I’m glad she feels good about getting the offer, sad she’s definitely passing

Nov 1, 2021 10:45 PM

neospor1n

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“Yea come work for us, we will pay you 0.75% more than your current job”
She’s like “I told the recruiter they shouldn’t waste their time if they can’t get to $xxx”. Recruiter said “we can make that happen!”
Spoiler: Recruiter did NOT make it happen

I've refused TWO jobs like that in the last few years. If you let them undervalue you, they will.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Never should have happened. Either recruiter didn’t tell mgr or mgr is a cunt. Wasted everyone’s time. I’d be cautious w/that company.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

Recruiter job is to get you in the door, they have nothing to do with salary negotiation.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

A competent recruiter will present a candidate to a hiring manager with a full overview, including salary requirements.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You’ve only just learned that recruiters lie?

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Recruiters will tell you anything just to get someone in front of a hiring manager.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Never issue ultimatums unless you're willing to back them up.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Agreed, good thing she’s prepared to walk

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Sounds about right

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Walk away. This is only the start of their fuckbaggery.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Good for her. My wife took a job two years ago that paid less than she was making, but it's 40 hr/wk, period, and great bennies.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Yeah, recruiters suck. They get paid a commission, so they're just trying to place you anywhere, it's a numbers game for them.

4 years ago | Likes 49 Dislikes 1

Not all recruiters are paid commission. Shit rolls downhill and we’re at the bottom.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Last recruiter I worked with, who was very junior, I made this guy's career because I landed a senior role and negotiated the pay myself.~

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

~but he gets the finders fee aka commission.

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I think thats all their job really is... connecting people, not negotiating.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

That is literally most recruiters jobs. It’s the hiring manager that determines pay to offer. I wish I had the ability to determine rate.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

yeah it just seems like a lot of people in the comments are blaming the recruiter... I don't see how a recruiter benefits from lowballing

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Never got a job offer of real value through a 3rd party recruiter.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Internal recruiters don't usually work on commission. External ones usually do. It pays to know which you're dealing with

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

And they usually get a cut of your wages for 6-12 months or longer.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I loved my recruiter. They setup interviews, find good jobs. Got big pay bump. She still sends me Christmas gifts 2 years after I moved on.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Not a great start by the company to show they value her

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Recruiters are almost always full of empty promises

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

I would be like "Oh, 10% below my minimum? That's cute; but guess what? My minimum is now 25% higher. Would you like to keep arguing?"

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

I hope she didn't accept.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nope. She’s petty, they said they’d have an offer next week so she’s slow playing the “no”. Has a different interview today

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Cool. This is actually a decent time to be a worker in the US. Lots of opportunities. Hopefully she gets something good!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Easy. "As I mentioned, $X is my minimum, would love to work there for $X+. Please pass along my appreciation"

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Always put out a number higher than where you actually want to start negotiations, to set the expectation higher.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

(... I meant that for the result, not the annoying character. Hope she gets the money.)

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Easy solution is to lie to recruiters about your current salary. They know perfectly well you won't leave for less than current

4 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Yes, unless the employer is one that does financial background checks, in which case you will get caught. Good to research that ahead

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sounds like a great company to avoid working for anyways. Not worth the time. Just keep applying to jobs.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Eh, financial background check is due diligence for bonded roles, security clearances, adminning banking systems, etc.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Plot twist. I'm referring to the bank using a background check as part of salary negotiation which is not ethical.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

an alternative viewpoint is they hire people with integrity. the salary check is to verify your truthfulness.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Happened to me a while back too. “i’m making $40k, need more” - “yeah we can easily beat that”- weeks later “the position is yours for 29k”

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

It’s that metric to English conversion ask them to multiply by 2.2

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

IT Recruiters: Hi, we saw your profile. 20 yrs in IT, looking for sys admin level in state. How a/b an entry level job 2000 miles away?

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

I just got offered an IT Manager position for $26 an hour now benefits. Hard pass.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

A friend offered me a Senior Sys Admin postion & be the primary support contact for 3 distribution centers in addition to supporting the 1/?

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

the other distribution centers. B/c I'm in Vegas they wouldn't move north of $80K/yr. Good luck filling & keeping someone at that salary 2/2

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

*they being HR. My friend couldn’t get them to budge.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

This happens to me once every 2-3 months.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

I put >NO SALES< on my recruiting profile, an STILL get emails abt Insurance Sales jobs paying 1/3 of my current salary.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I use to get that all the time until I pulled my monster.com profile.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I read the spoiler in James Earl Jones voice.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Mufasa, Vader, king from coming to America, or coach in Beet of the best. Be more specific

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Field of Dreams

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Wait, field of dreams or the sandlot? Just wanted to make sure you and I are on the same…field

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Terrence Mann.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Fkin recruiters

4 years ago | Likes 140 Dislikes 4

Ridiculous the amount they charge the businesses to find qualified staff just for them to turn around and fuck over the applicants as well.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Yeah this

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

You should mean f*ck companies. We’re just paid people pushers unfortunately and get 90% of the shit.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I've had recruiters hit me up for 6+ months about a job with Nike that they've interviewed me for twice. Finally told them to fuck off.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

I'm so fucking tired of recruiters. Consistently ask me about jobs without reading my resume and then when I check THEIR linkedin...

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

...it becomes blatant they job hop like every 9 months so they have 0 buy-in with their company and probably are incompetent.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Like why the fuck can't recruiters hold down a fucking job? Why should I work there if you don't want to?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Are you so terrible at your job you have to hop this often? Why don't you read my fucking resume its right there!?!

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Glad she's passing. She should reward them by working for them after that

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Linkedin profile says "Recruiters don't waste my time if your offer is less than 6 figs". Get my time wasted on the regular.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

They're either hoping she won't negotiate aggressively or they cannot afford her. The smart thing in both cases is a firm counter offer.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Recruiters lie

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

Whoa whoa whoa…don’t generalize about an entire group of people.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Generally, I agree but out of the countless recruiters I've dealt with for far, only one didn't lie.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

As a former recruiter, they're right. I can count on one hand the number former colleagues I trust.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Gotta send them a message. If they want talent, they need to pay more

4 years ago | Likes 210 Dislikes 0

I have no talent

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

That'll be the bad kind of free market, socialist free market which is not very murican

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Not really, we only had to interview 14 people to find one that would work for the offered pay.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Best part—recruiter said “we know we tend to be below market” WHY WOULD YOU SAY THAT TO SOMEONE YOU ARE RECRUITING?”

4 years ago | Likes 52 Dislikes 1

i would expect a reason to follow, namely additional benefits

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I work below market value, but I actually enjoy the work and such. Money isn't everything. But if you pay low AND the job sucks....

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Because they're trying to be forthright, and hoping that factors other than pay will appeal to you. Would you rather they hide that?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That company culture tho.........

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

It _can_ be worth it, as long as "below market" isn't "can't afford to live in town"; plus other benefits, like HC. I had that exact convo >

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

with a recruiter once. In reality, though, they weren't under market; they were trying to undercut their competition. "We're a little under>

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

market. Oh, your other offers are even lower? Guess those places suck, then." I used that "under market" offer to negotiate at better place.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

But wait, do they have a bunch of people from different races and cultures smiling on their website?

4 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Yes, but the two black guys are actually the same guy just duplicated

4 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 0

I get that you want to keep the company name off the record, but at the same time, can you please let us know the company? Sounds hilarious.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

It’s not true, it was a reference to Scrubs where they comment their college had almost no black guy so Turk was in some photos twice

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

4 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

There just twins. Twins that wear the same hoodies.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I had something similar happen. Applied w/ salary info, interviewed, got the job… $8k less than I made at the time. I had to pass.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

You don’t have to turn it down right away. Go back and tell them what you want. Last time I switched jobs, they couldn’t match my salary

4 years ago | Likes 81 Dislikes 0

Demand (which was 18% over prior) but they offered me 12% over my expiring pay, plus tons of PTO, work from home, and lots of other stuff

4 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

That was important to me. Not to mention, I got good vibes from the company and it turned out to be a great fit!

4 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

Good moves... Always gotta consider the full compensation package, it's never entirely about the money

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yea, she has multiple irons in the fire right now, so slow playing these people to give a chance to get offers from the others

4 years ago | Likes 51 Dislikes 1

You might not always get salary but could negotiate extra week vacation for lots of experience

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

That doesn't feel like enough to me, and I'm at a shit job that gets no PTO.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I'd rather take a 10% increase on my salary over an extra 5 days of vacation. that's not at all equivalent

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

My point was if the salary is truly at a cap often times they can get you other perks if they want you bad enough

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

They could come back with a better offer if she turns it down mentioning that it is below her requirement.

4 years ago | Likes 631 Dislikes 1

I've had this happen. I don't regret it and I do. A good environment is sometimes worth a little less. But I know I shouldn't settle...

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Then use that as the starting point for negotiations

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

But they won’t, they’ll find somebody to work for cheaper, have you never had a job before? Lol that’s how business works, cheapest possible

4 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 110

Yah, no. Job searches cost money, and smart businesses do not throw away a good hire they can afford for "maybe we can get cheaper"

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Started a new job 2 months ago at 20% more than I used to make, & they just gave me another 10% raise to make sure I don't look elsewhere.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

This attitude sinks companies, they're free to look elsewhere, but skills cost money.

4 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

They’re paying for it in other ways. High turnover, loss of productivity because you have to constantly train new staff etc etc

4 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 1

Employers haven't gotten the message yet, people are being pickier about what they will do and the population of workers is getting smaller.

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

Many have. My new employer is currently shoveling raises, bonuses on staff to retain them. Raises and vacation weeks all around.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sweet! My company has given some raises, but not to everyone...yet

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Pay peanuts then expect a circus.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

My wife is VERY attractive…professionally, so we will see.

4 years ago | Likes 41 Dislikes 4

Im telling her you said this. Enjoy the couch. ;)

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Well now you GOTTA share pics of her... resume.

4 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 1

I was refused a raise at a company. I quit over it and my less skilled replacement couldn't handle the workload.

4 years ago | Likes 43 Dislikes 0

1/ At my last company, I asked for help for 2 yrs. Finally took a job in another dept and warned them they needed at least two people in my

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Yep, When I was 19 I quit a job at a lunch on restaurant i was working and they had to hire three people. Being overworked sucks.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Owner had just purchased land for an expansion. Last I checked they were two years behind on expanding and counting.

4 years ago | Likes 31 Dislikes 0

All because he wouldn't give me a cost of living adjustment that included enough to cover my rent increase.

4 years ago | Likes 27 Dislikes 0

2/ role. After 3 wks, the CEO begged me to go back and run a team of 4 people to do what I had done for 5 total. They told me to name my

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

3/3 price, but rejected every request. I took an infuriatingly small raise and put in my notice two weeks later.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

What the fuck? "We need you! Name your price!... Not that price... No, not that price either. Almost there, just a little lower... Great!"

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yup. And to make it worse, the new role was one I had been working towards for two years. Even moved 2000mi for it. They sucked.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yea. She told the hiring manager already, unclear if this offer was a test. She’s going to politely decline and say “give me more”

4 years ago | Likes 250 Dislikes 1

Yeah, hold your ground. I did this and got then to meet me at my "minimum" (which was where I actually wanted to be).

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Had a grocery store do this time. Three interviews, and they had to call the hiring mgr in on his day off to tell me the lower amount. 1/2

4 years ago | Likes 77 Dislikes 1

I walked.

4 years ago | Likes 71 Dislikes 1

Mmmm. Porn.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 4

I'd have her up her starting minimum price since you now know they are willing to low ball her from the start of her career with them

4 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

I had this happen in July. They immediately came up to the very bottom of my range. I still declined. It's offensive.

4 years ago | Likes 157 Dislikes 1

It signals how you'd be treated. "Hey, here's what I NEED, but more is better!" "Here's less than you need." "No?" "Okay just testing ya."

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

You have to wonder what their raise policy is with that kind of behavior.

4 years ago | Likes 95 Dislikes 0

Oh, it was great bc they also eliminated the next level up they had "guaranteed" a promotion to after 6 months since it was a lateral move.

4 years ago | Likes 30 Dislikes 0

I tell recruiters that I currently make (slightly below desired salary) so they necessarily have to go higher or fuck off. Saves time.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

It shouldn't matter what I make now. Legally, they can't ask either. It should matter what the market anchor is and what I asked for.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Exactly. They can't ask. So I can tell them whatever I want, and either they give me more than what I'm "asking" for or I save time.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Had it happen to me. They low balled me by about 15k. They said they had the wrong paperwork when I declined. Buncha butts!

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0