11910 pts ยท April 20, 2019
European, cat and coffee lover, usually tired as shit. I mute accounts who post nothing but politics or news, I'm here for memes. (And cats.) Nothing personal, kid.
They've owned Bungie since 2022 yeah.
I was bored enough to go and look up the artist and it looks like these are *actually* just models for bronze casting:
Possibly even more unpopular opinion: I also don't appreciate a book/painting/piece of music for how hard or time consuming it was to create, but for the impact the finished work has on me. Also, "having ideas and letting other people realise them" is absolutely a thing in art? E.g. singers not necessarily being good songwriters, but that doesn't make them lesser artists. IDK but Chuck sounds like a gatekeeping hipster that's bitter about people not praising him enough.
Bold of you to assume anyone would want someone having a crashout over "too many words" in the first place.
You can also see it by how the guy interacts further, which is why I didn't take the bait. It's all just a trap so he can pull the gotcha of "oh, so are you telling me my feelings don't MATTER and my preferences aren't VALID?!". Which is not what was being asked or discussed at all.
It's commonly seen transphobe bait which is why it's sus to mention it when nobody asked about dating preferences. It implies that there's "true women" and "trans women", and that a core part of female identity is to be attractive to others. You wouldn't bring up "oh but I'm not INTO brown eyes" on a post about brown eyes, right?
Feels weird to bring that up in a post specifically about trans women, specifically not about "who is attracted to who".
I mean not to be that person... but "if someone shows an amount of skin then they want us to look at it" is probably the very thought process being criticized. I don't know the creator or their intended audience, so sure, it's maybe barking up the wrong tree. But I'd tread carefully with the assumption that showing skin always equals consent/encouragement of lewd commentary.
Yeah #4 and #5 are really weird given that the dump is otherwise super progressive themed. Guys (and Enbys and Girls) can have hobbies and friends of other genders beside their partner, let's not normalise possessiveness.
Except for the part where they didn't have that band from the niche genre of metal you were into, or judgy clerks gave you weird looks if you didn't dress the part or weren't a burly tattooed dude. I prefer Bandcamp at the end of ot all tbh.
The book itself wasn't even banned, the copyright holders (the state of Bayern) prohibited all German reprints. Owning and selling pre-1945 copies has always been legal though, and still is to my knowledge. The full text has since become public domain, which is why it has been outlawed to reprint the work unabridged and unaltered. Critical editions with annotations are permitted though and the latest is from 2020, I think.
That is besides the point if marriage itself is the dealbreaker. Just because an option is "better" on paper doesn't mean it's the best choice for the individual and their situation.
Not OP so not speaking for them, but some may not want to change their legal status for whichever reasons, or don't want the full sharing of rights/responsibilities that comes with marriage. I personally don't like the cultural baggage attached to marriage, and am very "meh" about becoming a joint household, but still would like visitation rights etc.
I'm fine with having the label ADHD, but I reject the label "neurodivergent". It too often seems a circlejerk around a black&white divide that doesn't really exist in real life.
I wouldn't say I have an identity crisis over it. But the way I talk and act around my artsy and mature friends vs how I sound when playing online games with my buddies is... rather different, yes. It's basically different cultures and social norms across communities, and people from one might be weirded out by the other, so my demeanor kinda changes depending who I talk to.
I like this, especially the sun rays coming through the trees.
And this is why I could never get into series back in the day. I do not want bite-sized servings of a plot over the course of 5 years which are half recaps anyway, because of course everyone forgets the details in the meantime. I watch and read stories at my own pace, or not at all.
Honestly, as someone born in '90 who grew up in a small town, it did kinda suck. You were stuck with the local kids, so if no one shared your interests or you were bullied? Tough shit, not much point in going to play outside by yourself, so enjoy re-reading the same 10 books over and over. By and large it was pretty damn boring, and I don't miss those times.
Yeahhh... I've seen plenty of people who *believe* they are constantly being slighted and mistreated, and then complain that their assholery is not being taken well when they "only do the same thing back". At this point I'm not trusting anyone who fuels the flames rather than leave the burning house, so to speak.
"They should have taught us taxes, repairing and how to cook instead of this useless literary shit, biology and physics" - usually a person who believes vaccines cause autism, 5G towers cause cancer, and lack the reading comprehension to not fall for that hogwash.
They also won't work against actual narcissists who will just seize the opportunity to take up the slapfight about your "boundaries" or your aggressive language, and win by being way more versed in these arguments than you. If a simple "No, I don't want this" won't suffice, then neither will any of those lines, because they're really not the mic drop conversation enders the author thinks. Especially if you already had to practice them.
It may be blasphemy to say this, but I (woman) honestly think certain styles of dresses + skirts just look frumpy with pockets on them, and whatever you put in there would look like a weird growth. If I absolutely need to carry something, and I can't even bring a small bag - chances are, pants are better suited to that occasion anyway. So unless we're talking about pants, pockets are kinda overrated imo.
It also leaves out that there is also *bad* science - studies funded by third parties, researchers with their own biases, eminent authorities in fields who don't like being questioned and so on and so forth. Never mind that popular reporting may distort findings further. I really like science but I greatly dislike how some try to make it into the secular man's religion where it's always correct and provides easy answers.
No, no one ever is "too broken" to not be physically violent towards their family, an obsessive stalker, and such like. If they are aware of having that potential to hurt someone and don't contain it, either because they don't care or think "why should I treat the world better than it treated me" - fuck them. That is a choice, and they don't deserve my sympathy.
Well, my takeaway from it is that people are not helplessly formed by their past, it's their own effort that made them into a good person despite whatever have happened. But then the same should be true for the other side of the coin - someone being an asshole also had a choice, and it's not just a matter of "trauma made them that".
Corollary: this also means that a traumatic background is not a free pass to inflict abuse on others, because you do have the choice of being kind despite your trauma. I've never once thought that my experiences would entitle me to spread misery among others, and I reserve the right to not make excuses for people who believe so.
Also 100% certain a dude wrote that - don't know of any woman who ever referred to women as a whole as "females". Especially not in conjunction with sexual themes, that combination's immediately sus to me.
They've owned Bungie since 2022 yeah.
I was bored enough to go and look up the artist and it looks like these are *actually* just models for bronze casting:
Possibly even more unpopular opinion: I also don't appreciate a book/painting/piece of music for how hard or time consuming it was to create, but for the impact the finished work has on me. Also, "having ideas and letting other people realise them" is absolutely a thing in art? E.g. singers not necessarily being good songwriters, but that doesn't make them lesser artists. IDK but Chuck sounds like a gatekeeping hipster that's bitter about people not praising him enough.
Bold of you to assume anyone would want someone having a crashout over "too many words" in the first place.
You can also see it by how the guy interacts further, which is why I didn't take the bait. It's all just a trap so he can pull the gotcha of "oh, so are you telling me my feelings don't MATTER and my preferences aren't VALID?!". Which is not what was being asked or discussed at all.
It's commonly seen transphobe bait which is why it's sus to mention it when nobody asked about dating preferences. It implies that there's "true women" and "trans women", and that a core part of female identity is to be attractive to others. You wouldn't bring up "oh but I'm not INTO brown eyes" on a post about brown eyes, right?
Feels weird to bring that up in a post specifically about trans women, specifically not about "who is attracted to who".
I mean not to be that person... but "if someone shows an amount of skin then they want us to look at it" is probably the very thought process being criticized. I don't know the creator or their intended audience, so sure, it's maybe barking up the wrong tree. But I'd tread carefully with the assumption that showing skin always equals consent/encouragement of lewd commentary.
Yeah #4 and #5 are really weird given that the dump is otherwise super progressive themed. Guys (and Enbys and Girls) can have hobbies and friends of other genders beside their partner, let's not normalise possessiveness.
Except for the part where they didn't have that band from the niche genre of metal you were into, or judgy clerks gave you weird looks if you didn't dress the part or weren't a burly tattooed dude. I prefer Bandcamp at the end of ot all tbh.
The book itself wasn't even banned, the copyright holders (the state of Bayern) prohibited all German reprints. Owning and selling pre-1945 copies has always been legal though, and still is to my knowledge. The full text has since become public domain, which is why it has been outlawed to reprint the work unabridged and unaltered. Critical editions with annotations are permitted though and the latest is from 2020, I think.
That is besides the point if marriage itself is the dealbreaker. Just because an option is "better" on paper doesn't mean it's the best choice for the individual and their situation.
Not OP so not speaking for them, but some may not want to change their legal status for whichever reasons, or don't want the full sharing of rights/responsibilities that comes with marriage. I personally don't like the cultural baggage attached to marriage, and am very "meh" about becoming a joint household, but still would like visitation rights etc.
I'm fine with having the label ADHD, but I reject the label "neurodivergent". It too often seems a circlejerk around a black&white divide that doesn't really exist in real life.
I wouldn't say I have an identity crisis over it. But the way I talk and act around my artsy and mature friends vs how I sound when playing online games with my buddies is... rather different, yes. It's basically different cultures and social norms across communities, and people from one might be weirded out by the other, so my demeanor kinda changes depending who I talk to.
I like this, especially the sun rays coming through the trees.
And this is why I could never get into series back in the day. I do not want bite-sized servings of a plot over the course of 5 years which are half recaps anyway, because of course everyone forgets the details in the meantime. I watch and read stories at my own pace, or not at all.
Honestly, as someone born in '90 who grew up in a small town, it did kinda suck. You were stuck with the local kids, so if no one shared your interests or you were bullied? Tough shit, not much point in going to play outside by yourself, so enjoy re-reading the same 10 books over and over. By and large it was pretty damn boring, and I don't miss those times.
Yeahhh... I've seen plenty of people who *believe* they are constantly being slighted and mistreated, and then complain that their assholery is not being taken well when they "only do the same thing back". At this point I'm not trusting anyone who fuels the flames rather than leave the burning house, so to speak.
"They should have taught us taxes, repairing and how to cook instead of this useless literary shit, biology and physics" - usually a person who believes vaccines cause autism, 5G towers cause cancer, and lack the reading comprehension to not fall for that hogwash.
They also won't work against actual narcissists who will just seize the opportunity to take up the slapfight about your "boundaries" or your aggressive language, and win by being way more versed in these arguments than you. If a simple "No, I don't want this" won't suffice, then neither will any of those lines, because they're really not the mic drop conversation enders the author thinks. Especially if you already had to practice them.
It may be blasphemy to say this, but I (woman) honestly think certain styles of dresses + skirts just look frumpy with pockets on them, and whatever you put in there would look like a weird growth. If I absolutely need to carry something, and I can't even bring a small bag - chances are, pants are better suited to that occasion anyway. So unless we're talking about pants, pockets are kinda overrated imo.
It also leaves out that there is also *bad* science - studies funded by third parties, researchers with their own biases, eminent authorities in fields who don't like being questioned and so on and so forth. Never mind that popular reporting may distort findings further. I really like science but I greatly dislike how some try to make it into the secular man's religion where it's always correct and provides easy answers.
No, no one ever is "too broken" to not be physically violent towards their family, an obsessive stalker, and such like. If they are aware of having that potential to hurt someone and don't contain it, either because they don't care or think "why should I treat the world better than it treated me" - fuck them. That is a choice, and they don't deserve my sympathy.
Well, my takeaway from it is that people are not helplessly formed by their past, it's their own effort that made them into a good person despite whatever have happened. But then the same should be true for the other side of the coin - someone being an asshole also had a choice, and it's not just a matter of "trauma made them that".
Corollary: this also means that a traumatic background is not a free pass to inflict abuse on others, because you do have the choice of being kind despite your trauma. I've never once thought that my experiences would entitle me to spread misery among others, and I reserve the right to not make excuses for people who believe so.
Also 100% certain a dude wrote that - don't know of any woman who ever referred to women as a whole as "females". Especially not in conjunction with sexual themes, that combination's immediately sus to me.