL rape.
TheyEatThePoopoo
Can't get off to anything but rough sex. It's why it's been three years since I've gotten laid. Don't want to hurt others.
sarasauri
Same here, there are girls into rougher shit and being dominated in bed
ImNotFunnyISwear
No, I am a girl who does like rougher sex, I guess I just don't like the 'unwilling' aspect that I would see there. Wouldn't BDSM work?
SirSparblington
wait your search history ?
TheyEatThePoopoo
Rape Porn was the evidence.
SirSparblington
brb
juzsayin
She must have claimed it before the history search. That is also evidence.
TheyEatThePoopoo
She claimed it and they couldn't prove I did. Turned into a character assassination trial. Tried their damnest to convict until she recanted
juzsayin
Recant is the key then. Shouldn't have left that out of the post. Was there a Trial? Did she recant on the stand?
TheyEatThePoopoo
No, she recanted in private either to the DA or the Police. I don't know how all I know is I don't have to spend another second around her.
Armourhotdog
All you need to do is write a letter to the DA once a week requesting they charge her with purgery. Doesn't require a lot from you.
digitiliad
She can't be charged with purgery.
Armourhotdog
If she gave any statement under oath, then she can.
digitiliad
Trust me, she really can't be charged with purgery no matter what she did.
HonorableJudgeFudge
Sue that bitch and the county.
Cammo353
@OP sew her, her family, her lawyer, the judge, and the state for the living hell they've made your life into
Cammo353
Sue*
itsthevoiceman
Civil and criminal charges on her. Get a damn good lawyer. Get her put in ail for false rape accusations. Set a precedence.
WTFantastico
They used your porn preference to try and stick you for a crime? That's...not upsetting...at all...for me...*cough*
ProbablySatire
Perjury. This is perjury (sp) and is illegal.
neverforgetthefuture
Please tell me you are taking them to court for defamation of character..
HitlersArtCritic
Thats a thing? I thought it could fit under "slander" but I don't know the differences, and ether way it still hurt.
Highlander8795
If this were me I'd rather just put it all behind me and try to get on with life.
torpedotor
Her* ("Them" is plural. And don't any of you DARE to make the claim, "Well, now society uses it as a singular pronoun--NO! Just... No.)
liesuponlies
They/them has been used as an unknown/gender neutral singular for a couple hundred years colloquially. We just refuse to make it proper.
torpedotor
https://media.giphy.com/media/12lV980pEpWM9i/giphy.gif
5knotcans
Triggered!
Armourhotdog
Ya, not exactly relevant to the conversation. Thanks for the unwarranted input tho.
neverforgetthefuture
torpedotor
https://media2.giphy.com/media/xEpTspH9hGwHS/200_s.gif
neverforgetthefuture
*Never
torpedotor
https://media.giphy.com/media/NSkzSW10834u4/giphy.gif
somenerandom
People accused of sex crimes should be kept 1000% anonymous until proven guilty ffs. Also, can't you sue back?
Yenno
My old university assumed rape when I had a girl over past curfew and I had a couple of beers in the fridge. I was under investigation
KyleG410
How did that end?
VAiSiA
pulled over
Yenno
I transferred
nekuth
...but have you ever looked at yourself in the mirror and said 'I'd rape me'
alenfishman
She should be in jail.
Senofa
Some people have made some good arguments that falsely accusing rape should be a crime
Senofa
Obviously it's a complex issue that isn't fixed with such a simple answer, but an interesting idea nonetheless
hiimhar
I'm in a similar situation OP, just not with rape, I had my mugshot plastered all over the news the other day, and I'm not guilty.
hiimhar
You know the truth, don't let others define how you are seen by new people
JerfyMcGriddles
You know how the internet works right?
Baldknight
Have you learned nothing from us man! ALWAYS USE PRIVATE WINDOWS AND/OR CLEAR YOUR HISTORY! Also, sorry this happened.
ShadowedTruth
Private Windows.. I feel bad for that guy, he's seen some shit...
itsthevoiceman
Your search history can also be a saving grace, considering time and place of search. 2 sides to every coin.
nerdyvet
So basically, search "clean" porn actively, "filthy pervert porn" privately? P:
SankingDragon
ISPs keep the data. So the court can subpoena for that info.
nerdyvet
They can, but the prosecution would have to know the info was there to bother looking. Obvs. the GF knew and dropped the info.
poopiekins
Oof.
corditedelite
Some. Isp i worked for only counted it.
SnarkyScience
I would've suggested VPNs with no logs, but now that is considered "probable cause for search and seizure".
SankingDragon
No, really? Can I get a link for that?
SnarkyScience
This is fairly balanced discussion: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11604112. Now FBI can "judge shop" for a warrant due to jurisdictn
SankingDragon
Well that's certainly more calm than I was expecting.
JerfyMcGriddles
It isn't the sentencing that makes people guilty in the eyes of the public, it's the charges. You should see what legal recourse you have.
bowmanthered
At the very least OP has a lucrative defamation suit.
wfwood
based on the previous submissions, OP has a really strong imagination, but maybe not a lawsuit.
TMStage
You're funny. Nobody will TOUCH him because "they don't want to discourage real rape victims".
JerfyMcGriddles
Yeah. Pretty much the best course at this point. Also moving very far away and paying professionals to bury internet search results.
nerdyvet
The last bit there is important--You can totally get yourself cleaned off the internet.
JerfyMcGriddles
Not entirely cleaned, but... definitely clean*er*.
seemetrollinh8in
There basically are no options to get justice because the law doesn't want to prosecute rape liars. So he's boned on that.
TimePressure
This is why you should stop publicizing charged people's names in the U.S.- as a German, this is devastatingly stupid practise.
JerfyMcGriddles
You're not wrong.
HitlersArtCritic
"They were being charged with the murder of an entire family, there's no evidence proving it, but lets just say he's guilty for views"
Textuality
This is why the cries of "rape culture" always piss me off. Simply being ACCUSED of rape is enough to destroy someone.
CuriosityKills90
Your kink is totally valid. As a kinkster and s/assault victim, she's a lying PoS. This is why people that do this shit get away with it
CuriosityKills90
I seriously hope things get better for you soon - people can be a/holes, try not to let it get to you. (By kink I also include fetish/taste)
CaptainShutTheFuckUp
No one is proven innocent by our justice system. They're not guilty. Very different concepts.
Fahargo
That is the very problem. You're not supposed to think oh they just didn't have enough to convict him. If they can't prove in a court 1/2
Fahargo
of law someone committed a crime it's literally the highest judgement that can be made. You're feelings don't mean shit.
CaptainShutTheFuckUp
At no point during a court process is someone *proven* to be innocent. They're just *not* proven guilty. We work on the legal assumption (1)
CaptainShutTheFuckUp
of innocence. (2)
CaptainShutTheFuckUp
My feelings? There's a very good reason why we say "not guilty" instead of "innocent". And that's because we can't differentiate the two.