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30930 pts ยท June 26, 2015


25 I'm a Landscape Designer with the long term goals of getting my Landscape Architects license and doing residential designs. Basically I want to make the prettiest gardens. I'm also a huge nerd. Name some tabletop or video game and, if I haven't played it, I've probably heard of it.

If we can't rely on The Friendship Crouch then what CAN we rely on?!

2 weeks ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

At first I thought you meant the rocks and I was like "don't know if I'd call plate tectonics easy, but okay"

1 month ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Maybe this is a little off-topic, but where did you even find that shirt? Has that been kicking around thrift stores since the 90s or are Rugrats somehow relevant again?

2 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

I drive a car from the early 90s and aside from the Being 30+ Years Old problems it's fantastic. Gas milage is Okay, enough vision through the windows that a backup camera would feel a bit ridiculous, decent cargo space, spare parts are cheap and plentiful, and the smartest and worst part about the thing is the Transmission Control Units tend to die and that could be solved by just getting it swapped to a manual transmission.

2 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Look I won't tell you not to pursue a career that makes you money, but hear me out on being overqualified: you're allowed to lie about how qualified you are and if that means they want to pay you less you're allowed to work less hard to meet their expectations.

2 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

That first one is (kinda) life in 2026 if you have Too Much Money. Toto made a toilet that flushed using a remote instead of a lever and if your remote broke you couldn't flush. Had a client this happened to.

3 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Buddy of mine is a massage therapist and a large part of his pay is tips so he just doesn't make it obvious what his political views are and it's wild what people will admit to believing if you're a white guy who doesn't immediately tell them to fuck off.

3 months ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

See people say that a lot, but summer enjoyers don't seem to have any issues making personal arrangements to avoid what's perceived to be unpleasant about summer, but somehow when people who have trouble cooling off are suffering it's acceptable to make that everyone's problem.
If someone has trouble staying warm in winter, that's a skill issue. If someone has trouble staying cool in summer, that's a personal attack by the planet and society.

3 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Why did we as a society decide it's acceptable to hate summer but not acceptable to hate winter? Complain about winter and a dozen people will tell you to wear more layers and talk about how much they love huddling under a blanket with a hot drink, but complain about summer and you and anyone who agrees with you will get told that summer sucks actually and you're wrong and you just don't get it that fall of winter are the best actually.

3 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

We just not gonna talk about why there's a security camera in a bedroom like that?

3 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No worries, logging of is probably good for you lmao. DM me your timezone so I can figure out if that would work well and I might actually go through the trouble of updating Warframe for the first time in 2026.

By the way, Shift+Enter lets you go down a line without actually posting

3 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

What if magic was cyberpunk and what if a commentary on the cycle of violence and the necessity of God respectively. Both beautifully voice acted if audio books are your thing, I hope you enjoy them and if it turns out we have similar taste definitely let me know next time you need recommendations; I have an Excel sheet of like 300 titles in place of a bookshelf and I'm always happy to talk books.

3 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well I ran out of characters in my first comment, but since you've already read my top recommendation, have you read either The Founders trilogy or The Divine Cities trilogy by Robert Jackson Bennet?

3 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I hadn't, been too distracted with so many other books. Since I already know i like his work I'll add that to the list of books I actually intend to read instead of the list of books I tell people I'm going to read to be polite.

3 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Children of Time by Adrian Tchaikovsky.
Quick heads up, skip this one if you have moderate or stronger arachnophobia. Otherwise it's one of if not *the* best work of science fiction I've ever read. I had a terrible time, I couldn't put it down. I personally believe the ideal way to experience it is as an audio book and you should listen to it until you want to do anything but experience more of The Horrors and then listen to it for another 30-60 minutes at a time.

3 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Like other people have pointed out, most people who can see which way the wind is blowing can't afford a new car and this isn't going to do anything to convince people who are opposed to cleaner alternatives for culture war reasons.
Like not to be a doomer, but this won't fix the problem. Never stop pointing to this as a strong reason *to* fix the problem, but it won't just magically get fixed by people seeing the light, it will take years of work still.

3 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

No seriously, 12 is an extremely useful number! 10 is cleanly divisible by 2, 5, and 10 but 12 is cleanly divisible by 2, 3, 4, 6, and 12. 10 tends to make cleaner math for accounting, but imperial makes human scale objects much more intuitive to measure, scale, and proportion to be pleasant to interact with.

3 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

It's inferior for science and engineering for sure, but the smaller imperial units are all based roughly on how things feel at a human scale and because they're base 12 are extremely easy to divide so in my opinion they make better buildings and furniture.

3 months ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 24

It's not just Israel, any invading military can and do order civilians in what they plan to be combat zones to evacuate.
But it is only Israel that would invade a neighboring nation with the intent to "defensively" seize land and resources.

3 months ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

It's better to fail the first time because if you get it right the first time and fuck it up the second time you'll feel even worse.

4 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Even if this specific video is (and I'm pretty sure it isn't), I know for a fact that those birds do actually do this. I don't know where or when this was filmed, but there's a whole season in Australia where magpies just decide to fuck people's lives up.

4 months ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Do you think people moved to Bluetooth headphones because they prefer it or because they weren't really given much of a choice and everyone hates needing a dongle to both charge their phone and listen to music a the same time?

4 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I'm not even sure it can. Like part of what defined it was clothes being so cheap you could just replace them in a year when they wore out so I kinda doubt there's all that many surviving original pieces for kids to get and make popular again.
I hope cell phones with SD card slots and headphone jacks come back tho.

4 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

That's because you're assuming nationalists hold the same fundamental ideas as you, they do not. To a nationalist there is no such thing as equality; you are better than someone and dominate them or you are worse and are dominated. Your nation and national identity can place you higher on that hierarchy and so the obvious thing to believe is that their nation is the best possible one. There's more, but there's only so many characters in a comment and hours in a day to explain this.

4 months ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

The short answer that only leads to more questions is we're told that anger is the only acceptable emotion.

4 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

What you're describing is a commune and will require SO MUCH planning because land and buildings and communities require maintenance (both physical and social/emotional).
You're gonna want to essentially plan a small government.
To be clear: I encourage you to give it a shot at least on paper, just because it'll be hard doesn't mean it isn't worth doing, but do keep in mind that if you come at this like planning housemates for a few years of college everyone involved is gonna have a bad time.

4 months ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 1

Who the fuck is out here down voting you for like the mildest possible take? I mean I'm guessing it's the puritans since from my experience of them they're the kind of people who think the ideological equivalent of mayonnaise is spicy, but I mean it *could* be another group

5 months ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 5

Personally I'd recommend not writing more on it. People have a lot of strong feelings about it and no matter what stance you take I'm pretty sure you'll attract attention from insufferable if well-intentioned people more than you'll spread helpful education about the legitimate impacts of and arguments against porn consumption.
Anyway, thanks for the response and humoring my arguably tastelessly off-topic comment.

5 months ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 14

Genuine question @OP, your title could be interpreted as being generally anti-porn, is that just a coincidence and me being a smut-enjoyer reading too much into it? Or, if that is the case, why do you feel that way?

5 months ago | Likes 26 Dislikes 15

No, but I live somewhere very dry so irrigating that way seems incredibly wasteful to me.

5 months ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1